How do I encourage my wife?

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From your writing, seems to me the seeds of her interest in his seed are already laid. You must simply let time pass and before you know it she will be getting laid, without you. That said, realize that there will be a loss of respect for you. From first hand experience, your wife will see you differently as you both struggle with the confusion of doing something so different from the principles you both likely have about marriage.

Dont just let nature take its course. You dont want her to have an affair behind your back.

Talk to her about your fantasy and get her on board before letting it happen.

I used to talk to my ex about the guys she found attractive while I was have sex with ehr. It seemed the closer to her orgasm she was the more she would open up. She had many affairs with my knowledge & would tell me about them afterword. The sex didn't break us up it was money that took its toll. But, I know she enjoyed herself as she told me she did. Why not take some nude pictures of your bride & share them here or send to me & I'll let you know what I would like to do to her.
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This is how things kinda got started with my wife and her bf. I would end up leaving them alone from time to time...letting them flirt with each other not having to worry about what I might see or say. Eventually that flirting led to....much happiness

I used sex toys to really have fun with her and wind her up in a way i couldn't. strap-ons and sex talk, while making love to her with the larger than me toy, i would then plant the seed,,,"imagine if this toy was a real cock in you, hot and throbbing, would you like that?" stuff like that. but only say stuff when she is really into it and horned up. Then like a week,month later when she is ovulating have your friend come over. After he leaves have sex and start the role play all over, but now she will have a image of him while you use the toy.
my Ex gf now has 2 lovers and we talk all the time about them and she knows i gert off on it..

my 2c and good luck

Eric

It looks like things might progress into her cuckolding you. Good luck and please keep us posted. Isn't it great being bossed around by the woman you love?

Outstanding!!!

Nice! A very similar thing is happening to me right now.

Try having your friend over, then when you go to pour takes, you'll be out of your favorite beverage, so you'll have to go to the store to get more, but when you get to the store, they'll be out of what you want, so you call and tell your wife that you have to drive across town to get what you'll need. She'll know that she'll have time then.

Let us know how it turns out.

My wife suggests a few Mandingo and Mr.Biggz movies (fucking white girls, of course) to encourage her to take your black friend.

Another option is to take her to an interracial club and tell her to accept dancing with black strangers. Things may just happen, smoothly.

I am in the same need of help with convicing my wife. I may not be as far as "Jim", but I have made some progress.
Like Jim, we have been married 15 years and I dont last long and she is frustrated since I have never given her an orgasim.
She goes topless at beaches, we have sex with the curtains open at hotels, and she has some very sexy cloths we talk about wearing in public. Just lately I have started talking to her about teasing men at bars while she wears revealing cloths. I just bought her a VERY sexy dress that I told her I wanted her to wear to flash men at the bar, or while she is dancing. After trying it on, she said she could only wear it to a dark bar, because when she walks the front slides off her tits.
Two weeks ago she got a massage from a man. I was of course tunrned on and wanted to no the details. I asked her if he was attractive, but she said he was old and no turn on. She does have a friend who gets regular massages from a young attractive guy that rubs her ALL over, even in the shower. She asked me if I wanted her to go to him, and I think I messed up by not asking her if "its what she wants".
All along I have told her that I wanted her to do this and that, but I think I should be saying " I no thats what you want " I know you want to show off your hotwife body".
Please help with advise. I think she will wear a see through top and go to a bar and let me watch her from a distance.
She is very conservative during the day. What else do you recommend to get her to reveal or show off??

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