What made some males becoming cucks, sissies?

Although we read here lots of cucks or sissies having small clitties i believe at first the lack of manly attitude in the bedroom to really " do" a woman comes first.

Brings me to the question: what made these men to become cucks or sissies?

WAnting to see another man fucking your wife, your wife flirting with others, humiliating you, feminizing you.....
All things most males would see as worst nightmares..... But cucks or sissies are getting off on this.

Any ideas why some males become Bulls while others go on the path of becoming cucks or sissies?

So curious about serious reactions! Thanks!
femmed hubby by wife who is interested in cuckolding (she likes the idea)

I could not answer for others, but with me it has never been about offense nor lack of size (I am actually bigger than some of my wife's bull's). It's about being a voyeur and wanting to enjoy my fetish with the woman I love. It would do very little for me to watch a man fuck another woman, but if he is fucking my wife it becomes a total turn-on. It makes her more desirable in my eyes, as well as the enjoyment I receive from seeing my woman receiving sexual pleasure. I put her sexual enjoyment above my own, so her enjoyment becomes mine. I suppose it would take a psychiatrist to give the proper answer, but at least from where I stand those were my reamisters. By the way I learned about this quite by accident. I never had anticipated that I would enjoy the experience, but when it did happen I found myself with the biggest boner I had ever had, just from watching my wife with another man. It is my ultimate sexual turn-on!!

Most sissies I know had effeminate tendencies since they were kids. One problem with many sissies are that their cocks are too BIG! Big bulges don't look good in little panties. A problem with ALL sissies is the fact they have balls. Nothing ruins feminine behavior more than testerone. Many sissies lead lonely lives and I feel sorry for them.

One very quick way to get in the cuckold frame of mind is to think of other men satisfying your wife when you make love to her. Your sexual mind fast becomes a spectator and your fantasies take over the job of poking your wife. Since fantasy is not reality, your fantasy sex partners detract attention from the task at hand, which happens to be boning the wife. The more you fantasize other lovers for her during sex, the worse fuck you are throwing her. If you constantly imagine other men doing wifey during sex, you aint giving and she aint getting any sexual satisfaction whatsoever.

Another quick way to cuckdom is to have homosexual thoughts while making love to wifey. Thinking about sucking or sitting on pricks translates into very lousy sex for her. She gets nothing from your fantasy but she senses that your heart is not into satisfying her needs.

It is possible to break the cycle by simply tossing her fantasy lovers out of the bedroom. They only good fuck your imaginary lovers did was to fuck up your marital sex life real good.

Same with homo thoughts. Instead of dreaming of being on your knees making him feel like he's the MAN, think about HIS wife on her knees as doggy style Bitch while you show her that YOU are the man.

It is easy to get into. It is easy to get out of. It is your choice. You can be a hammer, nail or smashed thumb. It all depends on how you decide to use the tool.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Hey I dont know about I A S P. my husband is 6ft5 235lbs has a 3.6in dick (use to be 4.5 in) looks tiny on such a big man,and it is.His ex wife and lady told me he is very submissive since younghood.In college he was a guard (what ever that says) on his football team..T ook me a few years to sort it all out.. Now that he is a cuckold we are happy..He is really good at oral...

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I cannot speak on behalf of anyone else than myself...but...

For me, there is a big difference between a cuck and a sissy...

A sissy I guess, will be a sissy in most parts of his life...not only sexually...he is a guy that 'takes the beating', never stands up to other men...the guy that most other men despise...

A cuck MAY be a sissy, but there is no direct connection.

A cuck is by definition a man with an unfaithful wife/gf...but I guess here on this site, we define it more like a man which ENJOY (in one way or the other) being a man with an unfaithful wife...

For me, it's about compersion...(google it if you don't know it)...

And I am not into watching...for some reamister, its KNOWING that she is being fucked that turns me on...and the cucky angst...and getting her back...

As my profiles suggests...I love women...and I am a bull to others than my wife (she doesn't know)...

So I guess I am a normal man...but with this urge...loving to know that my wife is being fucked too...

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But that's me...
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

He may be a 6' 5" 235 pound ex football player but you certainly have no problems keeping him neatly under your thumb! You have him in panties, stockings, heels, chastity cage and wrapped around your little finger. He fluffs and cleans your lovers. He takes your lovers in his ass. You rule him well. Good job!

