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Chapter 11
Is Black Sweeter?
"Since the first time I went Black, I have only thought of Black men because it was such a turn-on for size, color, and taboo." (Cuckoldress Holly)
Myth has it that there is a significant difference between a Black man and white man having sex. They say that if you walk in on a white man in the act of sex he will be embarrassed, stop, and pull out, but if you walk in on a Black man he will just glare at you and keep right on going. Maybe it's all in the attitude! Whatever it is, white women who like Black men-and there are many who do-say they find them more assertive and believe they are better, longer-lasting Lovers. They seem to especially like the contrast in skin color and some also like the "smoothness and silkiness" of their less hairy skin. Some say also they like the "tabooness" and "nastiness" of it and many also believe that they have significantly larger cocks that some say are "steel-like" and feel like "velvet." While cock size is important it is one of a list of attributes that includes having an aggressive, attractive, (and sometimes dark-skinned) Black Lover with good staying power and loving technique.
Not all wives agree on this. One wife says, "It's the man's permisterality, not his color that does it for me." Another says, "It's the permister not the color of his cock that makes for good sex." However, for many Black-loving cuckolding wives it is true that "one you go Black, you never go back." One such wife says, "I have had a lot of Black men inside me and I'm now at the point where nothing else will do." What is it about Black men that drives some white women crazy with lust? Here is what some wives and hubbies say:
They are smoother-for some white women, Blacks have an erotic sensuality: "I know Black is taboo to some, but not to me. I find Black men smooth and attractive.... "A Black cock can have a very smooth silky feeling to it that a white guy doesn't have".... "Black dick is a kind of steel dick covered with silky velvet".... "I love Black men; I love their bald heads and smooth skin"... "I am very turned on by being with Black men-that silky, almost hairless kind of skin that is incredibly smooth"...
They are taboo and are "forbidden fruit": "The interracial thing is taboo, which makes it extra erotic for me"....
There is an erotic color contrast, which for the women turned on by this, they often say "the darker the better" to enhance the eroticism of the contrast: "Of course, I prefer a bigger cock, but that is not the only reamister I relax with Black men, the color contrast of black on white looks so nice...
They are more aggressive compared to wimpy hubby, which turns many women on: "I like that they are typically aggressive and dominate, that is what turns me on-it's not a race or cock size issue.... "The majority of them are a lot more aggressive sexually"... "Black men are more aggressive sexually and like to talk dirty. I love that"... "Another says the main difference for Her is not the size but "because I am treated rougher, nastier, like a piece of ass."
They have bigger cocks, which as discussed before, is a preference many women have for achieving orgasm through intercourse: "I do white guys too, but the Black guys I've been with on the average are a bit larger than the white guys".... "I can almost have an orgasm just thinking about a big hard Black dick".... "I permisterally believe that on the whole there are more Black guys gifted with big cocks than white guys".... "For me, the size factor is everything. My Black Lover makes my jealous hubby look ridiculously small in more ways than one".... "We advertised for well-hung studs and got 10 responses, 9 of whom were Black."
Usually, a cuckolding wife's fondness for Black Lovers is a combination of these things. As one husband whose wife prefers Black said, "My wife likes aggressiveness, color contrast, staying power among other things. She says that Black/white didn't matter to Her, it's just that the best Lovers She's had were Black, so that's Her preference." A cuckolding wife says Her interest in Black Lovers is "a way for me to explore presentation because it's so taboo." She thinks maybe it is "an archetypal thing-a petite blonde having sex with one or more Black men."
Another hubby with a Hot Wife said, "My hot wife has fucked many Black men. She enjoys them more than white men and other races because on the average She finds them to be significantly better endowed, more assertive, and longer lasting. While She enjoys all races of men, She greatly prefers Black."
Perhaps it is the novelty of it, but some white wives also love uncircumcised Black cocks. One hubby says his wife "plays wanton hot pre-fuck games" with Her Black Lover's big uncircumcised dick for nearly an hour and a half while he "watches excitedly."
