My first denial experience

I had asked for it and - terror - I got what I had asked for....

Just a handjob, instead of my usual and rightful sloppy seconds... My girlfriend sat next to me on our bed, her pussy still sloppy and wet. She let me feel her up for a bit, while she jacked me off in a cool and professional manner. She just aimed to make me cum, as soon as possible. She stared at me with a slight smile and pushed my hand away. "Don't... I don't want to leak..." Her hand moved up and down in a relentless pace. She knew how to stretch this to prolong my pleasure, but she didn't bother now.

I never thought it'd all go down this road... Not being allowed to have my own girlfriend... Total denial was still a bridge too far for us, but my girlfriend happily agreed to my suggestion that perhaps it was time for us to have sex less often than she would have with him. It was very, very hard for me to suggest this, but she had already thought about it too. "Sure" she teased "I won't miss that much anyway".

She knew exactly to take me to the edge. She didn't say anything, she didn't look down, she just stared at me with a sweet smile with a touch of pity. She took me across, and my cum ran over her fingers, uselessly into my public hair. She smiled again and kissed me while she let go of my shrinking cock and wiped her hand on the bedsheets. "Hope you liked it" she said. "I like it this way" she added.

Next she got up and walked over to her drawer. She picked a plain white panty and stepped in it. While she did, I saw a string of cum dangling between her thighs, just before she pulled her panty up, over her thighs. Over the past seven months, she had come to appreciate the idea and feeling of having her pussy full of another man's cum. It wasn't the first time she went off to work like this, but it was the first time she did this with only his cum inside her...

She did like it this way!

I can't believe you didn't get down there and clean that out. You are missing out, dude!

Missing out was what it was all about!

Ned, how far do you want the denial to go? What types of chastity are you interested in exploring with your girlfriend?

I find it a huge turn on to know that my girlfriend has another man's semen inside her pretty belly, especially when for a few days, weeks or even months in a row and especially when it's just his.

What types of chastity are there?

There are various types of cock cages. You can find some on the web. Here's one interesting example: The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

There's also tease and denial. A Google search on those words might give you and your girlfriend some ideas.

what is the actual situation?

We toyed with denial for about four months, until we realised there was no way back. A tough time followed, but I still love to recall what happened priorly.

We took it as far as not having intercourse for 6 weeks in a row, while she had sex with her lover (a friend of mine) 3 to 4 times weekly. Wow!

She still told me what had happened, she still came back to me to show me her cummy pussy and she still kept her soggy panties for me. She would still give me a handjob any time I wanted but... no penetration, no blowjobs.

What I liked a lot was to make love to her after she'd been with him, to kiss and carress her, to feel her wetness... Being sooo close to entering her but then to feel her hand around my cock... It was like being a teenager again!

It also felt like a relief, to not have to perform anymore. My girlfriend also became more open in telling me how much she really enjoyed sex with him.

The few times that we did have sex were different. It was delicious, but it almost felt like cheating. Yes, I did in the end use a condom again! That was ever stranger than not being allowed in her at all!

Ah, just very special! Too bad it didn't last.

Hi Ned.

We just started doing denial. It's been a month and a half now since we've had sex, while she's getting laid by her boyfriend two or three times a week. She's been seeing him regularly for a while now, and I offered that she could save it for him if she wanted. She jumped at the chance, since she's getting all she wants from him. Now I'm flying solo, which is okay by me.

Probably won't work for everyone, but it's definitely working for us. I hope we can go on like this indefinitely!

Good luck to you and your wife. Please drop us an update if you can!

Good for you!! I hope you're enjoying it!

Would you mind telling more about your conversation, when you made her your offer? What else did she say?

I found it really hard to raise the possibility of denial... I wanted it for some time already but just couldn't give up my sloppy seconds and I had no idea how my girlfriend would respond. When I finally collected my courage, or rather when I couldn't hold it up anymore, my girlfriend was very sweet and understanding. She said that she too had come to realise that we were heading that way for some time and that, yes, she was quite happy to give it a try.

Ned,

Loved your post......thanks for sharing. I dont think there is anything hotter then giving up control to your wife or girlfriend. When is comfortable deciding who she will have sex/make love to and how often and how frequently you will be allowed release.......mmmmm wow.