We've never used a Feeldoe, but as a second hand account, I've heard that they can be difficult to operate. My wife and I are Vac-u-lock fans. This is what we have, and I can vouch for the product permisterally --
The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!The main benefits to this 'unit'
are that:
a) the Vac-u-lock system keeps the dong sternly attached to the pelvic area, which means her movements are transferred through the dong giving her more accuracy and control. It also means she gets a little more clitoral stimulation.
b) the material used for this dong is THE BEST. I'm no scientist, so I couldn't rattle off what makes it so good, it's just the best, and I've had tons of toys. Trust.
c) although my wife doesn't usually like using the inserts, I had a girlfriend before we met who fucked me with both inserts in and she could cum while fucking me. That was a pretty epic experience.
Never forget, lube is your best friend when it comes to getting fucked. Also, you should play with your own ass to get it ready for fucking. Focus on relaxing your muscles and take your time. It's not a race. If you do too much to fast, it can really ruin the whole session. Also moving on it once it's in usually helps it feel better for me... eventually, you'll be a true slut for your mistress and be backing that ass up in no time.
Hope this helps, happy fucking!
S.o.F
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