Is it me?

Just a comment on the site...

Seems to me the description of this particular area is "Cuckolding Wives"...makes me think it might be an area mainly for wives, or at least if guys are going to post, that the topics might be those that would be wife-oriented.

Well, might just be me, but seems like most of the posts in here are pretty much the same old things you see in all the other sections of this site. Not to pick on anyone, but as a woman, I'm not too excited to see stories where guys brag about their slutty wives' exploits.

Anyway, just an editorial comment...

ValGal, What are you interested in reading. I'd like to hear what you have in mind and I agree that some of this is just more of the same.

well, the cuckolding wives section, should really be left for the wives to post in I would think. But along the same line, there are a lot of totally unrelated posts all over this and just about every cuckold site
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i Have to agree with Val...I would imagine thats where just the women should be allowed to post. I never really thought of it when looking at the section but your right Val

btw, it good to see you on the boards again!

thanks, imasub2k...I'm not trying to censor or shut anyone up - just seems to me if you guys want to encourage more female participation, an area where the main focus is on topics more of interest to women is probably a good idea.

sad but true alas.. there are so few here such as you ValGal.
forgive me for making this post here in the Wives section of the forum.. tho i am not worthy

You're right, Val.

One of the complicated things about cuckolding is the blurring of boundaries and paradoxical nature of the whole thing.

I think Val makes a good point, maybe its a reflection of the fact that for a lot of people including me we don't quite know whats appropriate at times.

I think shes right though, this section should be a place for women to put their point of view and if men are to comment at all then comments should be wife oriented and not a rehash of similar material in other sections.

Permisterally I would love to read more about what women think.

Couldn't have said it better myself tatlocks.

ValGal - I have been thinking this very same thought as I very much want to hear the wives thoughts. These women are beyond sexy! I already know what the men are thinking - i'm one of them!
I wish there was a way to solicit more from the girls.

ValGal: Not, it's not you. It's just that nobody else can read.
I'm with you 100% on this one. The topics here here should at least be all started by cuckoldresses.

true. some of these idiots chime in when they're not supposed to.

i've made posts asking women questions so i can get their perspective and get 90% answers from men.

ValGal is right. I suspect that there are not enough legit women on this site to sustain a forum. I'd love to find out I'm wrong.

There will never be a strong representation from women, it's simply a fact of life on the internet.
For most it simply isn't worth the hassle of men hassling them all the time.

Regarding the specific subject of 'cuckolding wives' - it's a slightly ambiguous title to start with, and even if it said "Wives only" it wouldn't make any difference... men would still appear.

The whole site is becoming plagued with postings trying to draw attention to other sites, and professional video / photos. None of which (IMO) is related to cuckolding. It's a purely commercial offering, which to me, is false / fake.

I do like the site, but can't say I think very highly of most of the people. Half the postings smack of fantasy, and half the bulls seem a little too preoccupied with affirming what magnificent bulls they are... quite funny though.

Can anybody REALLY be surprised there's a lack of decent quality input when the subject is sexual? Even if more women were to consider posting, only 10% would be genuine women.

I truly wish it were different, but I think we just have to settle for the reality that this is the internet, and we just have to make the most of a bad situation. There will never be a strong female presence, there will always be 1000 men lusting over any woman who shows up, and sycophantic compliments will abound, and I will always be a grumpy b'stard.

My wife stays away from here now (she used to share my account, then have one of her own) because of the extreme creepiness certain people showed whenever she browsed around.

I'm sure everyone's seen it, a thread about Ass Worship will come up and one or two people will be compelled to post pictures of themselves covered in their wife's cuckolds brownie. Someone will post a picture where their feet are visible (not the focus) and someone else will have to talk about how hot the "toe cleavage" is making them. A discussion forms about how to pee standing with a chastity belt on, and someone's got to point out that they use diapers (with many, many more pictures than you could ever want).


