just cucked him and want some help

Mistress C: I enjoy your posts that I have read here: for this boy its essential i am included in a loving relationship if she decides to cheat: love is the most erotic thing, just my opinion.

Rachel,

Your story is very interesting because it is nice and sincere. I think it is great of you that you are making the effort to keep hubby's interests and needs in mind, while simultaneously warming up to a little bit of delightful greediness.

Women usually don't like to give advice to the men in their life, but hypothetically if you could tell him without it getting weird and spoiling the mystery of the situation, what things would you want Matt do, other than just great sex, to enhance your enjoyment of this? And what boundaries would you establish with him that crossing would spoil the fun for you and your husband?

If you really want to test your husband, tell him you are going to fuck his best friend. You said he didn't know Matt,but it might be different with someone he knows. Will this just be known as swinging with only one partner doing it? Tell him when you fuck his best friend he will have to be there. If he doesn't agree than this is just cheating. If he does than power him there, don't just let him know about it after the fact.

rachel76- your story is fantastic. i too enjoy reading about it. please keep us up to date. Also, Mistress C is giving excellent advice. I was a cuckold in a past marriage for about 1 year, so i know a little about it. You seem to be going on a nice easy, slow pace. Enjoy.

We tried the hotwife thing and although we were able to avoid major blowup based on jealousy or whatever, it has damaged our relationship in subtle ways -- at least from my perspective

Bypassing all the issues we had to go through to keep things on track, as I look back on things after about three years, I have to conclude that opening the door to this was a mistake.

First, the fantasy thing that so many men seem to be caught up in on this site dissolves real quick and you are left to deal with some stark realities.

Although they may not say so to your face, most of the people who find out what you are doing think you are a bit weird at best and some sort of a twisted pervert at worst.

And this doesn't even count the people who are doing some of the same things but could get pissed at you for whatever reamister and start talking about your lifestyle to their sexually repressed friends.

But beyond this there is a much more important issue: the issue of what it does to your relationship with your wife.

Even though I've tried to factor out jealousy -- I think I learned to deal with that after a while -- the once close relationship my wife and I had has been damaged in subtle ways.

It's hard to describe, other than we are not as special to each other as we once were.

Although she never flaunts the experiences she has, which I know in many cases go beyond what we do together, there have to be comparimisters.

..Out of deference to my feelings, she's pretty quiet about her experiences, but I know she thinks about them. Keeping these things inside sort of puts me on the outside, if you know what I mean..

I've thought a lot about it and I think it mostly comes down to "the new and exciting." For the guys she goes out with she's new and exciting, and so it ends up being kind of mutual -- at least for a while.

Rachel, I cruise here a lot, and seldom post, mostly because most threads are only worth the porn value. A more serious interchange like this thread is uncommon. Here are a few ideas:

1. Speed: This is something my wife *******s me with. She is very good at teasing me over a few days until I am totally pent up. Then, I finally get a shot to make love. She knows certain positions and ways to tease me that cause me to lose it immediately. All she has to say is something like, "hurry up and cum, so I can make you eat it," or "not only is your dick small, but you probably won't evrn last a minute." Every guy has the whole, "it's not the size, it's how you use it" excuse down to a "T." Break that down, and you can really have some quality humilation.
2. Cell Phone: A very fun gadet. Call him or have him call you in the middle of your sex. Call him and let him know you are checking a cute guy out in the mall. Go the lingere store, and ask him what to buy for your next date, in a way that makes it obvious to him and the lady attending you what's going on. You can get very creative with cell phones.
3. Mother-In-Law: (not an original idea). Do you hate you lady-in-law? A lot of girls do. Call her on the phone while you are going down on Matt or while hubby is cleaning up his mess. Don't even make it obvious to her. You'll know, and better yet, hubby will know who the real woman in his life is now. When your lady in law gets on your nerves, all you gotta do is think "if only she knew??" I wouldn't recomend actually letting her in on it though.
4. Teasing: He may need teased a lot. You shouldn't always be troured. You can make him stand/lay/kneel next to you at night while you read and watch TV while powering him to stay hard for as long as you want. It's a good way to keep him crazy and easy to manipulate when you'd rather be doing something else.
5. Work: Make him wear panties to work. Call him at work and tease him about it. That might work well on days you have dates. I wouldn't do it all the time though.
6. Somebody mentioned big toys. We use a big double-dong a lot. You can enjoy making him suck "your cock" while you get it from a real package. If he cums in you early, make him grab the double trouble and get to work. Five minutes into it, you can make him reverse it and enjoy the flavor.

