Hi Cuck_newcastle, I can offer a few tips and suggestions also. The first is in regards to hygiene. I found the CB 6000S can cause skin irritation if you don't keep it clean and dry. It takes constant maintenance and regular cleaning.
In most cases, it has to be removed for proper cleaning.The enclosed design is a perfect breeding place for bacteria, so I suggest a quick inspection a couple of times a day when first starting out with a CB. A male yeast infection can take a week to ten days to clear up. To sum it up, keep it clean and dry.
I also found that lace panties instead of any kind of satin panties really help keeping the humidity down. Keeping it dry helps reduce any chance of bacteria or skin irritation.
After experimenting with the CB 6000 S , my wife decided that chastity was going to be permanent for me. She ordered a custom made Jail Bird from Mature Metal. The stainless steel open cage solved all the hygiene problems, it's easy to clean without ever having to remove it, and can be worn 24/7, and never has to come off. You know what they say, "Be Careful What You Wish For" !
Lastly, my thoughts on how to get you wife to get the most out of it. It does seem to me that a little "Topping From The Bottom" is required when starting out, just to allow your wife/keyholder the opportunity to learn the advantages of keeping you locked up, so she gets to enjoy the experience.
You didn't mention your longterm goals, or how you and your wife/ KH see chastity as a lifestyle. Some Cuck/ KH's simply experiment with chastity on a part time basis, when they are in the mood for it. Others go months on then months off, then there's those that make it a full time lifestyle. There's also different forms of the chastity lifestyle, from the basic Female Led Relationship to the Hotwife/Cuckold type relationship, not to mention all the variations that an be mixed in, like feminization and bi training. This entire website is devoted to everything an alternative lifestyle like this has to offer. It all depends on which direction suites you and your wife's needs and desires. If you could share your thoughts on what you see in the near future, I'm sure everyone here would have more detailed thoughts and advise.
We started out part time, a few days or a week at a time, at the same time battling hygiene issues with the CB 6000. My wife had already started dating and fucking other guys so it fit right in with our lifestyle. I made sure that she not only learned to like fucking other guys, but that she also learned that she didn't need my tiny cock after all.
I admit that I was "Topping from the Bottom" when we started out. Our roles in our relationship were starting to change and she would have take the dominant role, something that was new to her. I admit I had to guide her along, making sure she enjoyed being in control.
She quickly learned to love being in control and somewhere along the way she put me in the Jail Bird from Mature Metal. Soon i was locked up, usually a few weeks, to up to ten weeks at time. After that amount of time locked up, I was useless to her in bed, I was so horny I couldn't even fuck her. Thats the biggest effect that chastity had on me, I'd cum in seconds after she unlocked me and I got to slip my cock into that well used pussy. I was becoming less and less of a man, while at the same time, other guys were fucking her brains out on a regular basis. Soon she realized that there was no reamister to ever unlock me, whats the point, she had other men that could do the job much better.
The only reamister that she might consider unlocking me might be because I had earned a release, perhaps for good behavior or that she was simply in a good mood. Occasionally I might get unlocked just to amuse her or her Lover. I suddenly realized that I was no longer in control, I wasn't "Topping From The Bottom" anymore, I was now a full time Sissy Cuck in permanent Chastity. The change happened that fast !
The final part of our transition came naturally. It was my job to make sure she always had guy's to take care of her needs, as we both had to agree that I obviously couldn't fuck her anymore. I did my duty faithfully, usually finding guy's on C/List, making sure she had two or three boyfriends available, enough that she was getting her brains fucked out four or five times a week. We preferred married guy's so we went through 10 or 12 guys, then it happened ! One guy turned out to be a Real Man !
To her, a Real Man or "Bull" is what she needed all along ! We have never been happier !
Just a few thoughts
Brian
