superiority of women?

Somehow i am a bit confused of what i am reading in these fori.
I cant help thinking that most of the posters talk in a degrading way about their wives. I am a Dominant woman, i humiliate my husband because i want to. I have lovers, and they use my husband as i see fit. In my opinion thats what cuckolding is about. I read loads of messages of men getting their "slutwives" to do things, not out of their free will, but because the cuckold wants her to. That has nothing to do with cuckolding. Its just something i wanted to share.
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Thank you luvpain for saying it the way it should be. I love my wife, and respect her choices no matter how much I dissagree with them. Women have been and always will be in the real driver's seat.

My wife has a black lover and has said she wants his young, what can I say about this? She is an adult, and an intelligent woman in control of our lives. I am not her slave, but more of a loving servant who follows her wishes and desires. She is not a slut, nor do I try to get her to do things for me. The pleasure I take is knowing that she is happy with me.

Good point luvpain,in our swinging days many of the couples we met had one of the partners,usually the female,who were not fully enthused by the lifestyle but were doing it just to please their partner.This can be a recipe for disaster,for as soon as the marriage hits a rocky patch the *** partner has a ready supply of mud to sling.
In our case we haven't become cuck/cuckoldress overnight its been a gradual progression over the years,safe in the knowledge that at any time either of us could voice their doubts and that would be the end of it.
I call my wife "The Slut" because thats part of our game and though i am caged most of the time i know where the key is and even if i didn't it would but a few seconds work to break the lock and remove it.
To power someone to perform sexual acts against their will is wrong no matter how you dress it up and is no way to have a happy marriage.
To quote someone else on this site "Just my twopeneth"

Its not so much the slut calling that i dislike. As long as two people get off on it, who am i to judge. The fact is that i read a lot on this site, and it occurs to me that most posters talk in a rather disrespectfull manner about their wives. Posts like :"I want my wife to be impregnated by a black bull." i always think, what would your wife think of that?
Our idea of cuckolding isnt so much about offense, it's more of trying to maintain a constant state of arrousal for both. And whatever rocks your boat to get there, is fine by me.
The ultimate cuckolding relation is one of love, so deep that even a third, fourth or howmany you wish to allow in there, doesnt pose a threath for the two that started the relation. Polyamory has the same in it. We are married, i love my husband so much but i also have my wishes. Some of them remain fantasies, just because theyre better of that way. Some of them we pursue, to a level that makes us more complete.
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i am Lorraines cuck.
I believe it is her devine right to be happy always.
It is my duty to provide everything she needs except sex.
Her sexual pleasure comes from her lovers and her dominance over me.
We,I believe,are a true 100% cuckold life living couple.
If Lorraine wants,Lorraine gets.
This makes me happy that she is happy.
As I have said before in my posts,there is no greater sign of true devotion than eating another mans juices out of my wife,knowing he is a real man,and the one she turns to in times of sexual satisfaction requirements.
I am an ex squaddie,respected local business man,and everything a man should be for her,but in EVERY way sexual,i am a pathetic tiny dicked,chastity wearing sissy wimp,made to eat creampies at least twice a week,suck cock and lick arse when told to do so by Lorraine,or 1 of her current lovers
Any comments etc,will be dutifully replied to by me.
Thankyou.
cuck alex

Its refreshing to read lorraine.
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getting pregnant doesnt stop with being pregnant. Most of the times nine months later a baby comes into the family. Maybe this is one of the ideas that should remain a fantasy
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this whole bullthing is not my idea either. A bull suggests someone that's merely a breathing dildo. I prefer my boyfriends to have a good cock and they have to know how to use it. As far as colour goes, i never got that idea. I find it degrading that any woman would go for a black lover only because it seems degrading to her husband. That would reduce the black man in question to something from a past era. Anyway, I find it interesting to read how men and women think about this wonderfull subject.
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Very good posts Luvpain...the woman's wishes must remain paramount and i totally agree that bringing a baby into this world as sometimes expressed in 'breeding' posts is best left remaining as a fantasy.

Good point, and if you are a Domme, then you'd surely know what I mean by the term "Topping from the Bottom".

I'm like you. If I'm going to serve a Dominant Woman, then I do the things that SHE desires and enjoys, she doesn't do what I enjoy. within the constraints of SSC, and permisteral limits of course.

Unfortunately, in these types of forums, there is a lot of fantasy, and its easy for people to loose the reality of this kind of lifestyle. I've made several posts to that effect already.
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

i understand that completely. Topping from the bottom isnt my thing tho. I agree it happens frequently. I will have my mind set open for his wishes, and feel an urge to fullfill my own. INdeed in a SSC way. Certainly when it comes to cuckolding you need much freedom in a relation. Thats also the bottleneck for most, whereever peoples freedom starts, others limits begin. (Might not be spelled correctly, but you get the message...)
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Hate to be pedanitc but the plural of forum is fora.

By the way, I aggree with your general point that some of the posters on here are disrespectful toward their wives and toward women in general.

Actually this forums really brought to light, at least for me, that 'cuckold' fantasies are so varied they sometimes borderline on the diametrically opposed. For example, some cucks don't like offense, some do, for some the idea of financial humilation is brilliant, others hate it, some like black 'lovers' for their wife, some race being involved, etc.