Just some quirky ideas. Good luck. Later - charm

Rachel all my compliments

a rather sexy thread

would love to know you in permister though

ciao

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rachel your a BBD man's dream girl.;)

Gruntman

I think your perspective is sage and useful here. The cuckolding lifestyle is not for everyone in our society. It takes the right two people and chemistry and an eyes-wide open total communication approach. It will change your relationship, but happily not always in the unfortunate ways that you experienced. I think of it as any kind of risky venture. It has rewards, but risks too, and you may have the greatest time of your life or a lot of regrets, or something in between.
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Well its been a while since I checked in here. I'm glad everyone has enjoyed my post. Actually, quite a lot has happened since I last was on here. If you've read our whole story then you know that I am seeing a man named Matt and that my husband has known since the start and is now my cuckold. Matt didn't know that my husband Alex knew about our affair. That has changed. Right after Christmas I was out for dinner with Matt on a night that Alex was "working late" (actually at home watching our kids) and I told Matt that my husband had figured out that I was having an affair. I explained that Alex and I had talked it through and that I had simply explained to my husband that his little penis is not adequate for the job and that I was going to keep getting what I wanted. Obviously Matt was more than a bit concerned at first. I can't say I blame him. I think that would be the natural reaction. I think Matt had a tough time accepting that my husband was just going to step aside and let him keep fucking me. You know what finally drove it home for Matt? I was talking with him on the phone two days later and he was still acting like he didn't believe me, so I told him to hang on and I put Alex on the phone and made him thank Matt for doing what he isn't man enough to handle himself. That did the trick! It also gave me a partner to help humiliate my husband because Matt's respect for Alex completely vanished. He sat on the phone and heard me tell my husband to leave me alone so I could plan a date. That weekend we arranged for the kids to stay with the grandparents and I told Alex to clean the house while I went to the movies with my MAN. It was awesome. Instead of a quickie in the car after the movie or a hit and run screwing at Matt's house after a date, I brought Matt home with me. It was awkward for about three minutes but to his credit Matt took to it like a duck to water. I had already told him he could just treat Alex like a servant but I wanted to make sure that when we got back to the house Matt would know unequivocally that he was the only MAN in the house. So, I before I left for the movie I told my husband that when we got home he had better be standing in the foyer to greet us in his new panties. We bought them specially for the occasion. (I'm not trying to turn him into a true sissy but it was the best way I could think to openly demonstrate his subserviance from the get go) Anyway Alex took our coats for us and Matt told him he looked ridiculous. Then I told my husband to show Matt why he was relegated to wearing panties. Alex obeyed and pulled his purple panties down in the front and let us look at his shrunken penis. Matt laughed pretty hard. I gotta tell you, I felt a little bad for my husband but I was really turned on at the same time. So, I grabbed Matt and kissed him and he squeezed my butt. I grabbed his dick through his slacks and felt him stiffening. My husband just stood there watching and getting all hard between the legs. I looked at Matt and asked "Should we let the little dick watch how a real man does a woman?" Matt said "Not tonight. He can sit downhere and listen to us upstairs." And thats the way it went. My husband slept on the couch while Matt screwed me twice that night in our bed and once more in the shower in the morning. As Matt was leaving to go to work I asked Alex if he was ready to finally get some relief and he was just bobbing his head. Matt told Alex he looked really cute in his little panties and he told me to make him wear a condom. It took my husband about two minutes to orgasm once he slipped inside me upstairs. I made him wear the condom but it was only for offense purposes. I was already a mess between my legs before he started because Matt had just finished stretching me inside out and his semen was still sloshing around in my belly. It was wonderfull.

Rachel

Its progressing from there. Just this week, two days ago actually on Sunday; Matt came over to the house to watch the football games with us and Alex finally got a bit of a show for the first time. He sat there and watched me give Matt a blow job while we watched the Bears game. It was intensely humiliating for him because I sucked Matt off and swallowed his cum. Then I sucked my husband's little weener but refused to let him cum in my mouth. I just helped him along and made him cum on his belly and in his hand.

Also, I am still interested in meeting another MAN to to have some fun with. A few people have sent me emails after reading this but most just seem to stop or are only looking for porn since I am willing to make my husband take pictures in the poses guys ask for. If you are real and are fairly well equipped shoot me a note. My email is still the same. [email protected] or send my slug hubby a note at [email protected]

Rachel

and I think my pictures are still up in my other posting on the permisterals forum.

Rachel

wow, what a fantastic catalogue of events. Thankyou for sharing so much with us all. Please do not answer if I am being too permisteral, it is only that i am intrigued to see the similarities with my own situation. I was wondering if your feelings have changed towards either Alex or Matt ? When you are with Alex, do you yearn to be with Matt ? How do you now treat Alex when you both go to bed together ? Do you allow him to see you naked or do you change into pyjamas/ long night dress, in the bathroom on your own?
My wife keeps a framed photo of her lover in the nude next to our bed, and whenever I try to engage her in sex she reminds me that I fail to measure up to her stud.
Keep up the good work

tinytodger,

I think I saw someone else answer your question best. My feelings have not changed in the least for my husband. He is my bestfriend. My rock and my companion. He just has a very tiny penis. I enjoy making love with my husband but sometimes I just want to have my body rocked in a way that he can't manage. By the way, thats an excellent idea about the picture next to the bed. I may have to steal that idea from you.