Was he a turnkey dream sub or did it take a little while to mold him into your specifications? Either way, you win!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

For me being a "sissy" is all about psychological domination and of feeling unworthy and "not good enough" for her.
Becoming a sissy was simply a "step further" in my wifes ability to dominate me and power me to obey her wishes.
She powerd me into female clothing, panties, make up etc to prove the control she has over me..... and so that she had extra "ammunition" to call me names and have good excuses for why she should be unfaithful to me. It was from that stage that we started discussing cuckoldry as an "ultimate" in fem dom, and a perfect way for her to prove that SHE is the boss and that I must simply submit to her wishes and desires etc..

20 years later we are still going strong ;)

I_A_S_P_ took years,these things take time,in my case years..

For me, the best way for me to describe it is a letting go of sorts. I am in charge of 50+ employees every day. To come home, let lose, let go, let someone else be in charge is a stress relief for me. Not so much into the sissy thing, but I do enjoy being a sub to my wife. Now if I can just get her to be more dominant.

I am not a sissy and have no leanings in that direction. I am a cuck. I had no say in the matter, my wife went behind my back and let a guy from her place of work fuck her repeatedly over a period of time. When she finally came clean about it and confessed (just before the affair was going to come out into the open anyway) she made a big thing about how his cock would make any woman happy and how mine was so small she could no longer feel it inside her. This left me feeling inadequate. I no longer fantasize about having sex with other women instead I fantasize about my wife having sex with other men all the time (whether or not she really is I don't know, she wouldn't tell me even if she was). I'd love to watch her being fucked but she's made it very clear that will never happen. So nowadays I spend a lot of time on cam showing my 4.5" cock to anyone who wants to look at it. I'm always looking for offense but have nonetheless built up quite a following of guys who get off on watching me including a number who would happily fuck me. Strange world.

I don't consider myself a sissy but I am a cuckold. I have always loved slutty women. From my earliest memories, I have been aroused by trashy, tarty women that wear heavy makeup and dress flashy. When I met my wife, she was somewhat like that. She was sultry looking, smoked and looked like she knew her way around a cock. Well the opposite was true, she was actually a virgin.
After we were married about 7 years, I had a few affairs, one of which was with a cuckold couple, whose ad I answered in a swinger's magazine. I fucked the wife while her husband watched and learned about wife sharing. I immediately knew I wanted to watch someone else fuck my wife that way. I told her about what I had done and what I wanted. She was scared but also aroused by the thought and agreed to give it a try. I brought home a man I knew and he wound up fucking her for the next 23 years.
Slowly but surely, I assumed a more submissive role, letting him take over as her primary lover and she became his permisteral slut. We both loved it. In fact, my somewhat shy wife led me to suck his cock, lick his asshole and clean up his messes. I was in awe of his 8 inch uncut cock and learned to love submitting to them and helping them fuck. She never denied me her cunt but if he was there, he was always first. I had to earn a sloppy fuck by cleaning his cock and her cunt.
I know if my wife wanted it I would have become a sissy too. I have often had thoughts about her dressing me and having him fuck my ass but it was never suggested and I'm sure my wife would not have found that exciting. I must admit the thought of his sperm leaking out of her cunt and my ass after he fucked us both is something I have masturbated too a few times.

My wife, his slut

At the start of our relationship, it was I who played a dominant role, or tried to, anyway. We played games, I got her to dress as I chose, and when I didn't get what I wanted I sulked. And I have to confess I was rubbish in bed, small dick, very quick, not a good lover.

In time, I started to be really hurt as she made a bigger and bigger deal about my hopelessness in bed, and I realise now that I gradually began to fetishise offense as a way to deal with it. I started giving oral so I wouldn't have to go through the 'are you sure it's in' and 'have you cum already?' situations, and she started getting her own back on me for having tried to be a Dom and especially for having always insisted she dress provocatively by making me dress foolishly in private and in public. At first, dressed in tight shorts and knee socks, I hated it, but then I started to eroticise the offense I felt when dressed that way. I became not a sissy, in reality, but a wimp, and as a wimp who provided a very stable income, I became a cuckold. She didn't throw me out because we share many interests, we do many cultural things together, but for sex she sees real men and, fortunately, I am quite good with my tongue. And I keep a clean house, I never revert to my old ways, I state my opinion but always defer if there is disagreement, and I am humble at all times

Linda38DD
8. Oh honey, I'm in love with your hubbys sweet cock! Do you suck him much?
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I just love wearing Womans underwear infront of a woman.
It makes me feel like a real Beta Male.

