No sex period officially beginning

To avoid confusion, and for those of you who do not know, my wife's boyfriend is her ex-boyfriend, and they have been having sparse sexual encounters throughout the ten years we've been married.

Last Saturday was my birthday, guess who my birthday sex went to? You got it her boyfriend; he was nice enough to text me and ask how I enjoyed it. The two of them now see each other regularly once a week, she leaves when we put the kids to bed and spends the night usually getting home around 11 am (with groceries so the kids don't ask questions).
We talked about for years me not being allowed to fuck her but never actually put into place because he was not always around to regularly satisfy her needs. That is no longer an issue.
When she came home this week she gave me three deep passionate kisses after each one followed a question from her to me:
Kiss -- "can you taste his cock?"
Kiss -- "can you taste his feet?"
Kiss -- "can you taste his ass?"
I immediately blew my load and that's when I thought of it; I lost my birthday sex to him (last Saturday) and then got nothing until she went out Wednesday (we had a fight unrelated to this) so I figured it's been 2 weeks now. We haven't worked out the specifics yet but are trying to see how long I can last.
She did remind me, however, we had gone for almost a year during a complicated pregnancy, so I'm not sure if that's what she's thinking...I have seen her looking at chastity devices; I'd be ok wearing one while she's out but am not into the whole orgasm denial long term.
I realize this may not be the most erotic post, but everything is true and I a
open to answer any questions. I will most likely use this thread as a support group for myself...
Comments and advise are always welcome. W
e are a couple in our early 30s now and she will not go for her pic being posted...sorry.

Let me just add that I love my wife more than life itself and that I am doing this mostly for that reamister ... it's just what she needs, I'm prepared to do, and what he wants.

Not even a "good luck?"

I don't know how long I could actually last, but I like the fantasy of the whole thing. I have even told my wife (when she was cucking me), that I thought it would be hot if he told her to not have sex with me anymore, to take her pussy for himself...etc. I told her it would be a turn on to be "replaced" in the bedroom and relegated to only eating her pussy and ass and jacking off. At one point it came up of me only being allowed to have sex with a blow up doll.

I will have to give you a "good luck"!

Thanks for the post.

Thanks, I honestly cant remember the last time I felt this much excitement. On the 8th it will be a month, and I
Pretty sure I'm going to be told to last 3 more months at least. The teasing and touching only makes it worse. So far the limits are no vaginal or anal penetration with my dick.

More times than not, my wife gets me going, she has me go down on her till she cums and then just rolls over to go to relax. Here I am, left with a stiff dick, and all I get to do is jack off while licking her asshole. Somehow, I am ok with it.

Sorry about the multiple posts, I was having issues.

More times than not, my wife gets me going, she has me go down on her till she cums and then just rolls over to go to relax. Here I am, left with a stiff dick, and all I get to do is jack off while licking her asshole. Somehow, I am ok with it.

More times than not, my wife gets me going, she has me go down on her till she cums and then just rolls over to go to relax. Here I am, left with a stiff dick, and all I get to do is jack off while licking her asshole. Somehow, I am ok with it.

I hope you're prepared to lose her. I say this because you said you love her more than life itself. She's spending vast amounts of time alone with this guy, and bonding with him intimately. She's a woman. She will emotionally bond with the guy who's fucking her, and as I understand it, you are not. On top of that, he's an old boyfriend. They have a history, and I assume he's a also a good lover.

You may luck out. He may like the fact that she's married with kids. It keeps him from having to make a commitment with those anchors keeping her in your house. In that case, she's just his fuck toy which I guess is what you're shooting for. I would say it's very probable that she will fall in love with him. I don't know about you, but that's way over the line and not acceptable except maybe in a "jerk off" fantasy. In reality, that would be a nightmare. Sorry, but if I were spending the night with a woman once a week with some good quality alone time, she's going to fall in love with me, and then god help you if I want you out of the picture. Again, the kids may be your life preserver in this scenario.

Good luck. Happy cucking.

Thank you ... We've been married ten years and doing this most of the time. Their relationship together was terrible outside the bedroom and they both know it... Although you are correct about the jerkoff fantasy part.

FYI tonite is Wednesday night which my hand and I go to bed alone and my lovely girl goes out and gets every orifice filled with her boyfriends cock. Can't wait for April 8 to find out how much longer the no-sex thing is gonna be. I did notice her looking at chastity devices on the Internet which is something we talked about me doing at least while she's out.