Are Black Lovers "safer" from the point of view of the wife falling in love and leaving Her white cuckold hubby? Perhaps for some they are. One wife says, "I prefer a white guy as a full-time partner, but a Black guy to fuck the living daylights out of me in the filthiest way possible" Another experienced wife says "whites and Europeans are better for romance and finesse," but that She still prefers Blacks for "real fucking."
Whatever the reamister, it is important for wife (and hubby) to have a good first experience. As one wife says, in an understatement, about Her Black Lovers, "They are kind of addictive if your first experiences are good." The result could be dramatic. One cuckold hubby says, "If your wife ever tries a Black male She will never be happy with white again." So, cuckold hubbies who want this should do everything they can to make Her first experiences good ones. If they are, then She will probably be hooked. If they aren't, then She may be reluctant to try again. Cuckold hubbies should be aware, however, that some wives become total sluts for Black cock exclusively, and never fuck whites-including hubby-again. If so, hubby could be relegated to dressing Her for Her dates and cleaning Her pussy full of Black cum afterwards. The only sex a cuckold hubby may get from a wife addicted to Black Lovers is an occasional hand-job, or perhaps a short humiliating "mercy" fuck. Otherwise, if he's not in a chastity device, he'll be jacking off a lot.
A few women even love Black sexing so much that they take it to an extreme. One woman, who makes Her "entire body available to all Black men," and who has completely cut off Her husband said, "I know now that white women were put here to sexually please all Black men and our white husbands are here to take care of us so we can dedicate our time to servicing and worshipping Black men at will." Another married woman who hosts Black men in Her house in front of Her submissive cuckold hubby says: "I need to prove to all Black men that white women were created to fulfill all Black men's needs and desires. My hubby is also submissive so he does as he is told-FULLY."
Does the taboo nature of Black-on-white sexing also make it more humiliating for cuckold hubbies? Perhaps. But it may also be Her Black Lovers perceived superior sexual prowess and the fact that the wife often does things in a wanton sexual frenzy with Her Black Lovers that She never does with hubby. For example, She may lick and tongue Her Lover's ass or balls, suck his cock swallow his cum, French kiss him lovingly, and accept his big cock in Her ass. Hubby may experience none of this from his "prim and proper" or "soccer-mom" wife.
Not only is a cuckold's wife often more lustful with Her Black Lovers, but She also may be submissive to them, while at the same time, being more dominant to Her wimpy hubby. One woman who does this says Her hubby is "a submissive little sissy anyway" compared to Her Black Lovers. Some even seek Black "Masters" who dominate them both such as the couple seeking a "Black Master/Owner to sexually enslave us and use wife as a whore/slut/property while humiliating hubby." Doing nasty things with a Dominant is more acceptable to some wives since they are "powerd" to do them. This may be re-enpowerd if hubby is dominated and also made to perform humiliating acts. At least he can't complain about his wife's whorish behavior if he is doing it too.
Some white wives-and Blacks too-seem to have a preference for anal sex. Perhaps it is because there is no cervix to bang into, and a bigger Black cock can go deeper, giving more pleasure to both. The "back-door" may also be tighter and offer more friction to enhance this. Perhaps though, it is just nastier and more naturalistic and offers more offense to cuckold hubby. After all, it may be a pleasure that is denied to hubby, while "all holes" are available to Her Black Lovers.
Is there any biological basis for the preference some white women have for Black sexing? By now, most people know the claims about Black's natural athletic ability and genetic edge in sports. The late Jimmy "the Greek"-a famous odds-maker-was fired from his commentator's job when he made this "shocking" revelation public. As discussed in a recent book (Jon Entine, "Why Black Athletes Dominate Sports and Why We are Afraid to Talk About It") and paraphrased here according to J.P. Rushton (discussed below): "Compared to Whites, Blacks have narrower hips which gives them a more efficient stride. They have a shorter sitting height, which provides a higher center of gravity and a better balance. They have wider shoulders, less body fat, and more muscle. Their muscles include more fast twitch muscles, which produce power. Blacks have from 3% to 19% more of the sex hormone testosterone than Whites or East Asians. The testosterone translates into more explosive energy."
