Caps/web pics/fakery Vs. real life???

I am just wondering what other users of this site think about the very real differences between those who seem to just post ripped off pics from around the web, of everything from fat grannies to trannies, in the name of cuckolding and those who are genuinely into the life style?

I see one group of individuals that just post page after page of pics and actively seek and press for votes, and not only on one thread but on many threads that have very similar core themes. Or there are those who have m other-in-l aw fetishes, sissy fetishes, or are just gay and think that somehow this directly relates to cuckolding.

Then there are those who simply insert themselves into others threads with very loosely associated themes to the original thread, and these are quite often nothing else but a link to an image site and much spam and adds etc. I even think these may be sanctioned or even originated by the admins as the original poster never seems to complain of the intrusion.

Then we have "real" folks who relate their lives and hot wifery/cuckolding to those who are interested, and these I believe are the real core value of this site, although they are few in number.

Then of course there are the fakers and inventionists who seem to think they can post any old c rap on here and get away with it. They are the dreamers and add the least, IMHO, to this site.

Don't get me wrong. There is a place for a pertinent vid link, or a link to a related theme, I know as I've done it myself, but not, I suggest, hundreds of pages of the stuff in one thread!

I invite comment from all, as I wonder at times if its only me that gets sick and tired of seeing for example an 88 page tome of semi naked fat women, all in the name of cuckolding?

pops

I have made my views on those subjects pretty clear on this site several times.
mostly to be agreed upon by those who are really in the lifestye and derided by those who only live in fantasy land.
it is far to common on all cuckold sites for the true essence of this dynamic to be overshadowed to the point of oblivion by the Homosexual, foot fetishes, cross dressing, etc.
Having those aspects contribute to the cuckold lifestyle is fine to add a particular personal flavor but far too often I dont even see a reference to a wife or girlfriend at all. Thats usually when I suggest the poster should post on an appropriate site, such as a gay porn site.
Which is usually met by alot of indignant replys from the fantasy players.
All in all I agree with you and so do many others here.
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I'll join in, but only because I need to vent occasionally.

I have no problem with dreamers and wannabees. We were all there at one time. But don't deceive and post your fantasies as if they're "true" stories, or post pics of your "wife" that you downloaded from another site.

I respect and tolerate those who enjoy other versions of cuck. I truly think 'live and let live' has its merits.

However, I wish people would stop shoving THEIR version of cuckolding onto everyone else. Cuckolding has a very simple definition, which is basically a wife having sex with a man other than her husband. That's it. All of the other fetishes mixed in are NOT cuckolding.

FemDom is it's own kink. It's not cuckolding.

A foot fetish isn't cuckolding, and there's no such thing as a "Foot Cuckold".

Your Mo/ther in law teasing you is unrelated to cuckolding.

Fucking your next door neighbors dau/ghter doesn't make you a cuck. It makes you a mo/lester.

Crossdressing is its own fetish. Lots of monogamous guys wear lingerie at home. That's not cuck.

Blowing other dudes is also NOT cuckolding. It's bi or gay, whichever. Saying that you're "straight" but love to suck cocks whenever your Cuckoldress "makes you" is pure bullshit. You're bi. You're just in the denial phase. Man up, deal with it and admit you're not totally straight. It's not the end of the world. We'll still like you, and you'll feel better being honest.

People should stop trying to redefine cuckolding according to THEIR version, by combining cuck with other fetishes, and then pushing that combination onto others with threads like "All cuckolds should __________". Fuck that. That's rude. I'm an Alpha cuck. Just because you might dig fetishes other than cuckolding doesn't mean the rest of us do.

End of rant. Have a nice day...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits
You forgot:

Interracial sex has nothing to do with cuckold.

True. I was trying not to crash the server by listing them all...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

For most people here, becoming a cuckold will most likely only ever be fantasy. For the lucky few, to be cuckolded for real, its a dream come true. For me, my wife cuckolded me with one person, for about a year. And a handful of times after. The captions, the stories, real or not, do help keep the fantasy alive for me, and I assume for some others. Their is a reason for all the different categories on this forum.

Some of the things posted on this forum are not my thing, I just don't click on it, or just keep scrolling. Cuckolding itself is a pretty straight forward deal. The other things like ***********, foot worship, chastity, etc., are all fetishes that can be linked with cuckolding. That is up to each individuals personal preferences. From the mild to the extreme, everyone has their own thoughts on what it means to them. That is why I like the varied posts here, variety is the spice of life...so to speak.

SheDatesHeWaits: Well put

Allen,
I agree with you. Sorry, Popeye, shaved, and PC, but I am not a purist. I have been cuckolded by my first
wife, and then by 2 other girlfriends. I have gone for very long stretches on my own and fantasy played a
big part for me. I kind of got shaped by the different women that I've been with. I make no apologies for who
I am. For those that complain about all the divergences from pure cuckolding that occur here, I say. This is a
free site. If you're not paying, I think bitching should be kept to a minimum.