Great post! We have a very similar situation. Almost just as you described-- i lick her to orgasm, and she goes to relax , happily ignoring me. She hasn't allowed me in her in over 2 years, i just jerk off, give her oral or use fingers and dildoes on her, and she occassionally gives me a hand job. We both like it like this! She also sometimes has sex with other men, but nothing very regular yet.

Wednesday went well, she got a nice 10 hour break from me and the kids. I've had to put a couple ideas into her head about which is the best way to tease me -- ie getting me all worked only to remind of the situation and that we'd talk about it on the 8th.

I've been tossing the idea of her having tonight and the day tomorrow with but am not sure. Maybe some of you guys can help me make up my mind -- as a surprise for her.

What do you think ?

I have only been in my wife once in about two years. She'll sometimes bring home vids from her dates that I j/o to a lot.

We have a friend whose fucked her while I've watched which is incredible but that and dates are two very different things.

When I was denied I took chasteberry pills to help bearing sexual abstinence. It made me impotent those period but I was happy with that.

You know what they say - Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder!

Chastity helps reserve orgasms for submissive behavior.

Wednesday again and even though they spent Friday and most of Saturday together it's their official night. I guess I'm off to bed alone with just my hand to remind me that I have no sexlife to speak of. Explain again why this gets us so hard?? LOL

So April 8th came and as expected, three more months have been added. I was dying to slide my cock into her pussy and wasnt sure if I was going to be able to handle another day of abstinence. But now that the anxiousness of the date has passed I have fallen back into accepting my current role in the stream of things.

She became very standoffish then, pushing me back with a smile when I tried to embrace her and has even kept me from worshipping her beautiful feet, although she has no problem with me seeing them.

She's out right now with her stud boyfriend. Before she left she told me that they were not just fucking tonight -- that they had plans to go out to a nightclub and that a friend of theirs from high school would be joining them at the club. This is the first truly public appearance they have made
together locally (outside of an adult bookstore they frequent as well as a Denny's).

She did give a goodbye kiss tonight and said when she comes back in the morning she may be more open to letting me touch her. This is so hot I can't stand it; I can't wait to hear about the nightclub and what kind of cOmments the other guy has. She and he tend to make jokes about me when they're together, so I can't imagine what he and his buddy would get into.

If all this weren't enough my overtime pay is paying both for this night out and the cb6000 which should be coming around soon.

My wife and I have never played the long-term denial game, but we have gone through periods where circumstances were such that we just didn't have sex for a while, and I did sort of find it to be a turn on. Several times during our marriage (and engagement) I was essentially 'replaced' by other men.

I graduated college before her and while we were engaged and living in different states she kept our engagement a secret and occasionally fucked around with guys.

Not long after we got married my best friend since jr. high (and our Best Man, btw) started 'dating' her. It started out with them occasionally fooling around (she was uncomfortable carrying on in front of me, unless it was group sex with her, me and others) so they did some overnights at hotels, and then we got things arranged so that he would come down and spend the day with her since he had every other Friday off. He lived out of town so he'd usually stay through Sunday. Eventually we got her comfortable with a game where when he came down on Friday she became 'his' and I became a single guy. They'd spend most of Friday fucking, then I'd get home, and we'd go out to dinner. She'd sit beside him in the booth, while I sat alone. He'd wear what looked like a wedding band, so it looked like they were the couple. We'd go out to a club, theatre, whatever, or go home and watch a movie, and at the end of the night they'd go into the master and me the spare room. This went on for a while and sometimes we'd be having sex only a couple times a week.

When he came to me and told me that we not only had a bone fide slut, but a closet submissive, he and I discussed exploring this side of her. He had double majored in psychology and engineering so he actually looked forward to delving into the mind of a girl who secretly wanted to be a total fuck toy. We bought a house together and it became a complicated arrangement. Over-simplified, she became his slave. He was very careful, though, to always define certain lines and as not to ruin the marriage.

Be careful. As your wife's bf may not have your best interest at heart. My best friend did.

Otherwise, enjoy the ride!

The restaurant thing is cool and one of the fantasies I have yet to experience.

