the fun and the bullshit

Hey
wondering if anyone would liketo chat about the reality of cuckolding? Now I'm not talking about the 'fun' of the stuff on this and many other site...the stuff of wanking fantasy...the stuff that most of us like and get off on...
I'm talking about the real cuckolding...the day to day, real life, work, relationship, kids, stuff...but with a REAL life Femdom or Cuck relationship...let's face it, most of the stuff on here is crap..enjoyable mostly and usually good wanking material, but ultimately crap
I am in a true, real life 'different' relationship with my wife...but nothing to the extent of what I'm sure would mostly be fantasy in the stories here....anyway...if anyone is interested in chatting about the 'realness' of this lifestyle, PM me for my email...
have fun

My wife and myself have, in the last twelve months, moved from an ordinary and, at least for me, frustrating marriage to one of her becoming a hotwife, after she met up with a guy off this site and now it has progressed to a full blown cuck/wife/bull relationship.
I would have originally called myself a wife watcher, having been lucky enough to have witnessed her years ago with a mate of mine. Unfortunately, over the course of the following years, it was only repeated once but I never knew about it until the affair was over. When I pleaded with her to start it up again, I was told a definite no.
Since then, I have asked again, from time to time but all with the same result.
That is, until a year ago. When her lover first started to show his intentions, she didn't really take him on board. I was hoping that she would become so tempted, she would eventually go behind my back and cheat on me. In the end, she told me what was happening. I won't go into the details of what happened but needless to say, she knew that I wouldn't stand in the way of her taking a lover. The relationship started in earnest back in the summer when he came round here and eventually got her into our bed.
Since then, it's gone from strength to strength with my wife becoming more confident and assertive as time goes by. It has now reached the stage where I have been barred from making love with my wife as she is exclusive to Pete.
We both had to make the decision as to whether or not we were going to commit 100% to this lifestyle and see where it would lead us. We have chosen to go with it no matter what as on a permisteral level, I'm finding it to be like a have and my wife has confessed to feeling the same.
She's also told me that she's in love with her bull and that he feels the same. One of the dangers of this entire trip I suppose and still I cannot deny her going on this journey.
So that's where we are so far and we're both intrigued as to where it's going to lead us. All I know, is that it won't be the divorce courts. Sounds a bit strange but her commitment to me is also becoming stronger. Work that out.
I know there'll be a few of you out there saying we're doomed but I don't believe it would ever be the case.Anyway, hope you enjoyed the input.

Keep us updated... very intriguing situation!

mantab best of luck, I think if you are all open and honest like you seem to be you can experience this beautiful situation and grow even closer together.
My wife's lover of 5 years is happily married, his wife knows and has even watched us a few times, because of that we can explore some powerful fantasies, including offering my wife totally to him. Early on we evolved from an MFM to them as lovers with me watching and later submitting to, I'm sure She fell in love with him and admits to loving his cock and it's been a beautiful thing to experience for all of us.
I wish you the very best and applaud your bravery, love and openness for embarking on this.

I really expected this to be a hot topic. I know their are lots of couples out there with real experience. I hope they share with us.

@mantab thats not just an ultimate fantasy for me, but also my wost nightmare. Once she is past the point of return, and you no longer make love to her, it seems like a 1 way road. Eventually she'll be gone to him. The chance of their lustful euphoric love state lasting longer than the marriage is slim. Which is what scares the hell out of me.

@ HWHusband1, Your situation sounds perfect. If the bull is committed then allowing things to go farther is much easier in my mind. While i would love for my wife to fall in love and enjoy those feelings, at the end of the day i still want her to be mine.

My Contribution - My wife is still just a hot wife. She is also afraid of the falling in love thing. So she doesn't want to take on a boyfriend. She doesn't feel its possible to be in love with two guys at the same time. She is at the very beginning stages of the one crush she's had for six years. I'm encouraging her %100. But this guy is married and wants to stay that way for public reamisters. We gather however he's free to do as he wishes behind the doors. I'm anxious to see where it goes, and if he were not so committed to his marriage i'd be scared as hell.

Also he is a professional with an overloaded schedule. So he doesn't get a chance to do much. Things are moving slowly.

All this said, we have nothing but positive in our relationship because of it. At first she was feeling guilty about it all. She said "I feel bad about thinking about him all the time". I told her i thought it was hot, then blew a load that same instant. A few times of that and she's no longer worried about it. Now she talks openly how she wishes it was his dick she was sucking, or how she's wondering what his cock will feel like buried in her. Once i asked what she'd do if he was only 2" long. Her response was "I'd cum all over it, i don't care how big he is"