tough question - need help

My husband wants to be my cuckold and I have agreed to do this with/for him. My big question is does anyone out there do this and is actually satisfied by their husband? We have always had great sex but this has been a fantasy of his. I must admit it is a huge turnon but everything I read that people post is that sex with their spouse sucks and they aren't happy. I would give my email to you if you would be willing to chat and shed some light on how to do this right and know your satisfied.

patti

my wife and I are in the same boat. Our sex is great. [email protected]

cuckoldcpl61802
I dont know whether you have any swinging experience,if not make sure it's what BOTH OF YOU want.Dont do it just to please him,we have seen many relationships end when it goes pearshaped because one partner only did it to please the other.As you can tell from our posts it's taken a long time for us to reach our happy cuckold lifestyle,and we would drop it without a second thought if either of us expressed any doubts.
If you think your husband can handle seeing you with another mans cock in your,mouth,pussy or ass,then go for it.
As for us were having a whale of a time.
Good luck,hope it works out for you,please let us know what you get up to.
Billie+the Slut

I don't have any doubts about doing this. The thought actually turns me on. My real concern is that we really enjoy our sex life together. It appears that everything I read online most wives are doing this because they do not enjoy sex with their partners.

We are very ready to do this. Looking for a male for me. Any suggestions on websites to use?

Patti

Patti, my wife and I enjoyed our sex life together, also. But with a 5 in. penis which is slim, I had a hard time pleasuring her with penetration, especially after 2 youngren. When she finally admitted that my penis was inadaquate for her, it aroused me that she could be so truthful and honest and trust me enough to want her to tell me the truth. It was like a sexual ephiphny for both of us. Finally a woman was honest enough with me tell me my dick was to small to satisfy her but still loved me enough to want to stay with me. Our life has evolved from this point and we both love our roles. By te way, what size is yur husbands penis. Is it big enough and r u curiously excited to want o try larger cocks.

No, his size is great. Our sex life is fantastic. I couldn't want more. He has had a long time desire to be a cuckold, to have someone control him sexually. Larger doesn't always mean better sex. I am sure that will get lots of comments from men but it is true

cuckoldcpl61802


I am a passive partner and enjoy it when my wife has fun, She has a regular lover who she has sex with once or twice a week. She then comes home and we have fantastic sex. We are the opposite to the norn as I have the bigger penis and he just warms her up for me. He does not know that I am aware of him shagging my wife and when I meet his socially it blows my and his mind. The main point is when she comes home after a session ( bareback) she is wet and slippery and horny.... awesome. Go for it you will both enjoy it...

B.

Sex with my wife has always been great, but improved when I suggested she shagged someone else. We enjoyed the fantasy in bed, but when I suggested we do it for real, my wife was quite reluctant. Eventually though, I convinced her that I was serious, so when she was chatted up by a young lad, she came home and told me. We agreed that if he asked her out, that she would go out on a date with him. Sure enough, This lad of 23 (my wife was 35), asked her out and very soon took my wife to bed. She had, and still has, a thing about younger guys, so to get shagged three times in one evening by this lad was great for her too. He didn't know I knew about it, but it was such a turn-on having her fucked by him. At the end of the day, I realised that it wasn't the thought of her having sex with someone else that would upset me (quite the opposite), but the lies and deception if she had an affair behind my back. She hasn't fucked anyone else since but still has my permission. As long as I now what she is doing, that's fine.
Peter C

I agree with Peter. My wife enjoys it and I enjoy her enjoying it. Just between us concenting adults. No lies or deceit just horny fun...

To just put my two cents worth in for cuckoldcpl61802 you have some legitimate concerns. Not all of these types of relationships are based on the wife not being happy with the husband's sexual performance. Sometimes a guy is just a natural voyeour who just enjoys seeing his wife involved in sex with other guys.
This is my case, and I find that one of the biggest sexual turn ons for me is seeing my wife being fucked by an able stud. Sex with her has not stopped. On the contrary it has gotten better, as I get so turned on by her doing it with another guy, that when I finally get my turn at that pusy I really perform like a pro and she later compliments me on my sexual powers. She knows that fucking another guy brings the natural out in me, and she does not waste an opportunity to perform for me whenever possible. She has become a constant flirt, and the turn on for her is in knowing that if she's able to take the guy to bed with me there to watch she's in for a fantastic night of wild sex with two men.

The more you dominate us, the more we love you. It's part of guy-think. Even the most macho commando is emotionally attacarbonsmudged to his commanding officer.

