New to this, seeking some advice...

After thinking again about your question, I think you may want to be careful. Pushing full power into something extreme that your not comfortable with may cause you to lose respect for him. Although my wife and I are not into what your describing to that extreme, we have always found trying a little bit at a time when your comfortible with it to be the best course.

You can kind of tease him and let him know down the road you guys may end up there, but give him a little at a time. It will keep him always wanting more.

You may get use to it if you start it all at once, but will you like the end result is the question.

Good luck.

BTW he is a lot bigger than me.

What I want to know is this: He wants me to humiliate him, be mean and nasty, and just a little more slutty than what I'm used to. Seems like this is pretty normal with some couples, as we do it more and more will it become easier in time?

People are different, and will have different reactions. I'm assuming (sine you ask) you haven't done anything like this before, so it would probably be a good idea to start out modestly, and ramp it up little by little.

I'm wondering if you ask if it becomes easier on him, or easier on you, or both - but I'll work from the assumption that you're asking for yourself.

You will probably very soon find out if it will become easier for yourself - people tend to be either habituated or sensitized to something (i.e. either you become more and more used to it, or conversely it gets more and more difficult for you). It doesn't matter as much how difficult it is in the start, but if it gets worse second time around, that's not a good sign.

So the best way to get your question answered, would be to try it once, and then try again.

The scope for humiliating him would be limited by your fantasy only, really. He wants you to be mean and nasty, and since he's begging for it, you'd do well to take him up on it. If he's the kind of pussy who doesn't know what he wants, that's something which would be nice to find out early in the relationship, after all.

The fact that you're far apart suggests that you can humiliate him by telling him how nice it is to be able to roam free with Real Men all the time, unburdened and undisturbed by his pathetic cocklet.

How you alternate between hours of getting fucked your brains out by some 10 inch muscly stud, and exhaustedly resting and cuddling for a little while afterwards...resting your head on the stud's hard pecs, your hand slides down his abs, and envelope his semi-flaccid penis, marvelling how his cock is even now far larger than your cuckold's erect one. How you and your stud share a wicked laugh over how pathetic cucky is in every way, and that it turns him on to take cucky's girlfriend from him again and again. How you find small photos of cucky smiling naively, and have your stud draw little cuckold horns on them. And how all this turns him on real hard, and you and your stud resume your wild fucking, the stud taking you from behind and grabbing your hair wild powering every last inch of his cock up your ass and pussy, making you scream out how much bigger and better he is compared to cucky!

And when you greet him in permister after his seven hours flight, your perfume mingles with the reek of sex, as if you've spent all of those seven hours fucking someone else than him.