This natural athleticism may carry into the bedroom, where a white wife may be intensely excited by it, compared to say, a sissy, wimpy, or couch-potato husband.
Studying racial differences today though is about as taboo and controversial as studying sexual behavior was in the middle of the last century. One researcher brave enough to explore this area is psychology professor J.P. Rushton of the University of Western Ontario. He has published several books and many research reports that generally divide races into three broad categories: Blacks, Caucasians, and Orientals. (Some other researchers do this too). His data on penis size, for example, indicates that Blacks are largest, on average, with Orientals smallest and whites in between. Here are his findings after averaging the ethnographic data on erect penises (J. P. Rushton, "Race differences in Sexual Behavior," Journal of Research in Permisterality):
Orientals: 4"-5.5" in length, 1.25" in diameter Caucasians: 5.5"-6" in length, 1.5" in diameter Blacks: 6.25"-8" in length, 2" in diameter
The same study also showed that the length of women's vaginas were proportional to men's penis length, with Oriental women having the smallest vaginas, and Blacks having largest ones relative to Caucasians. This would support the "lock and key" hypothesis that men's penises evolved to match women's vaginas.
Statistics say nothing about individuals however. For example, the "average individual (think average woman with 2.2 youngren) often doesn't exist. What it does say something about though is large populations or probabilities over time. This can be very valuable, as Las Vegas casinos would attest to. More research-which won't be done of course-would be needed, but the data would suggest that the Black male population has a wider variance in penis size distribution. If this is so, then it would mean that more Blacks would be found at the larger sizes. This might explain some of the anecdotal evidence for example, the hubby who said he advertised for cocks for his wife at 8" or larger and got 10 responses, 9 of whom were Black.
According to Rushton, The World Health Organization, which is interested in distributing condoms to third world countries, also found differences in penis size between regions. For example, they specify a 49mm width condom for Asia, a 52mm width for North America and Europe, and a 53mm width for Africa. China is apparently making its own condoms with a 49mm width. These differences may seem small but they do suggest that for the population as a whole there may be more Blacks on the higher end of the scale.
Other claims from Rushton (J. P. Rushton, Race, Evolution, and Behavior, A Live History Perspective) and others he cites include:
"Blacks have higher self esteem than do Whites or Orientals. This is true even when Blacks are poorer and less educated. In one large study of 11 to 16 year-olds, Blacks rated themselves as more attractive than did Whites." (This may explain why, for example, some Black men have an "attitude" or a "confidence" factor that turns many white women on).
"The races also differ in testosterone level which helps to explain men's behavior. In one study of college students, testosterone levels were 10 to 20% higher in Blacks than in Whites...Testosterone acts as a 'master switch.' It affects things like self-concept, aggression, altruism, crime, and sexuality...Testosterone also controls things like muscle mass and the deepening of the voice in the teenage years." (Higher testosterone could explain why Black studs are sometimes more aggressive and dominant with a cuckold hubby's wife than he is).
"Blacks are sexually active at an earlier age than Whites. Whites, in turn, are sexually active earlier than Orientals. Surveys from the World Health Organization show this three-way racial pattern to be true around the world...A Los Angeles study found that the age of first sexual activity in high school students was 16.4 years for Orientals, 14.4 years for Blacks, with Whites in the middle. The percentage of students who were sexually active was 32% for Orientals but 81% for Blacks. Whites again fell between the two other races." (Earlier sexual activity may give young Black adult males a leg up on experience in enhancing a white wife's sexual pleasure).
"Around the world, sexual activity for married couples follows the three-way pattern...The average frequency of intercourse per week for married couples in their twenties is 2.5 for the Japanese and Chinese in Asia. It is 4 for American Whites. For American Blacks it is 5." (This may explain why some Black Lovers can have sex more often with a cuckold's wife than he can).
