Love & Respect

I�m wondering, is it possible for a woman to continue to love and respect the man she�s cuckolding? To appreciate him for everything he provides except sex?

Or is it natural for a woman to lose her respect for the man she�s cuckolding? To want to make him her slave?

The cuckold categories on this site and others seem to imply that the natural progression of a cuckold is to become the woman�s slave.

Now, while I enjoy the fantasy of a bitch dominating and humiliating a cuckold, I�m not sure I want to live that fantasy.

Is it possible to have a loving cuckold relationship?

Itis entirely possible, and in fact likely. there has to be a certain understanding that the woman has the say-so in the bedroom, but other than that, she shoudl be as loving to her husband as a wife shoudl be. The husband is simply making the sacrifice of "she dates, he waits"

I have been married over 35years and my wife has had many lovers which I knew about. I have no desire to watch her and her lovers and our love is as strong as it ever was. The only thing I ever asked her to do was to tell me all the details, which she does, and then we have some glorious sex together.

It is entirely possible to love a man and still cuckold him. This SHOULD be the norm in any good relationship of this nature. I do love my husband deeply and love being married to him. But I DO enjoy thoroughy cucking him in every way, including sexual offense. I want and need sexual variety for true and complete sexual fulfillment [not to mention bigger cocks than his!]

As far as cucking him is concerned: I regularly verbally humiliate him especially about his stubby 5-1/2" teenie weenie...I often boast about my lover's sexually prowess and their ability to make me cum faster and hotter and harder and easier than my husband can do with me...which most lovers of mine do because of my choosiness in picking the BEST and quite heavier hung men...I have made fun of his small dick in the presence of a bigger lover...I have spanked and belted him and made him cut his own switcarbonsmudges...and I have ordered him out of the room or had my lover do it so my man and I could have privacy without my husband distracting us...I also like to spend the night with particularly hot guys...I openly and quite publically flirt with other men I find attractive and in do so front of our friends, too. I have even kissed and made out with other men in public with my husband around and people we know present. I sometimes for punishment make him strip and lay down in the tub and I piss all over him and sometimes make him open his mouth and take from my fountain. And, of course, my cucky boy does "clean-up" duty at my request.

Love and respect and the desire to cuckold your man are NOT exclusive of one another....they can and do co-exist in many relationships. And while I do respect my hubby as a human being and the love of my life, that does not mean I can't be myself around him and let him know who is the sexually dominant permister in this relationship.

I know this is NOT for everybody but it does work for us.

Hope this helps.

XOXO,
Blonde Heat

blonde_heat you are a great wife, your husband should be so proud.

bullcuckolds brownie, get out, let her have her black guy, there's alot of pussy out there man! your selling your cuckolds brownie short. No women has control of your permisteral well being, and if you let them, your a fucking loser!

Someone just had to drag this one out of the archives and through the mud.

Eclat, you're certainly entitled to your opinion, but here it's of little value. Shy_guy probably doesn't belong in this lifestyle, but a lot of people do -- and their wives do love and, yes, actually respect them.

If you can't wrap your head around that concept, what the fuck are you doing posting to a website called "cuckoldplace.com"? Are you a closet fag just trolling for more dick pics, or what?

Maybe you're just trolling, period. Less than a month ago, you told us you were doing "research" into the cuckold lifestyle because you were interested in the psychology of it.

Sincere researcarbonsmudgers don't judge, they observe. Which is where you should have stopped. You didn't stop, so you're not sincere. And since you're so obviously insincere, and I dropped the dime on you, you can expect very few responses to anything else you might post from here on out. Unless you upload some really groovy porn.

Write that into your thesis, biiiatch.

I think so. My mom would always cuddle with my dad and she took time picking out his clothes, haircut, etc. My mom didn't work, she spent her time with other guys. Because my dad accepted it, they never fought, whereas most couples fight all the time.

Being raised that way, of course, every girlfriend I've ever had has dominated me and that's the way it should be. The only way I'm really happy is when she's happy. And a girl doesn't really blossom into a woman until she's in charge!

Have you ever read Venus in Furs? It's a classic about a man to loves a woman so much, it want to be her legal slave, so they travel into Austria where it's still legal. (story set before WWI)

Blonde Heat
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blonde heat is right on point its about fun not pain as long as ur both willing and respect each other afterward thats whats up

just a question for blonde_heat....do u fuck mostly black men? or a mix of all races?