That said, there are some threads here that are complete bs. If I click on something like that, I back out and
don't go back. It's really quite simple. If it's not to your liking, don't click on it. Even the most Alpha bulls here
can't control what is posted. Jeez, just live and let live, guys.

I've gotta add my two cent's worth here - I agree there's an awful lot of wannabee's and wishful thinkers on here, they tend to drown out the relatively few genuine Bulls and cucks. A lot of the threads have little to do with actual cuckolding too, they're simply jerk-off fodder.
As has already been said, you have a choice, if you don't like it then walk away.

Thank you for the comments to date.

With regards to "live and let live", "don't click it" and "then walk away" and similar sentiments... I have to say that these are just cop outs, or just stick your head in the sand approaches. So I would have to ask in response to these types of comments: so you don't have opinions, you never vote in any elections, you don't discuss your opinions in real life and you don't have disagreements or discussions with those around you?

I enjoy "some" of this site and I wish more of the content was in line with the core cuckold theme of this way of life. I accept that others may have different fetishes and things that float their boat, but those things are quite often at odds with the core fetish of this site. Because of this, I feel the need to raise my comments and opinions, in a non threatening way, on this site, regarding those opinions.

Sure I could say nothing and just move on as some suggest, I can ignore the obviously rogue themes and way off the mark fetishes, and I can just make like a mouse and hide in the corner!

However I choose not to. I think it more than reasonable to explore what others think, to see if I'm an outlier or part of a core sentiment. I'm not attacking anyone, and I don't view discussion and holding a position as "bitching" as one commenter phrased it, its simply laying out a position and an observation to see who supports it.

I certainly feel that there should be much more adult discussion like this on the lifestyle and such comment has, IMHO, much more "value" than say 400 pages of women dressed in high heels, or pages of women smoking!!!

However I'm afraid many "fakers" and the like are really threatened by adult discussion and immediately go on the attack and insult path, as I think "shaved" was alluding to.

pops

Well... not being one to shy away from an issue, when I say "Live and let live" it's not a cop-out. It just reflects the reality of the situation. I voiced my two cents with regard to the content, but I also understand that there are others who disagree. One has to pick and choose their battles. I don't own the site, so I can't enforce that the content adhere to cuckolding. Hence my decision to "Live and let live".

Having said that, I will occasionally jump into a thread that it totally non-cuck, and mention that fact. It's my tiny effort to try and nudge the content back on track.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Pops:

I too am tired of the caned crap that a few members post on here. One guy stands out from all others, and every one of his posting are filled with internet porn that will take you to another site.

I enjoy the "real" stories that some of us like to share, and at times a little fantasy is interesting as well as exciting to follow. There are even some photo's that are of the fake crap that we can all relate to, or have been there, just didn't take a pic to capture the moment.

That's my 2 cents worth....... I'm going surfing now.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Thanks for all the comments either way.

I think being "real" is to be the minority... like most things in life. The world is full of "plastic" and "junk" whereas "leather" and "gold" are so expensive, but these gifts are lasting and the rest is alas but a fleeting thing.

pops

SheDatesHeWaits

Sucking cock doesn't necessarily mean that you're gay, or bi. Being attracted to the same sex, or both masculine and feminine, means you're gay, or bi. Many types of play could lead one to get excited about sucking on a cock, without it meaning you're attracted to the person it's attached to.

Sure. If that makes you feel better then keep telling yourself that...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaitsListen, unlike others, I'm not homophobic and don't see it as a fault, or any lesser to be bi, or gay, so i couldn't care less about your insinuations. I guess you can't tell the difference between love and sex, so i wish you the best of luck in this lifestyle

For myself, I have to say I that I much prefer a truly amateur post over one that is obviously done by professionals, and I think it is pretty easy to tell the difference between the two. As far as the site being devoted to "pure" cuckoldry, I think there are plenty of subsets that are also very pertinent. For me, the idea of being humiliated and submissive is key to my cuckold fantasies and desires. I know some people say they are "stags" who still want to be alpha males, but have their spouses have sex with others. To me, that is just another subset of the cuckold lifestyle. A very wise man once said: "Different strokes for different folks!"

I actually take issue with this attitude. Seems to me like you're projecting YOUR type of cuckoldry and claiming it's the only way and everything thing else is something else.

For many cucks it's about the mental aspect of cuckoldry, and many people have many different fetishes around that... claiming they're NOT cuckolding, is absurd. If a husband and wife get off b/c she's cuckolding him and dominating him, then it's still cuckolding.

I think a lot of wannabe cucks get off on FemDom, and FinDom.

Some want to be sissies, and they get off on being feminized... but guess what, if their wife is still with another man then it's still cuckolding.

YES, these fetishes alone are NOT cuckolding, and you're right, no one should shove their lifestyle down another person's throat... but I feel that's EXACTLY what you said in your original post. Basically saying if someone encorporates another fetish into their cuckold relationship, that it's NOT part of cuckolding.