If we can't find a Bull, were going to have to train one !

We're sure some of you can relate to a problem that comes up once in a while. Sometimes it seems that these kind of relationships have a limited shelf life, a couple of years at the most. Bulls and Real Men sometimes move on, or the visits get less and less as they're lives change. Yes, occasionally it's time to find a new Man.

Living in the suburbs like us, or as those in small towns know, it can be difficult to find a real Bull or Man. Don't get me wrong, my wife has no problem at all finding guys to fuck her but there's a big difference between a guy that fucks your wife and a Bull. The problem again is finding a Man that's either experienced in our lifestyle or finding one that is suitable or willing to explore it.

We consider ourselves to be at the advanced or ultimate cuckold level with thirteen years enjoying everything the lifestyle has to offer. This can shock the hell out of an inexperienced or novice Bull. We haven't had one go running out the door yet, but my wife has shocked one or two of them. The sight of this Sissy Gurl in chastity ready to dive right in to lick up his cum can be a little to much for him at the start.

We discovered, due to the lack of Real Bulls and Real Men in our area, that we sometimes have to find suitable candidates and slowly break them in ( no matter what the guys online ad says ! ). We found that any Bull or Man, even without experience, will always take over, it's in his nature. We just had to learn not to expect too much from them in the first few dates.

My wife tends to play the newbie role, telling her new Man that see wants to see me clean up after him, or I should be turned into a Sissy. The idea is introduce these things slowly over a few dates so we don't scare him by being too advanced.

The Man she presently likes to fuck has me in panties and my chastity cage full time now after eight or ten dates. He seemed a little squeamish the first few times my wife told me to clean up his cream pie but he soon learned to enjoy the power it gave him in our relationship. It goes without saying that he's not quite ready to shoot his load on my face or make me suck his huge cock. My wife will introduce these things slowly and the Real Man will come out of him naturally.

We just came up with a new idea. She told him she wants to snowball me, passing me a mouthful of his cum, then she wants to make me hold it in my mouth for an hour or so, while they fuck again. This new idea hopefully will get him a little closer to becoming the Bull or Real Man she knows he can be.

We'd love to hear from others out there at the advanced or ultimate level, that have been faced with the same problem of how bring out the Man in a potential Bull, without scaring him away.

I agree with you. Make of ordinary men bull difficult. We must act slowly and not rush things. It is necessary to know very precisely: to what relationship you are seeking. It is necessary that these relations satisfy all three: husband, wife and the bull. If this act, you will certainly succeed. We have four years to meet a man who has sex with me. My husband supports our relationship and has a friendly relationship with my lover. By this relationship, we came within a few months. Now we have differences and we are happy.