I've never made a woman orgasm with my dick but have done it a few times with my tongue!

I've always loved girls and as a young boy admired them and always wanted a girlfriend.I related to them with a typical male identity but at the same time found the clothes they wear very fascinating.This grew with time and became so strong that I started borrowing my sisters clothes that she lost intrest in.I would wear them in private and found they turned me on and I would masterbate in them.In my mind I was becomming a sissy.But I still liked girls.You could say I liked girls but also wanted to be a girl.As I got older I discovered how under sized I was so my crossdressing made since.

Droopy, my experience was much like yours, but I started to get a thing about lingerie once I was married and had access to my wife's sexy lingerie. Trying it all on in private and instantly getting a hard cock and having a wank. I regard it as a sexaul fetish ad I have never taken it further and have never wanted to dress up fully as a women and go down the pub swinging a handbag.
c benson

The answer is actually very simple. Women are sexually superior to men. She will, if she chooses, exercise her sexual prowess at any time and for any reas0n she decides. Certainly the vast majority of ladies maintain themselves in an honorable behavior and understand the situation. Sure, she is capable to beat any man in the sack. Often they have an excellent reas0n to get back at a husband because too many men have a tendency to disregard a woman's feelings. A man may not give a sh1t about her vanity. He might not devote enough attention by inquiring and listening to her as she attempts to communicate her cares and interests to him. There are any number of good reas0ns a lady might take another man to bed. Also some men behave as an ideal husband and treat their wives so well that other wives envy her good fortune. Yet a lady may cuckold such a (rare) good husband if she finds herself in a very desirable situation for her to do so. Fortunately, women usually conduct themselves prudently. Otherwise mankind would quickly collapse in chaos! The bottom line here is the fact that a woman can and does however, whatever and whenever she pleases. It is a fact of life.

Suppose a wife decides to take a lover. She emasculates her husband simply by filling her cunt with the prick of her lover. Hubby is not virtually dickless. He IS rendered sexually superficial in both her and his eyes! All men are crushed when they discover they are no longer number one between wifey's thighs. Some men shake it off. He might give her lover 25 cents and tell him to get a good piece of ass.. Then he may replace her with a younger, prettier, sexier, not nearly as fat, bigger titted beauty with far more class and pers0nality than his (now) feeling very much mousier wife. Oh yeah, it really works so well when your new girl's ass is so much more petite than the mile wide ass of your wife! One that doesn't have a clown pocket sized cunt. Once a guy discovers a plethora of willing cunt just waiting for someone to "deliver the male"... THERE is your birth of a "bull"! It is that simple! I've "tuned up" more than one bitch that way. It always works. Always. It crushes a woman as much, if not more, than a man is stomped when she pulls the same sh1t on him!

It can work both ways!

Sissies and joyous cuckolds have so many posts on this and similar sites. They all tell their tales along the same basic theme. There are enough psychologists on this site far more able to explain that behavior than I can.

I ain't better than anyone else. If I can escape this sh1t, then any man on this site is equally capable of doing the same. It is all in attitude.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Linda38DD
Those pics of those sweet little shaved hard cocks look absolutely delicious. I know the cum from them is thick and sweet.
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I'm a bit late to this discussion, the post I'm quoting from being nearly 9 years old, but this really sums me up. Although my wife left me for a neighbour of ours in 2012 and we divorced 2 years later, here I am, still enjoying a cuckold website. I loved knowing I had an unfaithful wife, though we didn't call it "being unfaithful" or "cheating" as it had been my idea for her to have sex with other men. She was just "naughty".

