just cucked him and want some help

thanks limdepx

dan I got it and I will take some pics this weekend. And while I originally was looking for advice from women, you guys can probably help too. I suppose you have the same perspective my husband does. limdepx I don't mean to be too forward but are you smaller in the penis department too?

danj

I just sent you an email. I'll take some pics this weekend but send me reply so I know it works

Rachel

Rachel,

Most certainly the boys in this forum will give you many ideas for humiliating your hubby until his cock is hard and leaking.

Mistress C.

Rachel,

Replied to your email, hope you got it.

Dan

Dan,

I did. Thank you. I replied.

Rachel

well boys, Mistress C says you won't disapoint, so come on with the ideas for me.


Rachel

Rachel,

I am not small, but for some aspects I behave as I was, the details are private, if you want you can e-mail me and I will say to you ([email protected]), however I think to know what your hubby feels, you are beautiful and bright at least for him, aren't you?, so he feels inferior to you and he thinks you deserve better, but be aware, don't push too much in the direction of your lover, he will be frightened, humiliate him but in the same time keep him sure you love him, unless he is a pure fetishist, and I don't think so, if he will doubt you are engaging with your lover you relationship will suffer a damage.

Rachel,

Your situation sounds almost exactly like the early days of mine. My wife (fiance then, to get technical) was likewise worried about whether I�d really be OK with it in real life and, as you are, amazed at the enthusiasm I showed once it started.

As for humiliating him, I agree with Dick Diva that offense can be a bit different for each individual. None of us can possibly be a better judge of what will be the right way or the right amount for your husband than you are. With that disclaimer, however, I can tell you what really got to me.

First, being compared unfavorably to her other lovers (current or past) was big. All cuckold turn-ons are, at some level, about the idea of failing or losing in the male competition for female sex partners. The fact that my wife prefered sex with others was huge. She also told me (quite truthfully in her case) that she did not enjoy penetration with me because my penis shape was uncomfortable for her. Indeed (with a bit of coaxing) she told me that she never liked having me inside her. This led to such delighful developments as having me hump her leg or grind against her ass in my underwear until I came from the friction. That was deliciously humiliating. She would talk about how likely it was I might never get to penetrate her again

Another thing that she liked to do was to return to me straight from sex (unshowered) and cuddle and writhe against me, making me smell the sex on her. She would give me full blow by blows, but warn me not to touch her in any intimate areas as she was a bit sore. This would sometimes lead to a humping or masturbation session.

An important element for us was that I was to remain absolutely faitthful and monogamous while she carried out her affairs. This imbalance was a key offense for me. She did often tell me her lovers were better endowed, but for me the bigger thrill was in her dreamily describing how much better built they were in general, how much more manly and aggressive as lovers, how much more s*******ed, etc. Just telling me how very much she enjoyed each act was incredible. This was especially true when she showed enthusiasm for doing things with some of her lovers that she had never been much into with me (like anal sex) or when she would give me detailed descriptions of things she did to them that she knew were favorites of mine (like fellatio) while denying me those same things for a time.

I am into denial, so that became part of the dance for us for periods. For instance, pegging my orgasms to the number of orgasms her lover had with her (1 for every x he had) or making me pay her out of my spending money (we were on a tight budget then) for orgasms delivered as mechanically as possible. Sometimes, she had me wear this thick gel sheath over my penis during sex to ensure that I felt nothing and didn�t cum while pleasing her. (Though mostly we just switched to my using hands and mouth pretty exclusively.) I also started wearing panties and doing a list of household �maid� chores while she was on her dates. (Shining all her shoes, scrubbing the toilet or the kitchen floor, etc.) This may not be a direction your husband is into, but it was big for me. (I soon had a uniform and got deeper.)

Another important element for me was one you have already cottened onto � when he cancelled plans to babysit for your date. This was a biggie for me. I liked it when we had plans together and she would cancel at the last minute to go get laid. She was very unsure of this and felt guilty at first, but I loved it and she began to have some fun with it eventually. (Her getting over feeling guilty about the whole thing and coming to actually trust that I really was OK with it all was the major hurdle in the entire fetish.) It was fun, for instance, when she would arrive later and seperately to gatherings with some of our friends because she made a pitstop first. Or when she would cancel long arranged plans for a fancy dinner or a show and leave me in the lurch. Once, she even took the tickets and went with her current beau. That was a huge turn-on.

Two of my hottest memories are of her pronouncing that she would henceforth never let me penetrate her (she said so a couple of times before it finally stuck) and her hysterical laughter when se realized that sitting on my face and having me lick her butthole was such a turn-on for me that I was masturbating like crazy. �I think we finally found your level,� she said. (We hadn�t, by the way, but that is another story.)

I can�t say if these same things will work as well for you husband, you know him better than anyone. But, as I said, central to all cuckold fantasy is the idea that he has lost out to another guy. It might be because he is �weak,� or �inadaquate,� or �queer;� it might be that he �gives you up� or that you �choose another� but either way it is his �husbandly perogatives� that are supplanted. As long as you can work this line without pushing so hard you scare him (remember, as reality this is new for him too) you�ll be making him happy.