Rachel

Rachel. Love the story do you have any pictures you can post?

Hi Rachel,

Thanks for answering my post.

My wife enjoys teasing me as much as I enjoy it. We often go to a small lingerie shop in the next town. My wife picks out different items and asks me if he will like them, she does this in the presence and hearing of the lady who owns the store. She thens picks out some knickers and holds them up to my waist and asks the lady if they come in a smaller size, my wife announces she is going to another store, leaving me both, to pay for the underwear, and with a red face.
On the days she is seeing 'her stud', I have to strip naked, run her bath, shave her legs, trim her pussy hair, and after drying her, apply perfumed oil to her skin. Throughout this she teases me that it is my fault that she has to get satisfaction else where. As she puts on her panties, she tells me that the next time they come off will be for a large cock.
The last thing she does before she leaves is to give me a list of jobs to do, and a pair of knickers to wear with the instruction that I should not play with myself til she gets back.
Upon her return she sits in the chair and tells me to remove her underwear and to clean her pussy, whilst she tells me what they got up to. After she has orgasmed on my tongue, she puts me across her lap, pulls down my knickers and spanks me, this normally results in me coming over her lap.
You may find some inspiration from this yourself.
Goodluck

Further to the above..
Exactly where are your pictures posted?
Thanks

For the two of you looking for the pictures, just mouse click on the word member under my screen name and then choose the posting titled MI wife looking for a stud.

let me know if it works.

Rachel

Great photos, Matt is a lucky guy.
Your husband is a little bigger than my 1inch soft, 4inch hard cock. Last year when my wife went on holiday, she replaced my swimming trunks with plain coloured bikini bottoms, including a cheap white pair that became see through when wet. She had me swim in the cold pool and then go over to where a couple of young women were sun bathing, and ask for a light for a cigarettte. The girls eyes went down to my crutch and i could hear them laughing as I walked away.
My wife also took me on the nudist beach, to my shame, and to the amusement of some of the other women there. All the holiday she kept telling me how horny she was and how much she missed 'her stud'. She threatened me that if i failed to make her orgasm twice a day, then she would fly home earlyfor ' a good shag'.
She stayed for the duration, but went straight to his house and spent two days there before returning home to me....

Hi Rachel

i'm a newbie around here but thought i'd post my appreciation
brava
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Rachel,

Speaking from experience, you could send your man to the local porn store and have him purchase a harness and a large strap on attachment. Something Matt's size. He should be sure and tell the clerk his wife sent him for this.

When he brings it home put it away for safe keeping. Let him think about it but don't bring it up. Have him help you get dressed for your next date. He should draw your bath, help towel dry you off and trim your pubic curls.

then, when you come home from a nite out with Matt, and if you feel up to it, bring out the strap on equipment and tell your hub to put it on so you can continue feeling stretched by a superior cock to his.

Nice story

ILL cuck here.

What's odd is I like threesomes, maybe that isn't so odd but I have never had any complaints at 9 inches. I have had a few dozen women tell me I'm the biggest they had and you wont believe how much pussy you can get just by word of mouth, from girlfriends talking to their girlfriends and they want to see what's in your pants. I guess I liken it to having a nice car, you want to show off your car and let other people ride in it but you are the driver and at the end of the day the car is parked in your garage. I think it is possible to be cheated on and not bothered by it. I mean you have to deal with it someway. Most of the time I can't give a woman emotional support just good sex and after awhile that gets old with some of them. I guess the thing is encourage him to tell you what he likes and don't power it on him, let him make the choice.

I'm glad this thread is still hot - Lady Rachel you sound like a real dream - As a long term (happy) little cuck I'm never allowed to participate, watch or even know when or who. Many, many times she introduces me to men and I am left to wonder - and yes it excites the heck out of me! The closest I come to knowing is when/if we go out together and she sends me home alone. Someone suggested you have hubby lick up his own mess - I would be only toooo glad to clean up my Lady T's lovers messes but not mine, no-no-no.--- Deny, laugh, ridicule and keep me blue balled, it works, but let me come and your "spell" is broken. My Lady T knows this only to well --------- charliebrown

Rachel,

You have indeed inspired some terrific responses to your initial inquiry. Your ongoing descriptions of your dates with Matt and the ever increasing level of offense of Alex are wonderful.

