GetAwayFromMe
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I just wondered how many women are actually on this forum. I'm new, and I would love to talk to other ACTUAL women about cucking.
I'm 30, FEMALE (!!), married, and meeting my very first Bull (well, potential Bull, anyway) this Sunday. I'm excited, nervous, wary, and really turned on all at the same time! My husband has been gently trying to turn me on to cucking for what seems like forever. I honestly think the turning point for me was seeing this site and reading posts from all these men who are desperately turned on by this whole thing. Go figure that so many men would get off knowing their wives were getting nailed on the side.
I'm interested in knowing why you choose to cuck, what you get out of it, how it effects your relationship with your husband/partner, and how you go about finding Bulls while being safe.
Thanks in advance to all the ladies!
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Dawn
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On your question.
With permission, I am writing this about my older sister, 42, who has an intense sexual relationship with a family consisting of middle age man, lady and barely adult mister. All are invovled.
My sister has a distant relationship with her husband who travels way too much!
So this is different situation that is usually discussed in this group.
Good luck on your adventure and use common sense.
Little sister
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MaxMan36dd
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Hi, firstly gotta say I'm male. If you'll allow me to go on though... Been interested in this for ages, although perversly I was the really jealous type originally! Met my now wife young, I was 18, she 17 and didn't really get in to talking about this sort of thing till our 30's. Would love to be in your position as is a real fantasy for me, but now in our 40's think the time is fading! Love to chat more (via here) if you like, but leave it up to you.
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newdom
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Hey, I'm fairly new to this but have 5 bulls currently. Husband expressed interest years ago and I poo-poo'd him. Thought he was just being silly and expressing FANTASIES. I never thought he really meant it. So anyway, I had an awakening of sorts, sexually and actually heard what he was saying to me. We talked about it A LOT!!! I wanted to make sure he really, really wanted to see this happen. We discussed emotions, rules, safety, and a million what-if's. We both agreed I would begin looking for a guy. I went onto a kinky website dating service and was pounced on by a million guys. I only responded to ones that sounded nice and had common goals. The very first guy I started chatting with was very open-minded and we emailed for a couple weeks discussing fantasies, schedules, etc. We finally set up a date at a hotel. My husband and I figured if he didn't show up, we still had a room for the afternoon and would make the best of it. Low and behold, he showed up, we had a great time and I am still seeing him to this day 4 months later. I stayed active on that website and joined another less kinky and have had some successes and failures. You chat on-line for a bit, see if you like his permisterality, demeanor then find out if he will follow your rules such as condom use, husband present during sex, husband not present. All those things should be discussed ahead of time. Then get a room and away you go. My hubby absolutely goes wild for this. He even loves the fact that I am chatting filthy with these guys on-line. And when we have a date and he gets to watch another man bury his cock deep inside me, he just about has a heart attack. I honestly think his dick will explode one of these times. And our marriage is so much stronger now. I can't explain it. I can't imagine turning the tables.....me enjoying watching him pleasure another hot chick. Not gonna happen any day soon. But he loves it and loves me more for doing it for him. It started out for him, to fulfill his fantasy once and I found out I loved it so now we both enjoy doing it. And he is much more attentive to me, my needs, the house, etc. He is a happy boy because I fuck other guys. Go figure, but it works. So make sure you are both very clear about all this and if you are both ok, enjoy!!! There are stories of women leaving their hubbies for the other man but if you go into it with the attitude that you are doing this for your hubby and the other guy is just a toy or sex-aid, then have fun. Karen
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newdom
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GetAwayFromMehey if ya wanna chat privately my hotmail is [email protected]
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MaxMan36dd
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Great reply Karen, interesting too. This remains a fantasy only for me. I've talked about it for years - and the nearest I guess is having my wife tell me about sex with a guy she met on holiday just after we started going out. I find it really sexy, although it happened over 20 years ago and in truth I think it bores her silly now! Every now and then we'll have an evening of talking about it "seriously" but that's as far as it goes. What I have made perfectly clear is that if she is unfaithful she must tell me about it - or if she is tempted she shouldn't resist on my behalf, so I live in hope!
How old are you by the way?
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newdom
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MaxMan36dd I am 41 soon to be 42 years old but feel much younger. And MaxMan....don't refer to it as unfaithful....that implies cheating. If she develops feelings for someone first and then has sex with him and then tells you afterwards, that's cheating. It may still turn you on but that's cheating in my book. You must know of the guys she is lusting after and she must tell you everything she is doing for it to be cuckolding. Cheating is sneaking and not wanting YOU involved in it. Don't sell youself short by encouraging an affair. Encourage her instead to be up front with you and give her permission then ask her to tell you everything including when she will be seeing him and does she plan on sex with him and then she must tell you about the sex after if you do not have the privilege of being there for it. Good Luck!!! Karen
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bull4ltr
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Hey to each thier own, no 2 cpls are the same, each situation is unique, honesty up front and u will enjoy all it has to offer A Real Bull for Real Cpl who want LTR..No Wannabees
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