No longer cumming in wife

I've been fantasizing about my wife with other men for several years now. While she's not absolutely opposed to the idea, she's not completely warmed up to it yet either so I'm currently relegated to merely fantasizing about it and occasionally roleplaying it with her. We enjoy a fairly active sex life and probably fuck once or twice a week on average and she's very good in bed.

However, lately I've found that when it comes to the actual act of fucking her I completely lose my arousal once I'm inside of her. My cock remains hard, but it's like my "horniess" immediately shuts off. This has reached the point where the last several times we've had sex, I've actually had to fake orgasming. Everything else about sex remains erotic for me and I have no problem cumming if she strokes me or sucks my cock and I'm able to cum very quickly if I'm jerking off while watching her masturbate. It's just when it comes to actually getting on top of her and pushing my cock into her pussy, I lose all interest.

I was curious if any of the other guys who are into being cucked have experienced anything similar.

My honest opinion is that you need to get yourself back on track. If you want your wife to cuckold you, you need to be supportive in every way. If you are not able to cum while fucking her, most likely she will think she is no longer attractive to you. No matter how much you tell her you support her, love her, and find her sexy...if you can't get off while with her...I can't see how she will want to cuckold you...her loving husband.

This fantasy/lifestyle can be a great asset to a marriage, but it can also be a marriage buster.

Get her to tell you a real or pretend story about getting fucked well by another man...she might not be opposed to that. It could be a stepping off point.

Geecrizz hits the nail right on the head. Since my wife had a former lover I got her to confess to me about their lovemaking...she told me he was very large, about 3" longer than I, and he knew how to make her cum like a horse. When I started to use a dildo on her, I nicknamed the dildo with the ex-boyfriend's name. This kind of broke the ice and reassured her that I was ok with her being sexually active with other men. From those early beginnings I was able to evolve into her going out on dates with other guys, and eventually having sex in my presence, which has been the ultimate turn on for me...but it all started with getting her to open up about her previous sexual encounters. A journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step.

It's interesting sometimes what will finally convince a woman that it's "okay" with you.

My GF said that she finally believed it when I paid for her single membership on a swinging site.

Sending your wife (or g/f) in the company of some single hot girl friends on a vacation to a singles oriented destination and sneaking some condoms into her purse prior to her departure works wonders towards convincing her you are very ok with it too!! Some suggestions: College week in Daytona Beach or Panama City Florida or maybe a Jamaica vacation.

I thought it was just me. I cannot cum while fucking my wife.I do cum jacking off while kissing her ass.And of course I constantly jack off thinking of other guys fucking her.