Question about Milking (UPDATE with SUCCESS!)

Hiya everyone!

I'm having an online relatioship with a totally awesome Goddess, and she has taken control of my cock and my orgasms. I used to masturbate a lot, and would do so for extended periods , teasing myself before eventually cumming. Now i generally do the same, but dont cum.

She has ordered me to milk myself every few days and to that end I purchased a prostate massager (http://www.stagshop.com/gc/gc_item.exe?F=D&K=100096&R=H%2FCatalog%3AM ale%20Products%3AProstate%20Stimulators&SN=1128153730749619522244&FF=H &FK=Catalog:Male%20Products:Prostate%20Stimulators&Z9=0) to help with the task and have been able to easily identify the sensation of correctly findingmy prostate.

The problem i'm having, though, is that I dont seem to be milking all that much fluid out of my body, and when i'm done, i'm left feeling like i need to cum (incredibly frustrating and humiliating, which is good... but still). About all i'm able to manage to get out is a few drops of clear fluid (precum).

Does anyone with some experiece in this area know if what i'm experiencing is correct, or if theres something i'm mising. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.

My wife and I were wondering if this even worked, so hopefully some good answers come in. Question for you so after you do that with the tool you bought, what happens when you do masturbate afterwards? Are you able to cum like you would anyhow?

Well. I feel like i could, yes, but Goddess hasnt allowed me to do that. Though i'm 95% sure i would cum just like normal.

I guess there is just not that many people who have done this to answer the questions. I cannot remember which thread, but I seem to recall that someone said it took over 20 minutes of massaging to make anything happen and the wife got board with it after several times and said just jack off

Aaden
On the page cited it says, "non-ejaculatory", which means you won't cum in the usual sense.

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This is my cock after a week of being caged. After a month of this i don't cum alot either.

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this takes a few goes to get right but i now do it fortnightly to my boy and deny him up to 6 months at a time....practise makes perfect

That was a good link

The link was one I had seen before, and while it is interesting, it isnt actually all that helpful

Mindset isnt the problem that i'm encoutering, and I"ve even been to the aneros webstie and donea LOT of reading on the subject.

I've read just about every article and submissive boy's lamentatios about the subject without gaining any REAL knowledge from anyone who seems to have REAL expereince with the subject.

There are two distinct issues i have with 99% of the material i've read:

1) Milking does not equal a handjob. Most of the material out there equates milking to some k ind of hand job where the penis is stimulated by the Mistress until the boy finally cums after a lot of tease/denial. I'm sorry, I have no desire to put my Goddess through hours of work just so i can shoot a load. This is NOT supposed to be for me, and I dont care WHAT Kind of sub you are, the one thing we all have in common is that we want ATTENTION. ALll these articles by submissive men describing long elabourate rituals by which a Mistress gives them a wonderful sounding handjob are great, but are totally agaisnt the spirit of "extracting semen without orgasm."

2) I want to be able to extract my fluids without touching my cock. I need to know if this is in fact possible. I have so far been able to produce little dribbles of precum and the occasional drop of cum, but have yet been unable to produce the kind of flows i've seen in varieous "milking" videos (which are highly suspcicious to me because almost all of them either start right as the cum is being leaked leading me to believe ther was some stimulation prior, or there is an obvoius cut from anal play to cum leaking, again leading me to believe ther was some stimulation of the penis).

I would VERY much like to hear from someone who has been able to produce the 'milking' effect without touching the penis for several minutes before the ejaculation.

All the various articles seem to proclaim this as the ultimate goal, yet no one seems to have experience with this.


ARG. frustrating.

i used to run a Yahoo group on the topic of milking, and while it was very popular and quite informative, Yahoo decided that the topic of milking was too edgy for them. At any rate, in answer to your question::

Yes, it is VERY possible to milk a male without the direct stimulation of the penis being involved. As someone already mentioned, between 20 and 40 minutes can be spent with the Mistress using her finger or massage tool on the prostate of the male being milked. When done right, it will eventually ooze out without the contractions that an orgasm has. It's most frustrating, as you are still left with the desire to cum after it's done, but are generally unable to even get it up.

Good luck,
brianna

Brianna,

Have you ever participated in this? That sounds exactly the type of reaction Asden is looking for. I must say that I am not exactly prepared to spend money on a "tool" that might not do the trick. Did the people you refered to use the Aneros tool.

I have a Nexus Glide prostate Massager (a slightly larger aneros knockoff, available at The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! if you're curious) and have used this with some success but not the desired result.

Finding my prostate with itis very easy, the dififcult part is providing the right KIND of stimulation. Let me describe how i go about this and maybe someone with experience can help:

1) generally begin with a fairly LONG teasing session. 1 hour or more of light masturbation leading to very near cumming before stopping, then repeating. I keep myself as close to c umming as long as possible without doing so. No fluid other than a little bit of precum from time to time leaves my body.

2) lube up my toy and relax on my bed. Slowly (so as not to casue discomfot) i insert the prostate massager into myself and let my body take it in once its comfortbale doing so. It generally sits nicely agaisnt my prostate, but some playing with it can make it push softer or harder against the bits of my insides that need pushed and proded.

3) I know i've found my prostate when i get the familiar sensation of having to pee when I press on it.

Now.. here is where I kind of run into a block. I have read a lot of articles on the subject and browse teh forums at the aneros website till my eyes feel like they want to red with boys talking about "The Super O" etc.

I am a fairly experienced anal player, and have had dildos, inflatables, plugs and various other fun things inside my bottom.

