Question for real cuckold couples w/ kids

We're a young (30) and very happily married (7 years) cuckold couple, who's looking to buy house and start a family within the next year or so. As our setup is now, she's dating a lot of different men, but am also looking for a more steady and regular bf/lover as well. We both want her to continue dating after we get kids and was wondering if others have gone through same experience, as being a full blown cuckold couple, before and after kids and how and if it had any effect on your lifestyle. Did it continue as always, slow down, or completely stop. Also, how do you go about explaining mom going out by herself etc. Would really appreciate any input, from other real cuckold couples. This is not a fantasy thing post, so ONLY real, please and thank you

Cream&Coffee

It slows down but you can still make it work just make sure you keep talking to each other.
As for wife going out and explaining to the kids mummy still has girlfriends that she will meet for takes out and the odd weekend away shopping etc.
just patience will be key for the cuck more than the mistress talking from expirience.
Droopy and Miss

I can only tell you about us and I am sure that every couple is different. We had been married 13 years when we started our family. Before she got pregnant she was meeting guys about two times a week for fun, we went to Hedo II every summer and went to a couple of gangbangs.

The first year after we had the baby we had sex 5 times. I thought it was post-partum and did not worry about it too much. To be honest, with the late night feedings and diapers and enjoying spending time with him neither one of us were too worried about our sex life.

In the second year I thought things would pick up. She was barely interested in sex with me and not at all interested in others. We had sex a total of nine times that year. All nine times were not fun.

Year three we tried to hook up with other guys a couple of times. It was not much fun for anyone. She and I were together 10 times the whole year and she was powering herself to do it. I love my young so much that I was willing to accept that this is a trade that I just need to get used to.

Year four she told me she did not want to ever be with other guys again. We saw a marriage counsellor and she was diagnosed with depression and got on meds. The meds helped her alot (once they got the dosage right). She is her old cheerful self most of the time now.

We are approaching year five and the day-to-day relationship is improving. Our sex life is a little bit better; we have been together three times in 2011 and once was really fun. She even initiated once! I finally accepted that it will never go back to what it was.

So here is the summary. First, this is just us. I am sure most couples do just fine. Second, kids completely change your life in both good ways and bad. This happens to all couples, whether you were in a cuckold relationship of not. Third, don't wait. If she is having problems treat them quickly. The longer you wait the more baggage you will build up and the harder it gets to fix your relationship. There is only one reamister I am still in the house and that is our young. I now relax in another bedroom and I am leaving her when school starts.

The hardest part is being home alone with the kids waiting for to come back. I get a little anxious and feel. And feel bad if I get testy (we have 4 of them). It did slow down a little but not for long. She's gone out on dates when pregnant and I even had the crazy idea of her bf inducing labor at one point (although it turned out not to be necessary).

Put it this way, your kids shouldn't know anything more -- or be able to figure out -- your sexlife anymore than they would if you were a "typical" couple. As far as age goes, my oldest is 8 and we've had no problems explaining dates and long weekends. "mommy's good friend 'sally' lives far away now and she's going for a visit.

When our kids were young, my wife's lover would visit late at night after they were arelax. He would fuck her in our bedroom. Sometimes I was allowed to watch but other times I was regulated to sit in my recliner in the living room and stroke my cock. I could hear her being fucked without a problem, as she was very vocal when she came, which was quite a number of times when he fucked her hard. I could even hear him slapping against her when he was giving it to her hard.
One night, when I was in the bedroom watching and helping, one of our kids, who was then about 6 knocked on the door. I guess the noise woke him and he was scared. Mommy quickly threw on a bathrobe and comforted him but that ended the nightime exploits for her. From then on, she only fucked him at home if we got her sister to watch them at her house or we played during the day when they were in school. I always wondered if her sister suspected what we were doing. I secretly wished my wife would have told her our secret but she never did but she did confide in our female neighbor who lived across the street who had noticed the camera flash when we were taking pictures. This woman trapped my wife with some intimate questions that led to her admitting to her what we did. The woman was fascinated and eventually became involved in a threeesome with us for awhile. It turns out her husband was not taking care of her needs and she became a playmate for a year or so before they moved away.

Let's see.....first, if you haven't started your family yet you have a long time before it becomes an issues. When the kids get older, from my experience, (lots of it) there can be many, but must be plausible.

Visiting (insert girlfriend's name here) for the night\weeknd.

Business trip (there were lots of them! some lasted 1-2 weeks)

She went to the convention in <somewhere far away>

To see a long lost relative\friend\college roomie.

Job interview (in the next state)

Business trip

Weekend art show (as a vendor - may not work for you, depending on vocation)

Offsite training

Worked late with co-worker/stayed over because of crazy work hours, stayed over because project due

Writer's\artist's\woman's\<choose interest, vocation or avocational> retreat

Business trip

Weekend with "Aunt Mimi" who they wil finally meet - one day.

Business trip.

Weekend seminar

Visiting old high school friend who's just passing through - the town 100 miles south of here.

Business trip.

My wife just got a "part time job" 3rd shift ;)... She also has weekend art shows!