That's why guys fall all over themselves for bitchy girls. And pro athletes for that matter.

Patti,
Thanks for your thoughts. I think much of what has been said above is very helpful. There may be many motives for cuckolding as well as many ways to cuckold. I think it is good that you talk this issue out thoroughly before proceeding. Would love to chat more with you. Feel free to write me at: [email protected]

Great shoes Kellie

I don't have any doubts about doing this. The thought actually turns me on. My real concern is that we really enjoy our sex life together. It appears that everything I read online most wives are doing this because they do not enjoy sex with their partners.

We are very ready to do this. Looking for a male for me. Any suggestions on websites to use?


Don't take much notice of the things you read on sites Patti love, my wife and I have been swinging for years and both enjoy each other as much as we always did if not more. I love the feel of her when she's wet and loose form other men, she loves the added boost of sex with her hubby after another man/men. We fuck like teenagers still darling, and I make her cum as easily as I always did, of course I fake all my orgasms

When searching for a stud/bull a website that I think lists LOTS of potential well hung guys is Adult Friend Finders. It has free join in section in which you are somewhat limited, and a paying section with more features. Since you are the couple, then you are in the driver's seat, as there are somewhere around 6 men for every woman on the site, and those horny studs will do just about anything to meet a willing couple with a hot wife. We ran an ad and had TONS of responses from guys who were more than ready and willing to do my wife while I watch. Good luck.
Kellie, about the shoes...they are so HOT!! WOW...did someone make those for you? I absolutely love them!

GO FOR IT HONEY!!! My hubby is my little femme girlfriend now always in panties, lingerie, painted toes and perfume with matching ankle braclets. I call her Jess and Jess does not have any man underwear at all I made Jess throw them out in the laundrymat how humiliating for Jess. I love showing Jess' panties off as well as her painted toes when the weather is nice. Our sex life has always been top notch as Jess has always been bi and now I get total control over her and it has afforded me some very nice comforts I have no male ego stuff to deal with ever again I have succeeded in femenizing the man I love in exchange for one other man I love and any others that tickle me in the right places. It's a blast and even though Jess' size is not of concern she is about 8 inches with a nioce curve that hits the right spots I still tell her how much better the other men are that fuck me and it really gets Jess off and orgasm denial has been so much fun also Jess can only cum shen I say she can and only then and with out chastity devices. Have fun and enjoy the ride it is truly wild and worth it... Jeanne;)
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

HI I'm new to this and was also surprised by the amount of women claiming their husbands had small dicks. My husband is well endowed and we have always had great imaginative sex. But this is just somehting that has always turned us both on. It has surprised me how my husband seems to like to be told that sex with other men is better than it is with him (it took me a long while to work that out, he pretty much had to say it for me at first). He does like to be dominated to a certain extent in bed, and after reading these posts, I am wondering whether this side to his sexual arousal (getting humiliated) is more important than I had realised.
Anyway, if it helps, we are in the same boat, great sex between the two of us, but still looking for fun elsewhere - it only seems to make our own sex better.
Good luck!

Possibly the man becomes less sexually relevant to the woman as his share of her is now less than 100%. The remaining percentage is held by one or more men. Capable of upstaging him sexually. She loves her man but......

Possibly the woman loses sexual relevancy to the man. She may become a vehicle to his bi and homosexual urges, which only seem to grow. He loves her but......

Could be that they subconciously seek the same thing. A man.

Just one clown's opinion, folks.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Perhaps an educated guess.....
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Make sure your relationship is strong!!!

Good luck.
Baby he is sooooo big!

Oh and it is what you BOTH want.

Vicki
Baby he is sooooo big!

My wife and I have a great sex life. In fact I am bigger and have more stamina than both of her BF's.

And also you don't cuckold him for "him". You do it for YOU.

The recuring theme of the wife taking to cuckolding because her husband doesn't satisfy her is mostly posts writen by men who are projecting their fantasy. Some large fraction of the community is into being shamed by a dominant woman as part of the fantasy. If you have a great sex life and the two of you want to spice it up with some cuckold-flavored experiences, go for it.
darslangly

I would agree with DarsLangly. I don't think very many wives actually move to cuckolding because their huband doesn't please them.....HOWEVER... Comming from permisteral experience, some wives DO stay in it and enjoy it for that reamister. There is no way I would ever want to take what my wife has with her boyfriends away from her. It would be unfair.

Assuming that you have a strong relationship, cuck couples I've been with describe sex after I've been w/ them are absolutely beyond anything they have ever experienced. Other Bull I talk to relate the same experience.