What Motivates Your Lifestyle?

I'm curious, what is your favorite part of cuckolding? What is the driving ***** that makes you want to be involved in the lifestyle?

For me it's 100% about the *********** I feel. I didn't want my wife to just bang guys, I wanted her to do it in a way that humiliated me.

Here are a few examples of how did it. Many times we would be out ******** with friends, and she tell them what a tiny dick I have. She would do this right in front me, I would feel like crawling under the table.
She told her friends about her young lovers and bragged about how hung they were. That way they would know I was a cuckold, who couldn't satisfy her.
Many times I was ****** to ***** in the wet spot, where his cum had run out of her, in our martial bed.
Another time I tried calling her, on night when she was on a date. I called like 20 times, and was really getting worried about her safety. She finally answered and said "I'm getting fucked, leave me alone" and then hung up on me.
Once she brought home two used condoms after a night out. She put her wedding ring in one, and my tooth brush in the other. She made me clean her wedding ring by sucking it clean. The made me brush my teeth with the cum covered tooth brush. She then dipped it back in the cum filled rubber, and put it back in the Tooth brush holder. She warned me not to wash the cum off, and left it there to dry.
She always let her lovers fuck her bareback, unless she wanted to bring home used condoms to taunt me. However I was ****** to wear condoms, if she let me fuck her at all. Often I was ****** to jack off in the toilet, where she said my cum belonged.
One day I came home to find a big load of cum on my pillow, and a note that said "this cum belongs to Matt"
Often she would come home well fucked and whip my cock with a riding crop. While telling me it was for ******* her to go out and fuck other men, because my cock was so little and worthless.

I could go on forever, but you get the point. The mind games she played through humiliating me, was always what got my rocks off.

Hi . I just like meeting new people and lovers, love the excitement of seeing it for the first time , as well as them seeing me for the first time .my husband came to accept it early on , and encourages me to see others, sometimes with him sometimes without . He loves cleaning afterwards, and to me this is a bonus. There is nothing like having an orgasm at the end of your lovers tongue after you have had one with a lover !

derbyscpl we should meet sometime. xx

Wives with this attitude make cuckolding so worthwhile! She has everything under control and needs sexual attention from a real man. Treat her right and she just might unleash all the pent up passions that her hubby never gets onto you! Dating a cuck's wife is so rewarding! She'll be motivated by the NRE for you, steamy from her desire to pun1sh her cuckold hubby and ever so eager to lavish you in pussy for gratitude!

derbyscpl presents a perfect motivation for a cuckolding wife.

Masochism is the main motivation of a cuckold. Nothing pleases him more than a wife who gives another man all of her sexual pleasures and her hubby none. Cuck hubby may be in chastity but he can at least enjoy fucking himself in the ass with a vibrating dildo as he imagines how his wife is being pleased by her superior lover.

The man lucky enough to be chosen by a hotwife is motivated by all the pleasures of a NSA with a sexually frustrated lady who needs intimate attention!

I guess that the motivations for a cuckoldress, her lover and her cuckold are worthwhile enough for each pers0n involved to keep cuckolding around as a popular "marital aid" for the forseeable future!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

While I would agree masochism and the thirst to be humil1ated are definitely motivators, my situation is also motivated by lack of any sexual prowess at all. I'm young - 20s - so when women realize how much I struggle to get it up, and how small my penis is when I do, and how quickly I finish, they very often feel like they got a raw deal, which I definitely understand. I'm into cuckolding, even though I'm not formally with anyone now, because for me it's my natural place - a groveling submissive.

Now do I enjoy being taunted about it and being humil1ated by others and having my nose rubbed in it when ex's move on? Yeah I do (so feel free lol, I've been ordered to answer everything) but it goes along with the submissive side of me. The knowledge that I could never be a bull - or even, really, a real man - only makes it that much more powerful.

Girls don't seek your kind of gentleman. She wants a man.

I believe that gay is more suitable for your desires. Plenty of quaified men would be very happy to make you feel like a girl. Otherwise, your song doesn't play for the ladies at all.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Even as a cuckold though? I know I'm not a real man - realizing it, at least - but that's why I am a cuck...so that my dome can have a real man for sex. I can't compete in that arena. But I can provide and I am a submissive and am pretty good with my tongue (it's the only option I have, really).