Ok I realize it's been a while since the last post but I was trying to put the recent events into the proper perspective. So here it is... Still going strong with the no sex thing. But out of the blue a weeks or so ago I get an IM from my wife's boyfriend (for the 1st time in 5 years, except from the occasional smart ass text message I get from him using her phone). He asked if I would be ok with him and my wife having a threeway with another woman. Cuckolding fantasies aside I did have to give this one some serious thought -- I mean this doesnt exactly fit the traditional definition of what we are most of here into. The thing is be such an alphastud I eventually told him/them to go for it. So they go looking for a woman and have the threeway right? Well, no actually that is a lot harder than it would seem, which is kept ahold of this post for so long. It gets better...
They were not able to find a single girl who met my wife's hot standards. So they found, you guessed it, another couple with a bi girl!
So to update those of you who have been following this either publicly or through pms not only am
I still not having sex, but my wife and her boyfriend are having lots of sex... And occasionally sex with another couple. Oh, and the other couple knows about me and what my current station is in life.
How's that for "advanced cuckold?"

I guess I didn't mention the fact that on the one month sexless anniversary on April 7th my wife smiled at me and said at least 3 more months (July 7). What was crazy about it was on April 6th she took the head of my cock and touched it to her pussy; only to say "it would be foolish not to wait until tomorrow for this, wouldn't it?". Last week she had to go five days without sex due to work schedules and I could tell she needed it badly. So I pushed my cock down and stuck her favorite dildo in it's place that way she could get off and still feel a
warm body under her.
Why is this all relevant now? Maybe because the cb6000 will be here Tuesday! I'm incredibly excited, cuckolding has always been fun but this denial spin has really made us grow closer.
I noticed on another thread an individual stated in so many words that no sexton the part of the cuck eventually evolves into a bad situation. I tend to agree that to be true (if it's reality and not just fantasy). My wife and I will have sex again, just not anytime soon.

So my masturbation freedom ends tomorrow. There are a couple of other avenues I'd like to explore while this whole denial thing is going on ...
1. I hate nail polish, being a foot guy that is very important; maybe her boyfriend should pick out a color for her (she hasn't worn nail polish since we've been together these 10 years except for a clear gloss at our wedding).
2. Her light brown hair looks hot dyed strawberry blonde, maybe she should do that for him to give him the "new
Woman" feeling when they're together.
3. I'm not allowed to eat or touch her pussy (she swallows most of his loads anyway), and it's really hard for me
to get my hands on her breasts now. What started as just no vaginal and anal penetration has also seemed
to now include no fellatio.
4. After the chastity thing starts I was thinking about how cool it would be to be denied tongue kisses, or even kisses on the mouth. Or perhaps not being able to touch her ass -- just a loving embrace once in a while? Has anyone attempted this for any certain period of time? It will be difficult considering there have been a few
Times when I could have had sex if I hadn't stayed strong formthe both of us. I just know that when that cb6000 goes on and I can't get release I'm going to want things to get even crazier. I'm going to want her to go out all the time (yes, fantasy aside, I still have a say in all of that and there have been
times when I just flat hadnt been in the mood and she's always understood.
Right now she's hard at work on her laptop looking as beautiful as ever (think Mandy Moore for you guys who keep asking what she looks like; and River Phoenix (Indiana jones) for her boyfriend).
I just got done worshiping her feet for a half hour -- that's something I will never be able to give up.
I know this is a lot to put out there but would appreciate experienced comments I was beginning to think people were losing interest; for you shy guys i will continue to pm with you or do the aim thing.

I will update Tuesday after the cb6000 fitting.

Ok the fitting went well, the only thing is she got so hot and excited once it was on that she made me take it off pushed me on the bed and climbed on my hard cock. Afterwards she actually asked if I was angry about the sex, and I said it didn't really count because although she came I did not.
She also said she can't give up kissing me it would be too hard.
She and her boyfriend set up an AFF account and are already talking with a few couples (hot)!
What they say about the cb6000 at 4 am is true I had to remove it cuz the pain woke me up; hopefully it will sue side in a few days; I have not worn it out of the house yet but plan to, it's on me the whole time I'm home.

She's getting ready to leave for the night, she looks beautiful...she's not taking the key because she won't be home until morning and it may have to come off for a bit like last night.

He's here tonight... I just watch the two of them tongue kiss for 10 minutes now theyre getting in the shower since he just came from work. Although it's been 5 minutes and I don't hear any water running? I'd investigate but don't want to intrude...

Yeah, they're definitely in there. You know it's one thing to watch your wife have sex with another man; but to see her wash him is something altogether different; amazing how submissive they can be with the right guy, huh?
I'll post more after its all over. Feels like I'm reporting from the front lines.

JustRoomate - thank you so much for sharing your story. Please continue. It sounds very exciting!