piglett26
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So I have been presented with this scenario, and I am wondering if others have done this:
I have known this girl for a few years now, and I know she is very promiscous, and loves having multiple partners. We find each other attractive, and last night with too many wines in us, starting discussing us having a relationship. She would have other men in her sex life, was a given, but what struck me, was she saw that I would still be the alpha male. She wanted me to service her other lovers sexually, but as the alpha, because as she put it "the alpha can do what he wants.". Thoughts?
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piglett26
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No one??????????
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kittikat
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Go for it. If the thought of getting service from another man as well as her, doesn't bother you, go for it. If it does bpther you, then walk away. After all, being envolved with another man does take a sertian kind of mind set and not all of us have that mind set. It it was me and I felt I could live with it and enjoy it, I would jump at the chance to be you.
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piglett26
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I am ok servicing another man....but not sure how that would work with me as the "alpha". It is wierd, because I suppose at the end of the day, physically nothing is different, but the "mind" side of it would be. Although, I have been thinking, with the right guy, it might start that way, but evolve over time. Its just a scenario I never contemplated before. She is fucking hot thou.
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kittikat
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Being an alpha can be hard if you are not truely one, but having been on both side of that story, I can tell you that both are fun. How ever, at this point in my life, I would rather serve than be served unless she is extreemly hot. That would change everything.
Either way, I think you should at least give being Alpha a try. If you don't like it, change.
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piglett26
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Good idea
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kittikat
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Enjoy and let me know how it goes.
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ninto
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It is definitely possible to top from the bottom, but you better be ready to communicate well, and often.
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kittikat
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True but that is true of any relationship. No talking can result in you and others getting hurt.
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