Peter C:
I will never understand her becoming so secretive when she knew I would let her fuck whoever she wanted.
It's not just about the sex and permission. Sometimes it's about wanting to recover a part of themselves that they think they've lost. I'm not saying it's right, or that it's rational. It's about emotions.
Peter C:
I think he keeps her on a much tighter rein than I ever did, maybe fearful of the likelihood of her seeking out some extra cock elsewhere again.
If she wants to, she'll find a way. Give it enough time, it'll probably happen.
Like I said in the previous paragraph: It's not about permission. It's about how she feels inside herself.
If she's embarrassed to admit that she fucked someone, she'll keep it a secret, even if her partner has given his approval. I've seen that happen in my own relationship.
xoxoxo
Christine