Wife asked me to stop working out

As big as a sub as I am, my wife didnt feel comfortable with me being more muscled than some of her men, even if everyone was better hung than I was, so she asked me to stop working out. I am now down 20lbs of mostly muscle, but now I dont like the way I feel, I feel less of a sexy slut and more of a soft unsexy thing.

Any other more fit guys subs? Any bulls care if the hubby is better looking or in better shape?

Submis/sion is a state of mind. You can be 6'6", 275# and be submissive or be 5'5", 150# and be dominant. Physical size or condition shouldn't be a factor.

Explain to your wife that your workouts and physical conditioning are part of who you are, and they're important to you and your health. Help her understand that your being in shape has no bearing on your attitude in the bedroom.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Speaking as a Bull, if the cuckold is going to become physically involved with the Bull and the Hotwife, then I wouldn't want a fat and flabby husband hanging around while I fucked her. The cuck can be in good shape without being a threat to the Bull.

I appreciate the feedback, I am not huge but when I am in shape I am 6ft1 215, muscled but not tone, now I am a soft 195 and getting lighter. I myself would prefer big muscular guys for her, but she is only 5ft so everyone is bigger than her.

good husband you are