It's pointless to debate who holds the 'right' cuck fantasy. It doesn't exist. We're all wired differently, even in the cuck world. I wish these forums had a little more variety rather than 'mild/extreme/ultimate/rough' which means all things to all people and lead to a lot of frustration and confusion.

What do you think?

i agree and respect that opinion stevedogers. Offcourse there are a lot of varieties that make things more interesting for some. I have had a black lover for years, only thing is that i didnt have him for his skintone, i had him cause he had a huge dick and knew what to do with it.
I didnt want to debate the right form, i was merely pointing out my opinion as you did yours.
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Interesting thread. I kina think that all words have different meanings for people. Luvpain's viewpoint is like ours. My gf has had two lovers, and she speaks of them as lovers. She likes that they are romantic, kind, and passionate. One of them is less well endowed in the privates department than I am.

I really enjoy taking direction from her. The discipline she doles out to me changes my attitude. The more dominant she is, the more I adore her. The word "adore" is carefully chosen. She is like the princess, the queen, the movie star, the sex symbol.

Some who have proposed to be her "bull" were too brash and pushy. This is why she dumped her last lover. He became 'old hat'. Inconsiderate, impatient.

I think that the relationship we have cultivated is one of the many 'natural' relationships that are available to human beings. In the natural kingdom, it can be found in wolves, elephants, chimpanzees, and other higher primates.

The non-alpha male serves a profound purpose in many societies. I believe that we are all capable of many dances. In our relationship, this dance is working.

It is not only a bedroom relationship. She is comfortable being with a man who refuses to argue with her, accepts her exactly the way she is, permits her to seek happiness wherever she wishes, and is attentive to her every wish.
I will make you crazy.

Nice posts. I think cuckolding can be whatever someone wants it to be. It depends on what two people bring in to it, enjoy, get off on, and contains the exact same dynamics that it would if it were not a cuckolding relationship just be more boring.

I permisterally do not get off on being talked about in disrespectful manner, so I consider myself a Cuckoldress. No one subs me. I know girls that are more emotionally attached to their lover/lovers and are very tender, and I know women who go for the gang bang "be a sub" for a strong bull thing too. I guess whatever floats your boat.

Good point was brought up about swinging. I like chicks, but I hated the swingers club scene since the men seemed to be obnocious and selfish in the ways they conducted themselves and talked about their partners. It probably paved the way in to cuckolding for me.
xxx Amanda

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I, permisterally, don't believe EITHER gender is inherently superior to the other. I believe individuals are superior to Other individuals, however, and in different ways. You live your life how you choose to live, and how you can Handle living it. I, permisterally, don't like the idea of having a woman domme Me. Not so much because I feel that she's inherently inferior. I'm just not into being controlled. I'd much rather be IN control.

LUVPAIN- You do know how to bring intelligent discussion here. I find entirely to much disrespect for wives shown here ,My relationship with my husband is the most important . I also agee with your ideas about the "breeding" thing. What I do brings pleasure to both my husband and myself ..end result is great sex!

so is it ,fori forums of fora ?

what would be the plural for 'message bored ' ?

Hate to be a googler, but it's either forums or fora
Who's Your Bitch.single,cuz not man enuf to attract a woman.
Will meet for sissy sex with yor cuck!!

That is why they aren't getting any. They haven't the slightest clue regarding women. I don't know any chicks who go for foolishness like that.


Appears to be bit of a double standard here. You are a Domme. You seem to prefer to rule lesser males and lose all respect for them. A natural reaction. I agree with your ideas and like your opinions. I especially like your views regarding cuckold pregnancy foolishness!

I suggest that you do well to find a dominant man to take charge and make you feel like the true woman you are. You need a man who is on your level. He'll tell you to shut your mouth. You will.

Otherwise, any willing woman of legal age with sound mind and body is sexually superior to any man. No exceptions!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

luvpain
you are right Ma'am
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I know it's a while back now, but I really enjoyed cuck alex's comments on his being totally sub to his wife Lorraine1971. In every other way he is a dominant person, excepting within his marriage where he is the epitome of a weak cuckold husband.

I'm like alex when it comes to my wife she in charge she has learned to control me like a good cuck I enjoy being the beta male.

How can sex be good if the woman is not happy?

I can certainly see the point the original poster made. I know every ones situation is different. but in my marriage my wife began stepping out on me without my knowledge because she needed something I was not or could not give her. it was not my idea to ask her to find a lover but I was very happy she did. I was never asked for my consent and her decisions on seeing anyone or not was her decision alone. I could not have told her to do or see anyone for my pleasure although she did know eventually I was in favor of her going out. it was because I was totally inadequate for her needs. she was a very intelligent, strong, capable woman and always decided for herself. I liked it that way. I always looked up to her but knew that she would eventually find someone more her equal. which she did. I wish her nothing but good health and happiness.

Probably the most thought provoking discussion on this site. ... it was me who first strayed from my marital vows, I think mostly out of frustration and anger if I'm honest. Now my wife is steering her own path and where it leads and how long this lasts is her decision and as her partner it is for me to protect and support her

yes, I agree, oldrope, it is a thought provoking subject. but then I totally believe in the superiority of women and the alpha men that are able to become their mates. good luck on your current situation.