Ecapers3515
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Hi. I'd love to hear about instances where it went too far with the bull and either feelings emerged between your wife and him, or maybe even experiences where the bull went in with the full intention of taking your wife away from you.... making her completely his. How about cases where the bull and the wife conspired to become the primary couple?
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Ecapers3515
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I'll start with my own story. I am 12 years older than my wife. When we started dating she was just out of college and didn't know what she wanted to do with her life. As the practiced adult, I was the senior partner in the relationship. I handled everything. She felt protected and taken care of. But in other moments she also felt powerless to ever get her way and she built up a lot of resentment toward me. I've always considered myself more of an alpha but I never thought I was imposing my will on her. She was living it differently. I'm an entrepreneur, CEO, and have done well so far. But as she started coming into her own, she got one amazing job after another and started making significantly more than me - and I pay myself well. She's now a senior executive at a large company.
A few years ago, I discovered she was having an affaire. What's more, she said she had fallen in love. We got therapy, she broke off the affaire and we managed to stay together. About a year and a half later, I discovered she was fooling around again with someone. I confronted her but this time, after a lot of pain and grief and arguing I'll spare you, she essentially told me that this is who she is and she thinks the most erotic thing in the world is to cheat on me. So, to be clear, she was saying that for her, it was less about the sex itself and more about the eroticism of cuckolding me behind my back. I was like, wtf? More therapy. Through it all she maintained that she wanted to have this dynamic or separate.
One night she came home after dinner and adult beverages with work colleagues with a guy she had seen a few times, I later learned. I had been visiting my parents and instead of coming back on Friday morning, I had arrived early Thursday evening and was asleep when I heard her come in. After a while when she didn't come to bed I got up and found her and the guy fucking in the guest bedroom. That night is a whole story in itself but that was the beginning of the overt cuckolding. This has now been going on for a while. I still feel shell shocked and I have been going to therapy to try to figure out how to get out of this situation, which in the abstract turns me on like crazy, but is very hard and confusing to go through. Roller coaster.
But in the meantime, she is now with a guy and they are very verbal with each other and they get off on the idea of mate poaching. I'll belabor this because I know it will turn you readers on, but in return I'd love it if you happen to be able to relate I'd love to hear from you in the comments.
He tells her that her pussy feels so much better than his stupid wife's. She tells him how good it feels to have his cock "hooked inside" her. She tells him how much better his cock is than mine (they're practically identical). Then he says things to me like, "Look how I'm fucking your wife! Look how she just gives it up for me so eagerly. I'm taking her away from you." Then she starts backing him up, telling him she wants to be his only. They refer to each other in the third person as in, "Look how Liz's husband's cock is so deep inside (my name)'s wife's hot little pussy". It gets more extreme. And believe, I know how hot all that is in the abstract, but when it's your wife you will probably think things have gone a little too far. If not in the moment, then afterward.
I avoid complete panic because I know that if we don't stay married she won't be cuckolding me and it would lose the eroticism for her, so I am staying sane. And also trying to learn from others' experiences.
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I_A_S_P
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Ecapers3515: ..........A few years ago, I discovered she was having an affaire. What's more, she said she had fallen in love. We got therapy, she broke off the affaire and we managed to stay together. About a year and a half later, I discovered she was fooling around again with someone. I confronted her but this time, after a lot of pain and grief and arguing I'll spare you, she essentially told me that this is who she is and she thinks the most erotic thing in the world is to cheat on me. So, to be clear, she was saying that for her, it was less about the sex itself and more about the eroticism of cuckolding me behind my back. I was like, wtf? More therapy. Through it all she maintained that she wanted to have this dynamic or separate............ Many a cuckold discovers this reality. If he thinks about it he'll understand that this is a common, normal progression of many cuckold scenarios. Ecapers3515: He tells her that her pussy feels so much better than his stupid wife's. She tells him how good it feels to have his cock "hooked inside" her. She tells him how much better his cock is than mine (they're practically identical). Then he says things to me like, "Look how I'm fucking your wife! Look how she just gives it up for me so eagerly. I'm taking her away from you." Then she starts backing him up, telling him she wants to be his only. They refer to each other in the third person as in, "Look how Liz's husband's cock is so deep inside (my name)'s wife's hot little pussy". It gets more extreme. And believe, I know how hot all that is in the abstract, but when it's your wife you will probably think things have gone a little too far. If not in the moment, then afterward. What cuckold isn't familiar with some variation of this song? Ecapers3515: I avoid complete panic because I know that if we don't stay married she won't be cuckolding me and it would lose the eroticism for her, so I am staying sane. And also trying to learn from others' experiences. A fact of life every cuckold eventually faces. She has hubby by the balls. Most cucks accept the truth that she now runs the show. Hubby usually caves once his wife decides to take full control of her cuckolding and do any man when and however she chooses. Beside divorce, what other options does any hubby have once his wife enjoys her sexual freedoms at his expense? An adulteress will hunt and poach or otherwise take a man from his wife. She's very good at it! A man gets another man's wife only when and if she'll allow it. The wife always runs a cuckold scenario! Her way! ..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!
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kennyboy82
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I_A_S_P: The wife always runs a cuckold scenario! Her way! Absolutely correct! I would add to that from a personal point of view. I find the actual act of cuckolding some husband far more erotic and exciting than just fucking the same woman, behind his back. I'm not looking, and never have been, to take some guys wife away from him, otherwise the cuckolding aspect as I see it has gone. I've found that very often a Hotwife will give it up easily for her Bull, and do stuff for him she wouldn't think about doing for hubby at home, she's 'sub' to her Bull, but she rules hubby's life at home, often demanding his respect and loyalty despite her fucking other guys.
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Linda38DD
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I agree with Kenny, I have fallen in love with my boy friend and made him my primary person in my life..He was every thing to me..I worshipped him..Gave him a baby..But in the end he ruined it,he didnt want me enough or love me.. I was depressed for years might still be..My current lover means a lot to me but I will never get as bad as I was..
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Ecapers3515
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Wow. That's so extreme to give him a baby... I mean, I think if she got pregnant and wanted have it, I'd have to know that's my cue to exit.
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Linda38DD
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If you took it that way yeah you should..Extended relationships may end I like that,I know I loved him wanted to be with him but he didnt want me in the same way..
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Ecapers3515
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After posting this, it was on my mind so I brought it up with my wife last night. We talked for a while and she told me that she's mostly interested in making love with her bull than in just uninhibited fucking. She says it's more erotic and fulfilling for her. He is totally into it and she says she thinks he is falling for her. I need to decide what to do.
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Linda38DD
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Oh Dear I was afraid of that..Things tend to get sticky when you have a protacted relationship.You may equate lust for love..I certainly did. I am reminded of all that every day I see my **** think you both should sit down have a honest conversation about where this is all going,set some guide lines..Personally if she loves you and wants to stay in a relationship with you she should drop her lover..Good luck dear...
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cuckold4one
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Linda, That's some sound advice from a woman with first hand experience.
Escapers, I hope for your sake that she can keep lust and love in there correct place. The whole cuck thrill is loving a lustful wife who just needs more cock.
Best wishes to you...... Cuck who loves a creampie.
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suntzuson
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At times the existence of a some level of relationship only serves to feed cuck's aingst and concern. To watch as she gives something more than just her body to a real man makes him more subservient to his Mistress.
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Billy Kellard
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I think they should become the primary couple, in love, its the natural outcome B.Kellard
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hub_cuck2002
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For me my wife should be the primary partner of the bull. In fact I encourage her to say she's not in love with me but belongs to her bull.
That's how it should be. Cuck should lose his wife to the bull and become their loyal servant.
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