Basically this place is fantastic but a lot of people use it as a dumping ground for their nastiest fantasies. That's not bad in itself as far as I'm concerned, but they assume that people talking about chastity belts really want to see a 50 year old guy in diapers. They assume when you posted that picture of yourself on the beach you really wanted someone to start vocally drooling over the space between your toes. They think "Ass worship? That's like deep rimming, which is practically brownie!" and assume you really want to see them covered in someone else's cuckolds brownie.

I think that's the problem most cuckoldresses have with this site. There's no "wading in", there's no adjustment, you'd better be ready to be hit with the craziest legal cuckolds brownie you could ever see. Most aren't, so most leave.

My wife became VERY bored on here rather quickly. She preferes the real thing and your right a lot of people, maybe me included, say some pretty silly things at times. She gets tired of reading the same things over and over.... I guess I don't really blame her, but I wish she would at least update her post here more regularly. But I enjoy actually living the life better. So I don't really push her, I enjoy watching her in action MUCH more.

I would love to hear from the wives and girlfriends on this site - i want to hear from them more often. thats why i come to this particular forum - i like to hear the wives perspective.

Watch Jerry Springer sometime. There are a great deal of comedic characters providing plenty of yuks.

The serious side of the show is the numerous broken hearts, marriages and families occurring because of foolish antics by one or more parties. Much embarrassment also befalls many innocent and unsuspecting people - on national television no less!

At the end of the chicanery, various people stand up and express very astute observations. Others snipe with their "opinions and judgements" of people they'd never have the guts to address alone, face to face. Vox populi... Jerry attempts to infuse wisdom and reamister, but many folk end up going home alone in sorrow.

There are many women on this site. I respect every one of them. Each has her own particular reamister for being a member.

The reamister ValGal's thread has over 230,000 hits is; she articulates the concerns of so many women. When a loved one veers off course, ladies tend to try to hold things together by learning, understanding and adapting.
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It's very interesting to read posts like these. Really, people are trying to find equilibrium in an odd environment. The whole cuckold thing may be small now, but we know that as those who are now in high school and college become spouses that cuckolding is going to grow sharply.

When you think about it, men like it when women "reveal themselves". Many women feel what is nearly a compulsion to "reveal themselves." Women can no more stop themselves from revealing any more than men can stop themselves from looking.

If men were smarter, (and we aren't) we would treat a section like this with respect and pretty largely give feedback that is useful rather than creepy so that women would enjoy sharing their ideas and feelings. When a woman reveals herself she feels very vulnerable. When guys attack or put her down or even put her ideas down, she is not going to be willing to be vulnerable again easily.

One of my afflictions is that I like reading the ideas, thoughts and feelings of women. I find it boring when the talk is all of just "banging" so I enjoy it when I get to enjoy the company of a real woman--a sensual and real woman. Some posts give me the feeling that I am enjoying the mind of a real woman. Others leave me convinced that I am reading what a man thinks a woman thinks. Guys, just so you know, if you think you know what a woman is thinking you have a tremendous opportunity to be wrong. And a woman will only reveal what she feels safe to reveal. So, if you want a place where women express themselves, pay attention to posts like ValGal and some of the others. They are sharing rather than going away and that has tremendous value to those willing to listen and learn. I would love to know someone like ValGal.
BadGirls are more fun

Sweet Donna,
I dont know if you find someone on this site, but I wish you luck. I have heard sites such as Ashley Madimister work better.

I think its great that you told your husband about your desires and Im glad he loves you enough to let you have this adventure. I think it says a lot about your characters.

Again, good luck. I hope you find what you need. Oh yeah, I love your pic.

You are one classy lady. Your husband is very lucky. Although my wife does not cuck me (hopefully someday), I would be happy to offer support to you and your husband if he would like it. Feel free to PM me.

Also, would love to know how things progress. You should start your own thread and update it with your thoughts, your husbands thoughts, and of course your cuckolding activities.

Question: Is it me?

Answer: Absolutely not!

Reamister: Others' lack of sincerity and sensitivity.

Possible solution: Creation of an exclusive Ladies Only forum, similar to the Real Permister's forum.

Women NEED an idiot free place to gather and discuss their concerns regarding cuckoldry and it's effect on their lives!

P(ie OR ea)ce

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