A comment was made early in your thread, by one of the readers, that there may be a strong feminine side to we cucks. i would support that observation. While i am a man of respectable health, size and physique, my feminine side is quite strong. i have many more female friends than male and tend to respect women considerably more than men.

My GF is a gorgeous, sexy woman who is lusted after by men. The looks, leers and comments do not go unnoticed by us. i love her very much and i think she feels the same for me. i happily try very hard to do all the things that make her comfortable and happy. If she were to desire a lover of different quality than me, i would help her in any way i could to satisfy her desires.

My participation in this thread, and on this site, obviates the fact that i am excited by the cuckold fantasy. She and i have played with the fantasy in story form during sex and she has not rejected the thought out of hand. Could it happen some day? Who knows, but if it does, i will hold her, love her and comfort her. my feminine side subconsciously knows the wonderful feeling she would get from the attention and excitement she would receive from another lover.

Please continue the story as developments occur. You are an exciting writer.

Hi everyone, Its been about six weeks since I checked in here or added any updates. Its kinda funny to look at my writings and think that just seven months ago I was a straight-laced wife. Things have certainly changed. Anyway, I thought I'd share our recent events. Firstly, Alex (my husband for those of you who have not read the whole post) and I have had some of the best sex of our lives in the past three days. We are very happy and probably more in love than ever. I say this just as a pre-face because what we have been up to really tested that love. Soon after the evening I described in my last post in January, we planned a vacation. Me, Alex and Matt. No kids. A whole week in south Florida. We just got back on Sunday evening. I swear, next to the birth of my kids and my wedding day, it was the best time of my life.
We agreed that the whole week was about me and Matt. Alex was along to be humiliated and to serve basically. We agreed to test some boundaries and figure out if Alex was truly happy being cuckolded.

Anyway, It would be almost impossible to relate the whole week but it was fun. We left on Saturday morning. Alex drove and we picked up Matt at his house. Alex was the chauffer while Matt and I talked and played in the backseat. We spent Saturday night in a hotel near Atlanta. One room for Alex and one for Matt and I. Alex brought us our breakfast on Sunday morning. (there is another little bit that I am going to have my husband explain when I get done writing this.) Anyway, we got to our beach condo on Sunday afternoon and the fun began. Alex went to bed because he drove the whole trip. Matt and I went to the beach and to dinner. After dinner all three of us sat down and laid out the plan. Alex was to be at our beck and call around the clock. The master bedroom was for Matt and I. Though there were three bedrooms in the condo, Alex was not going to relax in them. It just would not be humiliating enough. Matt is getting really good at putting Alex in a very submissive role and I am feeding off it and getting better myself. My husband slept either on the floor at the foot of the bed in Matt and I's room or on the floor in the main room. He spent one night tied naked to a rough wicker chair watching us relax.

I told Alex before we left not to expect to have his needs taken care of during the vacation. I knew that would be a new experience for him. Being denied. Hes been humiliated some before, but always been able to get some release after my needs were met. He doesn't always get pussy but at least gets to jerk off. That was laid to rest early. Matt brought some surprises of his own. And I want Alex to explain that part.

Hi everyone, I am sitting here with Rachel as she writes this and documents my offense. Okay, So, on Sunday evening after Matt and Rachel got back from dinner and we sat down to lay out the grounds for the week, Rachel told me not to expect to be getting any pussy for the week. I expected that. Then Matt said that wasn't going to be good enough and he brought out a bag from his luggage and produced a brand new male chastity device. Its called a CB 3000 and he told my wife to lock me in it. Rachel ordered me to undress and she fitted the device on me. Matt gave her a little master lock and they locked it on. Then Matt produced an envelope and made me address it to Rachel at our home address. He closed the keys in the envelope and walked outside and dropped it in the mail. My heart sank. I knew at that moment I was not going to have a single orgasm during the entire vacation. He freakin mailed the keys to our home in Michigan. Then he produced a dog bowl for me to eat out of when we stayed in the condo for meals. A pair of see through white frilly panties to wear as my only clothing inside the condo and a flourescent purple speedo to wear when we went to the beach. To make matters worse, it was too small. I am not fat but it squeezed me around the middle and made my stomach hang over the top of it. Worse, it was so tight it made the chastity cage very clearly visible through the swimsuit.

The rest of the story is for Rachel but I will say that I am truly aware of what it is to be a cuckold now. Beyond the sexual excitement. It is still exciting but it can be miserable to not be able to cum while watching another man pleasure your wife.

Alex

Rachel,

nothing best then to write on March 8th!!!
very interesting development... your story in intense and quite intriguing.

we are certainly all waiting for a great deal of details of your week

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your italian bull in Venice
lets meet over week-ends or full weeks: your gorgeous hotwife will be my slut. From unaware sexy ladies to complete slut in training. Classy and strong. please Pm for detail. Age 49. Looks younger. Will travel to European de