Cuckolding a Virgin

Hello everyone;

I've been lurking on here for a while and I wanted to post on something. I am 25 years old and I am still a virgin (i.e never had intercourse). My biggest fanstasy is to be kept a virgin by a Dominant Woman who also cuckolds me. To me it is the ultimate denial and offense, especially the thought of being made to clean her out after sex.

One day I would love for a Domme to lock me in a chastity device and tell me "your little dick belongs to me, and it will NEVER to inside my pussy or any other woman's pussy. You're going to be my chaste, virgin cuckold forever."

Does anyone else think this is hot, or am I nuts? I'm really looking forward to hearing people's thoughts on this.

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Thank You, i'm locked in my CB-3000 right now as a matter of fact!

i know this is an unconventional fetish but it really turns me on and the idea of being denied intercourse is amazing.

Unlikely to happen, but it's a great, GREAT fantasy! I'd love to read some hot stories with that theme.

This is an excerpt from the book: "Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for loving female authority" by Elise Sutton. It was posted on orgasmdenial.com. This pretty much outlines the kind or relationship I would like to have with a Woman and it perfectly explains this fetish.

From "Sex is for the Woman's Pleasure"

"I have been in a Female dominated marriage with a younger man for the past eight years. I am Forty-one and my husband is Twenty-nine. I was married once before but got divorced. That marriage only lasted five years and I was pretty hurt. When I was thirty-two, I began to date a
twenty year old man. He was actually the mister of a woman I use to work with. It is a long story about how I ended up going out with this boy but to make it short, I found myself in a relationship with a man that was twelve years younger. Not only was he only twenty years old but he was also still a virgin. We went out just as friends in the beginning and as we became attracted to each other, I made up my mind that I was not about to relax with him. I figured that this relationship would never last and since I knew his Mother, I did not want to be the one who took his virginity. His Mother was Ok with us dating because I told her we were only going to movies and dinner as friends.

This young man fell for me and I enjoyed being the dominant partner in a relationship. My maturity automatically made me the dominant one. I was attracted to him and the sexual temptations began to become strong. We began to kiss and make out passionately but I told him that I was not about to have sex with him unless we were married. I did not want to take his virginity.

He would beg me for sex and I came to enjoy denying him. That is when something totally unexpected happened to me. I developed a bit of a fetish in teasing and denying this young man. We would kiss and he would get rock hard and I would take him to the edge and then make him back off. The problem was that I was getting so excited, after my dates with him, I found myself masturbating at home alone with my vibrator. I started to desire to have sex with him but I also was enjoying this power I had in teasing and tempting this virgin boy. I thought something was wrong with me and I kept my self-perceived perverted fetish to myself. I could not seem to contain my desires and my arousal when I teased this virgin boy. I began to dress more provocative for our dates and I loved to make out with him. I would rub his hard penis through his jeans, take his hands and allow him to fondle my breasts through my bra, get him to the edge and then tell him that we must stop because he must remain a virgin until marriage. I would then go home and pleasure myself with my vibrator as I fantasized about my virgin boy.

Our dates grew to the place where not only did I allow him to fondle my breasts, but I began to allow him to suck my nipples and eventually, I even allowed him to orally pleasure me. My fetish could not be contained within the recesses of my mind and I became so excited that I needed sexual relief and I desired his touch and tongue. I taught him how to orally please a woman and how to bring me to orgasms but I stayed true to my commitment and did not permit him intercourse. My original motives in keeping him a virgin were pure, as I was doing this because of my relationship with his Mother. But it developed into this strong fetish. I literally got off in denying him sex while he had to pleasure me.

He did not know the pleasure I was getting within my mind by denying him and he thought I was making him stop short of intercourse for morality reamisters. We continued to date and eventually we became engaged. I stayed true to my commitment even after we became engaged. His lady was surprised at our engagement but she saw how happy her mister was so she actually gave us her blessing for our marriage. She assumed her mister and I were in a traditional and vanilla relationship. My goal was to keep him a virgin until our wedding night. Somehow my fetish and sexuality became so strong that I almost needed for him to be a virgin. I can't explain it but I felt so in control and so powerful making him pleasure me while I denied him. He had accidents and climaxed a few times as we were making out. I even stroked him to orgasm on a few occasions but I would not permit him to penetrate me.

I became so turned on about the thought of a virgin boy performing cunnilingus and worshipping my body. I experienced many orgasms as he would eat me and I would often pleasure myself with my vibrator when I was by myself as I pondered this power dynamic in my mind. I enjoyed this intense mental stimulation so much that I realized that as soon as he lost his virginity, this power dynamic would be gone forever and I worried if I would still enjoy sex with him. Strange, I know, but I could not help what was occurring with my sexuality.

A few weeks before our wedding, I asked him if he would be willing to remain a virgin after our wedding. He said "No" but I was so use to being the dominant partner and I was so accustomed to getting my way, that I threatened him by saying that perhaps he should find someone else to marry. He was stunned and devastated so he begged me to marry him and he agreed to abide by any terms and conditions I decided to set. This excited me even further.

I found myself researching feminism and female domination. I began to desire to really control and dominate my soon to be new husband. I tried to learn about my fetish but could not find anything on this type of desire. Eventually, I discovered material about female domination and D&S. I went to a fetish store and talked to the female owner. I told her about my fetish and my situation. She gave me some books about Leather sex and S&M and she told me about chastity devices. I really became excited. I gave my soon to be young husband my terms for our marriage and he reluctantly agreed to those terms. He became excited about Leather sex and Female Domination and he agreed to remain a virgin as long as I wanted.