Those cuckold tendencies clearly never leave you. I now have a girlfriend who is the best part of 20 years younger than me, the total opposite of my easy, slutty wife, shy and very inexperienced, but the idea of her having sex with someone else with my knowledge and approval are often in my thoughts and inching very, very slowly towards coming to fruition.
Peter C

A very dominant wife at the time. Natural submissive tendencies for me. The internet. Let's see, what else? F o r c e d chastity most of the time. This was before we knew about cock cages. A 15 year age difference, me being older. Bi-tendencies for both of us. Then she told me that she was going to fuck around, and that I could take it or leave it. I took it, boy did I ever take it. It all started with a dominant woman. So very rare, imho.

if you cant make a slut out of your wife you have to be one yourself

I loved wearing girls clothes since early ***** hood and knew I had a tiny cock compared to other boys. My mom would whip my ass when I was young and the girl next door would laugh at me getting a beating.She later took over humiliating me and making me wear some of her clothes. I was also a bedwetter and had to wear diapers to bed. When this girl found out she started to make me wear them all the time,even to school.I soon developed a diaper fetish and loved also to cross dress.I knew then that I was a sissy and enjoyed the way the neighbor girl would laugh at me and take me to the barn and make me dress up and spank me. She told me I was a sissy and one day she made me give her boyfriend a blowjob while I was in my diaper and wearing one of her dresses. I knew then there was no turning back.I ended up marrying this girl and now in a FLM where I'm her sissy cuckold.

In answer to the original post person. I think we are just all different as with society in general. I was always submissive even as a adolescent I had fantasies of being dominated. I was drawn to wearing feminine clothing and wanted in my mind to be a girl like my older sisters. I liked dolls, playing dress up with mom's and sister clothes, stockings, heels and make up. I enjoyed things little boys were not supposed to like so I tried to change and be a boy. I liked girls and was not drawn to other boys when younger. I dated a cheerleader in high school, a very feminine girl that was always in dresses, heels and make up. Pretty much the girl I wanted to be. I thought I was just going through a phase and I would be like everyone else. We got married right out of HS and were married 15 years. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out who and what you are in life. Our life was great for 12 years or so and then she began to travel with her work and so we had time apart from each other. She was not dominant at all, unfortunately, so I began to get interested in looking into that. Our sex life became nonexistent and so she and I discussed her needing a Man in her life. I was very supportive and wanted to see her find a strong, confident man to be in her life. It was about this time too that I started having my submissive, feminine feelings as well and started acting on them. Turns out we both needed a strong, confident and dominant man in our lives. Long story short, we were very supporive of each other for several years as we sorted out our lives. I was always so jealous of her as she had many lovers and I was so inferior to those alpha men. I could not have competed with them for her affection even if I wanted to. Of course I have always felt inferior to men and women for the most part anyway and I have embraced my ********** to primarily men for most of my life. So even though I am not really a cuck I did enjoy my wife being ith a superior man than I could be and I understood from a female perspective how a real masculine man can make a woman feel like woman. As I confided to my ex that I have those same feelings of wanting to do everything to please a man and show my respect, devotion, obedience and loyalty to him.

Linda38DD
4 that's a sweet looking set. Thanks for sharing. Most wives would be shy, but I can tell he's thrilled to show off. I could spend some time him. (Naked og course)
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vahtcpl
Absolutely Beautiful.
MUST SEE!
Thank You for sharing vahtcpl

I became a cuck sissy cuz I only have a micro penis and like to wear girls clothes. My wife taught me to accept that I will never be a man and that she is going to take a lover while I get locked up in chastity. She said I'm worthless and she doesn't allow me in the marital bed.

I always wanted to see my wife with another man. It took time to convince her. She agreed to under one condition: I'm not allowed to have sex with another woman. I agreed to it as I hoped / thought it would be MMF. She had sex with other men and I was just watching. When she experienced the first time BBC it was clear I got caged. Since then I'm pussy-free and and locked up (chastity belt). At the beginning it was confusing being caged and no longer able to control my sex life. But soon I started to enjoy my position and since I wear a chastity belt with butt plug it drives me really crazy. As in another post mentioned I only may masturbate when her black Bull is around.

Well for starters Being cheated on with a few different girls , not being able to satisfy them , I was,caught weaing panties and pleasing myself in them , being bi and incident I witness that were impacting, also dating slutty women even when u know what the consequences will be , I was,always so turned on by slutty women

dany dingo
Also putting a girlfriend on to porn will do it also , and if u like me and have a 4 inch uncut little dick it's more of a chance