4) I have tried sevearl positions and approaches to massaging my prostate, from letting my body do it on its own with only muscle contractions to full on fucking myself with the toy and making it rub and drag and grind into my prostate quite vigorously. The most promising results have come from finding just the right spot to press the toy, and holding it there with firm, bordering on HARD pressure. Pressing the rounded tip of the toy against my sensitive parts. I get the strong sensation of needing to pee, i feel my urethra open as if i'm about to, and my body shudders and my heart races and my abdomen gets very very tight. My sphinxter muscles generally do ot conract when i do this, its more a feeling of pushing like when you push to pee.

Now. I've managed to hold this pressure and stimulation for several minutes feelig like any second i'm going to shoot a torrent of cum or piss or both and yet nothing happens. I honestly dont think this is the desired result either, but dam it canf eel good This i *think* is the borderline of the "Super O" the aneros boys like to talk about. NOt really what i'm looking for.

I want to know how to slowly massage my cock and produce cum without orgsasm :-/

TO that end i've tried more gentle processes also, just letting the toy sit inside me, laying on my side, or my back, or kneeling or tkaing up a meditaive posture and just contracting my muscles over and over. This feels nice, but gets very tiring after about 45 minutes or an hour. Good workout of the PC muscles though.

Alas, I'm beginning to feel like i wont be able to do this by myself and that Goddess' fingers are the requried touch

I have one hope left and thats to try a g-spot stimulating vibrator.

BREAKTHROUGH!!!

Okay. After playing with two more toys, I had success!!!

I discovered that miking is 100% about having the right tool for the job. The aneros style massager is not at all right for me, and jelly style dildos and vibrators were too bendy and didnt hi the right spot often enough.

For those of you who have expressed similar woes as those I expressed in my earlier posts, dont fret. It can be done! I did it yay! It feels well... nice, but its definitely NOT an orgasm. I was able to milk a normal amount of cum from myself little drips at a time. It was glorious! I plan to try it again in a couple days and take a little video to share with you all if you're interested.

For now, i have a picture of the glorious little toy i found (which was aboitu 1/3 the cost of an aneros btw) that did the trick VERY nicely.

The trick is to get a GOOD amount of pressure on the prostate and literally massage it over and over. It doesnt take a jabbing power or a hard assfucking... just a gentle petting over and over, but its GOT to get deep enough and at the right angle to really stroke your glands, which the aneros tool and the various jellies and other more straight arrow kind of dildos were totally missing.

I found myself using all kinds of odd positions and tugging and pulling on the handle of the aneros toy to get the right sensations and it just did not work.

5 minutes with the thing in the pictur ebelow and i was oozing cum readily.

Yes. It can be done. Yes. its quite easy.

The trick is having the right tool for the job. The one that fits your body and your reach and your flexibility. It needs to be a HARD toy, though, something that your muscles wont be able to bend out of the way, and something that you can turn and push back and forth with relative ease.

The vibrating bit was fun, but not at all necessary.

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I've experimented with this and I'm not sure my results are what you would call the super o. Basically I tease myself for awhile, usually an hour or so. Then I get lubed up and use a good sized dildo in my ass. After a few minutes, I'll shoot out seminal fluid without the semen and I don't have to touch my cock. Also I can keep ejaculating like this if i keep fucking myself. I came 20 times during one session. At the end I still feel like I need to come but normally I can get hard.

my mistress tells me you fools are all missing the point here . you are not on your knees being milked for your enjoyment.if that were so she would let you inside her or she would suck you off .well wake up thats not happening so all this is for is to flush toxins out of us so we stay well so dribble on and dont look for a hardon [this is being dictated to me as i type].
as i am unable to satisfy her i let my wife have her lovers.

Clive you are 100% correct and as you read from my earlier posts I think yu'll find i'm not doing this for my enjoyment at all but becuase Goddess wants me healthy.

That said, its a plesant experience and I dont go out of my way to make it anything other than that.

If Goddess wanted me to spurt and not enjoy it in the least, i'm sure there are other methods besides milking she would emploey.

I would appreciate not being called a fool for asking intelligent questions, expressing myself and my experience respectfully and most of all for sharing updates and a success story.

If all you want out of this board is porn, then feel free not to read my topic, which it seems you didn't really do if you get the impresion i'm doing this out of anything other than devotion.

i am sorry for any offence but i am too a true devotee to womankind and my mistress has firm ideas on milking and she maintains that she does it in a way as i dont enjoy it .this often takes place with me out in the cold in the garden and sometimes a stranger to me is invited to drain as much as they can the whole thing is geared to discomfort and to be an unsatisfying experiance each time [purely functional] again sorry clive.
as i am unable to satisfy her i let my wife have her lovers.

i have had very little success with milking myself with various toys including the Aneros, but i just got a new toy and it took less then a minute and the cum started dripping out of my locked little cock.
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Good Luck,
sissyjulie

milking time in our house is a time of joy for my mistress and we all agree that it is our highlight of the month [if you have been good .
as i am unable to satisfy her i let my wife have her lovers.

Hello, exactly same problem here.

I have hard time with prostate milking. I use njoy pure wand, from what i have read the best toy for it. I feel I hit the right spot, I feel like my tiny penis is filling with liquid up to the glans, because i have peeing sensation, but no semen leaks. Only lot of precum, and then nothing even after 20 mins of massage.

Right after this i am able to wank normally and produce large volume of semen... Definitely undesired result.

Any hints?

Here's how I do it.

Get a little bit worked up first. Then, with a fairly firm but blunt headed dildo, massage your prostate back and forth (side to side) with firm pressure. Ensure everything is lubed up well. Once you are in the right spot, you will get come dribbling out very quickly. try moving up to a few different spots until you get a feel for the right spot.
Joe