peterlimp
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I have been with my wife for many years and I have just out of the blue told her all about my cuckold fantasies. (lead baloon springs to mind). She said she couldn't relax with another man even though she has had a few partners before me. We have'nt really spoken about it since the time I confessed all. Now I dont know what to do because I feel like a caged lion going mad. I really want to see her taken by other men and I thought she would be really happy to have my blessing. I'm confused as to what to do now and if anybody here could offer some advise I would much appreciate it.
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brainbox1
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Take it slowly. Worse thing you coudl do is to push or power her. No doubt she has some concerns like all women: that you do not lover her; want to use it as an excuse to fuck other women; will treat her differently when she cuckolds you; that it will end your relationship. You need to discuss these matters with her without being pushy.
Maybe a start is to fantasy in the bedroom, get her to use a dildo (name it after a friend, co-worker, neighbour, ect), read cuckodl stories with her. Make it fun and get her to equate cuckolding withs exual pleasure. Good luck.
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peterlimp
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Thank you brainbox. That all makes perfect sense. I think I'm just getting too worried because she seemed so convincing when she said she didn't want to go with any other men. I will try to keep you up to date if there is any progress.
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dickles
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Yes take it slow. Ask her to talk. Make sure she does nothing. You fix the coffee tea what ever for a long sit down. You wait on her hand and foot. Let her know that you understand she is upset and that she may have lost respect for you as a man (OF COURSE SHE DID) Let her know you accept that. Most women think that you are really angling for permission to fuck other women. Make her understand you will do what ever it takes to prove that is not so. Offer to wear a cock cage to prove it. You wait on her hand and foot all week. Every week set up a Talk where she can examen your feelings and hers. Good LUCK but remember wishes sometimes have a very high price.
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I_A_S_P
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Keep pushing the issue and let us know how it works out for your relationship. ..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!
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peterlimp
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last night we watched a woman fucking two black bulls while her hubby watched all on xhampster. She was very wet and cum in minutes. I did ask if she wished it was her and she just told me to shut up.
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Allen
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Now that she knows, do not push her about it. She may get angry, and push back. Trust me because that is exactly what I did. It can make for some difficult times. Take it slow, easy and let her bring it up. Keep things subtle and keep watching the videos. Maybe after some time, get a dildo to play with...
Good luck.
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peterlimp
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Thank you for your honest advise Allen. She sent me a text calling me a sexy beast and saying her orgasm was really intense. She also said that she was feeling good . Now the cat is out of the bag I am feeling really impatient. I just want to see her fucked by another man.
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clgrycuck
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It really depends on the woman, not all women can be converted.
Out of the three relationships I have had only one, the middle one, embraces her inner slut.
Currently I get told my desires are disgusting...
Anyhow if you love her more than the lifestyle don't push it.
As a guy who's sick and has a self life of only a few years having someone that can be with you through the tough stuff takes the burning flame of wanting to be a cuck and makes it bearable...
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JUANITO
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You have to wake up those feelings in her very sloooooowly!! A dildo is a great start, and while using it on her just sort of watch some porn that shows a woman fucking more than one man or being double penetrated. Watch her reaction and go from there...I believe a cuckold woman can be developed in almost any female if using the proper technique and dedication of time to the task. Some take to it quicker than others, but women were not meant to have just one sex partner. Nature even provided for that! The shape of the male penis even proves this!...the head is designed to pull out the previous male sex partner's cum out of her pussy before introducing your own. Nature did this to better the last sex partner's chances of being the one who impregnates the woman he is fucking.
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Kittensucker
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Lick her while she reads sexy stories out loud. Most men look at pictures for porn but most women read dirty stories.
After she gets used to it, lick her while she chats with Black Men online.
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Mountaincuck
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Why is it all about what you want?
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mulberry1313
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Now, I have to confess - most of my knowledge of this area is theoretical. But that doesn't stop other people, so why not me? OK: It is one thing to get your wife to actually get involved in your fantasies. It is a completely different thing to actually go out and get a man. Remember, this is another permister - he could be good or bad. If he's really a good permister at heart, then he's going to want more from your wife than just a lay. Problem. If he's a bad permister, well, you are going to get hurt one way or another.
I would side with the rest of the advice here - take it slow, and don't power it. You have already gone a million miles more than most folks, in that you 1) let her know about your fantasy, and 2) She actually kind of liked it. Just keep it in that mode for now; this is a holding pattern. Then, when the right man comes into her life, she will know that she has a hall-pass, and can indulge in what feels right.
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