We agreed not to engage in intercourse until our fifth wedding anniversary and if it went well, it would then become a regular part of our sex life. He agreed and we were wed as planned. Shortly after we were married, I had him fitted for a chastity device. Our marriage has become a totally FemDom marriage and I incorporated spankings, discipline, strap-on play and other D&S sex into our marriage. My young husband orally pleases me as much as I demand and his orgasms are supervised and determined by me. I love being married to a young virgin and denying him. I knew what intercourse was all about from my first marriage and my past dating experiences but I was not tempted to have it with my new husband. When I want penetration, I make him pleasure me with my dildo.

Due to our D&S lifestyle and the power I have by keeping him a virgin, he has become even more submissive toward me with each passing year. Once our fifth year anniversary approached, I asked him if he still wanted to lose his virginity or could we expand it for five additional years. He wanted to lose it but I still was not ready to surrender this power.

My control over him is so complete that I convinced him to go five additional years. So the plan now is for me to allow him intercourse two years from now on our tenth wedding anniversary. I plan on staying true to my promise because a part of me does want him to experience what intercourse with a woman is like. He will be thirty-one when it finally happens. But I know it will change things some. I still get wet thinking about being married and denying a thirty-year old virgin. It drives my sexuality and makes me horny every time I think about it, which is often.

Dating a younger man placed Lydia in the dominant role with a man and this interaction released her dominant desires and true nature. It found its expression in her mind in the form of sexual excitement by being an experienced woman in the dominant role with an inexperienced man. This actual experience triggered sexual stimulation in her mind for some unknown reamister. She loved having power over this younger man and to
her, that power comes from keeping him a virgin.

Just remember one thing if the chance or urge for intercourse ever surfaces. Once you have done it, your fantasy is gone forever, but as long as you remain a virgin your fantasy survives and can always grow and be expirienced by you with the sky being the limit on what can be a very fulfilling fantasy adventure.

Having a girlfriend or a wife that you have never been inside but are exposed to ones that have can be a most thrilling path to travel.

Yes. Often I feel the urge to loose my virginity, but I know in the back of my head I will very really disappointed in myself and my fantasy will be gone.

And I agree, it will be a thrilling and challenging past.

I would love to hear the opinions of any Dominant Women or Bulls on this issue.

Thanks.

Hello everyone. I know threads on here always attract more attention with pics so heres one of me in my CB-3000.

The 3000 is ok, but I would like to get a better CB some day. I would also like to get a PA piercing as a sign of ownership when I find a Mistress, it could also make my chastity more secure.

Me locked up

Many years ago, when I was myself a virgin, I also had this fantasy. I didn't have the strength to hold out and go through with it but I wish you well.

Contrary to what some have posted here, I think that it could very well happen. In my younger days seeking out like-minded fetishist was much harder. With the internet at your disposal and already very clear on the fantasy it seems to me you have a good chance of finding a dominant woman interested in just such a thing.

My only advice is to begin to search vigorously - ads and postings, etc. as soon as possible and be very clear upfront. The longer it takes to find your partner and the more you have other relationships first, the less chance that you will be able to retain your virginity until you meet the one who will truly chastize you.

Good luck and do let us know if you meet someone!
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

If you get lucky you may find the right woman and convince her that this is the way it should be. - Your pleasure should be no concern of hers - her pleasure must be everything to you. You'll live as a normal couple and appear "normal" to all others. However, you'll take pleasure in the fact that she is having her true sexual needs fulfilled by others while you remain a committed virgin.

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It seems like a hot fantasy, but if you are a virgin you don't really know what you are being powerd to give up.

True enough, battered_husband, but that could be erotic too - for many people sex itself never lives up to the fevered imaginations of the horny virgin.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I wanted to thank everyone who has responded so far.

I have not found anyone to submit to in this way, I doubt I will find someone on this site but hopefully someday it will happen. I have been thinking more and more about presentation and I feel very deeply that this is what I want. Granted I dont know what I am being denied but just the idea is so amazing. First the denial aspect, then the beautful statement of female domination.

While I would gladdly submit to staying a virgin if my future Mistress wanted to take it at some point that would be her choice. Also, I would still be able to perform in other ways sexually, i.e. using my mouth and asshole.

Anyone else have comments?

Fuck a girl. Lose your virginity. Your cuckolding fantasy is based on fear of women and a lack of self-confidence. You're worried about what a woman will think of you.

All cuckolding fantasies are based on that stuff, to an extent, but you're using this fantasy as a way to avoid confronting your fears. Fucking women is great! It's amazing! And once you do it once, much of your fear will go away. You need to experience it. Then you can worry about being cucked. Eventually, maybe you can even find the right woman for you, a dom who likes cuckolding but also has sex with you. It's much better than not having sex.

I think you are right that you will not find someone on this site. My advice is to seek out "teasing/denial" and "chastity" fetishist and "lifestyle femdom" boards. You should also try alt.com dating site. Just put up an ad being really sincere and direct about what you want and I suspect you'll get responses. You can also browse ads from women into the fetishes I listed above.

I think it is hard to find a woman who is explicitly looking for "a guy to marry who is into cuckolding," but easier to find one into dominance and/or denial/chastity who will cuckold you as well.

There are many chastity sites. Try contacting operators (Like Mistress Lori of Mistress Lori's Chastity") and let them know of your interests. They are generally motivated enthusiasts and may be able to refer or introduce you to folks.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I think rather than having sex with her 30 year old virgin husband, she should cuckold him with several lovers.
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