"Racial differences are found in sexual permissiveness, thinking abut sex, and even in levels of sex guilt. In one study...Blacks said they had casual intercourse more and felt less concern about it that whites did." (Perhaps this is why Black men are able to adopt an "Alpha" male attitude, which makes them less hurried and less worried about interruption. The probability of a cuckold's wife having an orgasm with Her Black Lover under these conditions goes up).
"Black women tend to have shorter cycles than do White women. They often produce two eggs in a single cycle. This makes them more fertile." (This may explain why Black men are conditioned to have sex more often, including more times, even in one session).
Rushton summarizes: "Blacks are the most sexually active, have the most multiple births, and have the most permissive attitudes. Orientals are the least sexually active and show the least sexual fantasy and the most sexual guilt. Whites are in the middle."
Looking at the pattern of racial differences on the sexual front, Rushton concludes that Blacks have:
Earlier physical maturation (muscular control, bone and dental development) Earlier puberty (age at first menstruation, first intercourse, first pregnancy) More developed primary sexual characteristics (size of penis, vagina, testes, ovaries) More developed secondary sexual characteristics (voice, muscularity, buttocks, breasts) Higher levels of sex hormones (testosterone, gonadotropins, follicle stimulating hormone) Higher levels of individuality (lower law abidingness) More permissive sexual attitudes Higher intercourse frequencies (premarital, marital, extramarital)
These factors may help explain why Blacks make excellent sexual partners, or "Bulls" for cuckold's white wives.
In the interests of a balanced presentation, Rushton, however, also asserts that Blacks, in general, have:
Weaker pair bonds Higher rates of young neglect and abandonment Greater frequency of disease Shorter life expectancy Smaller brains More biological than social control of behavior (length of cuckold women cycle, periodicity of sexual response, predictability of life history from start of puberty)
Should this discourage white wives and cuckold hubbies? Not really. Note that these sometimes negative factors apply to the population as a whole and not to specific individuals and that there may be more variance in the data for Blacks than for whites. Thus one can find very intelligent, very healthy, and very caring Black men just as easily as white men. It may help to explain, however, why some white women say they like to marry white men as providers and husbands, while they prefer Black men for Lovers and sexual partners, even in a few cases as biological mans for their youngren.
This is also emphasized by Rushton's findings on testosterone. He concludes: "With higher testosterone levels, Blacks are more likely to put time and energy into having offspring. On the other hand, Asians and Whites with lower testosterone levels put more time and energy into caring for a few offspring and making long term plans." (One implication this could have is that Blacks would make excellent "breeders" of babies for cuckold hubbies to raise and take care of. There is even some evidence to support the assertion that "mixed-race" youngren, on average, have higher intelligence. Think Tiger Woods).
All this data would suggest that Blacks, in general, may be hornier, more muscular, more athletic, and more aggressive (more testosterone), have casual sex with more partners, more often, with less guilt, plus to top it off, have longer/thicker dicks. This is beginning to sound more-and-more like the so-called "Alpha" male who spends more time and is less hurried, has more staying power, and is better equipped to please females and is therefore more likely to give them orgasms.
Of course, because of the taboo nature of testing racial differences, the truth may never be known. It does suggest though, that a cuckolding wife who is interested in at least pursuing pure sexual pleasure might want to try Black Lovers, especially if Her white hubby is sexually inadequate. Many cuckold hubbies are also excited to the max knowing that a sexually superior male, in a way they cannot and never will be able to, is satisfying their sexy wife. A good-looking, tall, muscular, aggressive, confident, well-endowed, horny, long-lasting, intelligent, and healthy Black stud/companion should be able to provide a wimpy cuckold's wife with many hours of sexual thrills and orgasmic pleasure, and the hot cream pie results that She and Her hubby both enjoy. She may never go back!
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