Oh, also, I suggest you move slowly. You need to keep it a bit fresh by going a bit further from time to time, but there is no reamister to get extreme quickly. He has fantasized about offense and each real step will be a huge thrill that you need to let him enjoy and adjust to before moving on. The fun is in the process. Like any thrill ride, if you jump right to the ultimates, you drain the erotic potential out of the smaller incremental steps that preceed them. (And risk recoil.) You guys are happily married and have a lifetime ahead of you. Take your time. If you want, you can play out all his (and your) fantasies eventually, but you don�t need to exhaust the supply in the next year.

Good luck and welcome to the lifestyle.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Thanks Mrsblackblowupdoll,

I appreciate the suggestions and the cautions. I am sure that this will be a long process. Between my husband and I this new experience turned to reality less than a month ago. However, it is the result of a few years worth of fantasy and pushing. So, yes I know what buttons to push. I still appreciate the ideas and suggestions. For my husband it is mostly about the comparimister and his own failings. About seeing Me as the more powerful one in our relationship. He is basically a feminist believing that women are essentially 'better' than men. Femdom I guess. I am learning and getting excited about it. I'll let you all know what happens as tonight is the night my husband is to watch the kids while I go out with Matt.

Rachel

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Hi Rachel,

I am loving this thread and the way it is playing out, I think your husband will absolutely adore the way you discuss his small cock and explain the pleasure you recieve from Matts. I know I love it when my gf takes the powerful role in the bedroom and comments on the inadequencies of my penis size. We are not truly cuckold just fantasists but this thread has certainly captured my attention and I cannot wait to here your next installment.

I hope you continue to post

Rachel, I like reading about it to. Can't wait to hear more. I only wish I could be part of it. I have a small dick to and would like to eat your pussy before and after.

If I give you my email, will you send me a picture of yourself or post it here.

Okay, last night was a huge success. I met Matt at an upscale hotel with a restaraunt/bar a little over an hour from home (didn't want to run into anyone we knew). I let my husband watch me get dressed and ready. I took care to wear especially sexy, lacy thong panties and a matching bra. I do not typically wear such things for my husband even though I know they excite him. I even asked him if he thought Matt would like them and told him that I wanted to look very sexy for Matt. I can only imagine the offense my husband must have felt watching his wife go to such lengths to make herself pretty for another man. I told my husband that thinking about Matt's 'big manly dick' was making me very horny. I told him that I really wanted to suck on Matt's cock and I VERY VERY rarely do that for my husband and then only when he really pushes for it. Its never voluntary.
When I arrived at the hotel Matt was waiting for me in the bar. I ordered a take but I didn't even finish it before we were off to our room. Three times over a five hour period Matt fucked me. I rode him and he had me from behind as well as missionary. Around 2 in the morning I slipped my panties back on and dressed. I kissed Matt goodbye and left. I had an orgasm on the drive home just feeling Matt's semen squishing between my legs and seeping out from between my swollen labia.
I got home around quarter after 3 in the morning. I had told my husband he was not to masturbate while I was gone regardless of how badly he wanted to. Of course he was awake and waiting for me with a rock hard stubby. I entered our bedroom and dropped my handbag. I pulled my slip dress up over my head and climbed into bead wearing just my sticky panties. I cuddled up to my husband. We kissed and petted each other. He asked me if I was in the mood for one more round. I said that I wanted him to cum so that he would relax. I slipped my panties off and pushed my husband down on his back. The I propped my pillow under his head along with his to raise his head some so he could have a good look. Then I straddled his hips and positioned myself just above his penis. I contracted my muscles a few times and Matt's semen started dripping out of my vagina in thick globs onto my husband's penis. Then I sat down and let him enter me. I rode him and told him to tell me when he was about to cum. When he said he was going to cum I pulled up off of him and reached down and stroked him until he came on his stomach. I told him that his 'little pencil dick wasn't worthy of cumming inside me.' I asked him if he agreed and he said 'yes of course.'
The rest is the boring stuff. Snuggling and drifting off to relax in my husband's arms.

Next, I did get the camera back. I did take pictures of my husband's little dick. Now I will post them. Please help me tell him about it. I will print off your comments and give them to him.

Rachel

moved this to a seperate post.

okay would take them both. Here is the hard one

lets try one more time

well I'm trying here.

okay I posted the pictures of my husband's penis in a seperate post. Let me know what you think and if enough of you think I should post pictures of myself.

Rachel

Hi Rachel,

Thought I'd add my two-cents...

We started out just like you...hubby's big fantasy and little by little he talked me into it. We've been at it nearly 4 years now and I guess your post reminded me of how it used to be.

I notice that things change over time...what was once a novelty is now pretty much just day-to-day life. I have a wonderful lover who keeps me more than satisfied, and hubby has found that he prefers fantasy and masturbation more than sex with me...he masturbates 2-3 times a day (sometimes alone, sometimes I help him). I believe deep inside, he knew he was never a terrific lover, and the constant feeling of inadequacy was always hard for him. Now, he knows I'm getting all I need elsewhere and he's "off the hook", so to speak.

