cuckysgirl
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#4 · Edited by: cuckysgirl
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quotes from a really good source that helped me a lot when i was first trying to understand where my husband was coming from.
"Humiliation is, in my opinion, simply mental s&m. Why would someone choose to be "disciplined," and find it to be sexually exciting? If you can understand that, you can understand the lure of offense as a sexual stimulus. And if a man seeks to be humiliated, what could be more humiliating than seeing, or hearing, or learning of his wife choosing another man to bed? If the experience includes the wife acknowledging that her lover is better endowed, or a better lover than her husband, the offense is complete."
"Being cuckolded is often a display of total submissiveness, with the added element being that at least one other permister (the lover) knows of the cuckold's role. Cuckolds may take pleasure in serving their wife and, in some cases, her lover as well. If a permister wishes to experience presentation, bringing breakfast in bed to his wife and her lover would surely fit the bill; and if he wants to feel dominated by his wife, having her tell him to leave them alone so they could make love undisturbed would be almost unbearably exciting! In addition, the knowledge that she can do whatever she wants with regard to sex, while he is restricted to only what she approves for him, is probably the ultimate in presentation: he turns over his genitals to her, while she offers no such commitment in return."
i'm not sure if i can link another cuckold forum on this one. so i won't out of courtesy to this forum. but a google link of the word cuckold will yield you a fountain of information.
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Peter C
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I have been with my wife for over 18 years. She has had 7 lovers - I was no. 6. My cock is 7 inches, which she says is the biggest she's had.
When I encouraged her to fuck someone else, I don't think it was from a desire to be humiliated, but I was extremely aroused by the thought of another guy taking my wife to bed and fucking her. She chose a much younger guy who's cock was about 6", but he did fuck her 3 times in one evening, which I can't manage at my age.
The thought of my wife being "naughty" is my greatest turn-on, even though she won't repeat the experience. She knows I'd still let her and she still lets us fantasise about it in bed. By the way, she doesn't want to know if I fuck other women, so my experiences have to be kept secret. The thought of me fucking someone elsedoesn't appeal to her at all. Peter C
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