She's head over heals in love with him

She's in Love and I'm being replaced

I've been lurking on here for years and all the information, stories, and comments have been a great help to us in our continuing journey. There's one topic that isn't covered very often here and that's when she falls in Love with her Lover or Boyfriend.
I'm sure it happens all the time with other Cuckold couples. I'm just wondering if there's others out there, like me, that actually enjoy knowing their wives have growing feelings for her BF. I find a weird and strange comfort knowing she's falling in love with him. I have no idea why but I find myself encouraging it.
Recently we had a talk and she finally admitted what we all knew anyway, she is head over heals in Love. I lost my manhood along way back in this relationship and always knew a real man would come along and satisfy her in ways I never could.
I'm not in any immediate danger of her leaving me for her married BF. I'm not worried about that at all. I know she loves me in other ways and she's very happy that I'm so supportive. Sometimes I question my own sanity here, watching her slowly developing feelings, falling in love with him, and for some reason, I'm loving it ?
There's a lot of aspects of the Cuckold lifestyle and everyone has their own journey. Watching your wife fall in love and supporting it, encouraging it, and enabling it, isn't mentioned very much in these forums. At least it should fit the definition of "Ruined Husband" or "Ultimate Cuckold". We all want to be replaced by a a superior man, our journey just takes it to a new level. I just wondering if there's others out there that have similar experiences or thoughts ?

When you say you "lost your manhood along the way", what do you mean exactly? Do you get involved with the two of them together? Do you have any desire to help her service him? Is that what you refer to? Please elaborate.

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briantoronto
Nothing is as exciting as when you hear your wife telling another man she loves him as he pumps her full of his cum! As long as your own marriage is firm and committed.
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Deep down this is what I long for... maybe it will happen

My wife went from being completely open about her having sex with other men to becoming more and more secretive. We'd originally agreed that she'd always use condoms (to avoid STIs rather than pregnancy as she'd been sterilised) and wouldn't go with anyone I know so I couldn't put a face to the name, but that went out to window the afternoon she came back from meeting an ex-work colleague of mine who'd been after her pussy from the first time he saw her with me. I soon accepted that it was a case of her pussy, her rules and happily picked her up from near his house minus her panties and his cum dribbling down her leg.

In our last year together we didn't have sex at all and we separated in 2012, my wife surprising me by moving in with a guy 2 doors away! Discussions I've had since our divorce with two of her former conquests and a couple of her female friends have revealed things I didn't know before. The guy I mentioned above was fucking her on and off for 2-3 years, not the twice I was aware of, another ex-workmate eventually admitted that he'd fucked her too, just the once at his house, but only because she said we'd split up - we hadn't - and she had pretty much demanded he take her to bed, so he did.

She's still with the same guy now, although they have moved to another part of town, and clams up whenever I have tried to broach the subject of what she used to get up to back in the day. I'm curious as to whether she just got more enjoyment doing it behind my back rather than giving me a blow-by-blow account in bed afterwards or whether she had developed feelings for one of her lovers. I'd love to know.
Peter C

It's happened to us at least twice - she definitely fell head over heals .. And we both loved it ... Probably the most exciting and fun times we have ever had ...

My wife fell head-over-heels in love with her last lover. She always assured me that even if she couldn't help concentrating on him, she still loved me and wouldn't leave me. This was helped by her lover saying that he loved her too but would not break up a marriage.

During this time my wife said she loved the fact that she got to feel all those "new relationship feelings", and they made her so happy and euphoric. This was true, she was like a young teenager throughtout that time. All she could do was talk about him, she constantly direct-messaged him and phoned him. He was always her centre of attention.

She knew I was totally okay with all that was happening, it plugged into my cuck desires completely. Even now, some time after their relationship has come to an end, I still get turned on at the memory of it all. At the time, I think I would have continued to encourage her, even if our marriage had been at risk, it was so intoxicating for both of us in our own ways.
Cuckold Couple about to embark on the adventure of our bull moving in with us.

My wife is in love with our current bull and I LOVE it. She does anything he wants to do. I love being the cuckold hubby.

briantoronto I completely understand the thrill of your wife falling in love with her lover. It was one of the most exciting times in our relationship when it happened to my wife. I only wish it would have continued and gone even further. Unfortunately, when that relationship ended for her, the cuckolding thing seemed to fizzle out for us and for a variety of reasons she no longer seeks other lovers. There is a term that describes our desire for our wives to love others - compersion. It is usually associated with poly couples but it is just as true for us cuckolds.

briantoronto

My advice is to be patient and let your wife explore a little without being involved. My wife isn't into cucking but she cheats on me with an old college friend and I know she has a huge crush on him. It's not exactly cheating because we decided she doesn't have to tell me about extramarital sex. I think it's a much more natural way for women to cuckold their husbands, honestly. The downside is the curiosity can be overwhelming ;)
Mal Wayne