One thing I don't see mentioned in here is that a lot of cuck guys (my hubby included) also have what I think of as a "strong feminine side". I think some guys sort of live vicariously through their wives this way and you might want to explore it with your hubby too.

I don't really enjoy the offense aspect. Although there is a component of that. My wife loves to have sex while I watch her and I love to see it. She makes sure when she orgasms to let me know how much she is enjoying another guys dick and I love to watch him slip out and and see his cum inside her. She surprised me recently by asking me to go down on her afterward, while he watched me.

Hi Rachel,

your topic is wonderfull !

One idea to humiliate your husband about his size is to buy a very big dildo, and put it just near his hard cock to show him the difference.

Then, fuck you with the dildo, and alternate with his cock, and tell him the difference of what you feel inside you

What do you think about it ?

Julien

Hi Rachel, I just caught up on the whole thread. You have a very interesting thing going on.

From a guys perspective there is probably no better way to humiliate him than to let him watch you orgasm from a bigger cock. Make sure to tell him how good it feels. Have him stand by the bed naked arms at his side, fully erect. I realize that Matt probably isn't up for being watched yet, but it is the ultimate in offense.

You sound VERY Hot Rachel! I've been trying for over 5 years to get my wife to enjoy the pleasures of a better endowed man with no luck at all. All she'll ever say is "your all I need" I'm only about 6" long, and not that thick. She has said "a thicker one would be better than a long one because it would be very snug", GOD, I thought we were onto something, but it never panned out. What I would like to know is what else can I say to my own wife to get her into the bigger cocks? Thanks in advance! my email is [email protected]

Oh, yea, do you ever make your husband lick or suck on your very wet and sticky panties when you get home. I'd think I'd died and gone to heaven if that ever happened to me. A soaking wet crotch, pushed right up to my face with my wife still in them.

Rachel,

It sounds like you and your husband have really started to get into this lifestyle. My wife and I have been involved in a cuckold lifestyle for almost ten years now and it only gets better. She's not into overt offense, but does deny me before her dates and makes every effort to flaunt her sexuality in front of me. I love helping her get ready (shaving her, helping her dress, fastening the straps on her heels, etc) and will wait patiently for her to return so that I can lick her to her final orgasm of the night.

rachel76
maybe you should let your lover make you pregnant. I would love to talk with you.

Rachel76,
I so admire what you and hubby have going. My wife and i used to play like this and i miss it. She found religion and stopped having other men in her life. Permisterally, i much prefer her having sex with others because like your husband i'm more of a watcher, masturbator, and lover of offense. I do prep work too.

You post dated, 28 Oct 2006 19:38:43, was absolutley wonderful. I only wish as you straddled him you would have lowered you hips onto his face and not his wimpy weenie. Do you or hubby have any interest in that sort of creampie thing?

Take care and best of luck to you both,
Ben
Denver5er
([email protected])

Ya, Rachel...you two are definately right in the thick (so to speak) of the fantasy. I'm a sissy but my wife doesn't know it because she doesn't like the idea of it. I'm a cuck wanna-be and she knows it but she doesn't like that idea either. She's starting to warm up to the idea of denial and she plays with it from time to time but nothing with committment. I'm sure I'm like many other boys here with small cocks (mine's 6.5, about 3.5 thick) who want their partners to humiliate them and be pleasured by real men more intensely than we can provide. We want our wives to be happier than we can make them. For me, it wouldn't be to let me off the hook of having sex with her, it would be to experience a fetish. That's the nature of a fetish. You can't always explain why you crave it...you just do. Just like he'll continue to crave you. For that reamister, I don't totally agree with the "don't push him" philosophy. I believe that pushing him is exactly what this fetish is all about. Maybe you don't push him on all levels all at the same time becuase, over time, that reduces the value of the fetish. Human's aren't meant to eat the same cereal for breakfast everyday our entire lives... we get bored. I expect that any fetish, repeated over and over and over and over for ever becomes "normal' and loses the fetish nature it once had. So, use it as spice...the spice in your life. The spice in both your lives.

Congratulations on achieveing another life spice that is generally not available to most of us. Rest assured, many of your readers are jealous. I know I am.

Hi Rachel!I'm a sub male too, and I am definitely into the offense thing. I'm not really a porn surfer, just admiring beautiful things, like your relationship with your hubby It's kinda weird that I actually envy your husband , Not even kidding. Why? Because you stick with him even though he's below average, damn, the lucky bastard! Just watch how he reacts to certain things you say, you'll find the buttons eventually. Just remember, without communication there's just frustration

Rachel, something I've always enjoyed is having my Domme make me wear a strap on much larger than my own cock and let me fuck her with it. I get to see her on top of me and see the pleasure that a large cock can give, while my worthless prick is bouncing underneath her.

Normally, when she allows me release, she asks me to masturbate (she doesn't have to ask twice!) while she relates stories of how big her lovers are and how they feel inside of her. Very humiliating, but oh so hot!

I'm glad to hear that you and your husband are enjoying this. I hope that you can both enjoy it for a long time!