New and need help

I have been in a relationship with a "Dom" for the past year. He thinks he is a Dom but he also enjoys the cuckold thing. I thought I was a sub but he has made me see that I cannot and will not take the subserviance. I am just too aggressive and dominant a permister. I have a very submissive side. I love to be powerd I love the whole mind control aspect. I just am too dominant myself and this causes fights. He has a major foot fetish and altho he loves to eat freshly dumped cum from my used gapping pussy he is a Dom. there was a desription on wickipedia of a dominant cuck that fits him....."In this manifestation, the cuckold is a consummate voyeur... who derives great pleasure from seeing his "hot wife" or partner being pleasured and serviced by another . Although he assumes a submissive role and will often assist during the course of the sex act, the "cuckhold husband" may actually be the controlling, dominant party in the relationship. He may invite, encourage, and initiate consideration of the practice with his partner, and may be the one to make arrangements and approve how, when and with whom his wife may have the intended encounter. In street parlance, he may "pimp" his wife for the encounters he wishes.Often, the excitement of the encounter with third parties is followed by more, very stimulating sex play between the relationship partners. The encounter becomes an aphrodisiac, helping to initiate and enhance further sex play between them, as visions of the encounter are revisited and replayed during subsequent love making sessions"
My question is.... being that I AM such a dominant permister and he gives me what i need as a sub as well. How do i go about using my dominant side to give him what he needs for his cuck side. I dont have much experience being dominant sexually. But in my outside life i am extremely dominant(work, social) He has a very small penis and as i said likes to film and take pics of me being used by many big black bulls and having his "dinner" afterwards in private secretly. Some one help me make this relationship work. I really do love him and him me. We just keep butting heads.

Use your dom side on other men in front of him take comand of them for your dom side and have him take part in on how to make them do what you want! after your finished you cans give your self to him and you will both be happy! ps try role playing every other week or turn one time your boss next time he is on what they need to do for you!
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