Conversation with wife. I've been lurking here for a time - Page 3

Sorry I've been gone a while...life has been busy, and not a whole lot has changed in their relationship (or ours) so there haven't been many updates. Here are a couple, though.

TIHI, the idea of us all living together is definitely new, and not thought out yet. It's something she'd like so she doesn't have to go through all the effort of "going out" to see him, and so she can spend the night with him more often, but there are definitely logistical problems we'd have to work out. She does think that he would get sort of upset having to see us be close and intimate more often than he does now (since on the few occasions he comes over, she's all his). This idea is still in the very early stages; I'm not sure if it will happen at all but if we decide anything I'll post it.

As far as your other question of her feeling bad for having sex with him almost exclusively...I think sometimes she does. She'd like to think she has sex with both of us frequently, and flirts with me sexually pretty often. However, when it comes down to it I think she'd rather flirt and make out with me than fuck me, and I'm honestly ok with that...my performance anxiety means that I'm always worried about not pleasing her when we actually have sex. I think she knows that if I really want it, she'll give it to me and that's good enough for both of us. In the meantime, she has guilt-free and spectacular sex with him.

As I said, there's not a whole lot new in their relationship, but there is one development I guess. Tom had to go on a long business trip a couple of weeks ago, for about a week. Since now she's seeing him three or four days a week for hours (and at least two fucking sessions) at a time, this was a pretty long time without seeing him for her, basically since they started relaxing together. She was a wreck! It was almost painful to see how she got after being apart from him for just a few days. The first two days were ok, but after that it was like withdrawal. She started to call him, telling him how much she missed him and missed making love to him. She got really on edge and horny--she started using her vibrator, but she'd get frustrated and it just wasn't the same. By the end of the week, she came on really strong to me and we started to have sex...however, I think since it was mostly to assuage her horniness and not mine, she wasn't able to do it with the joking, fun manner she usually takes when having sex with me lately. Instead, she kept asking me to fuck her deeper, harder, and getting really frustrated when I couldn't. Eventually she just told me to stop, said it's not my fault, it's just not working. She was nice about it, but clearly upset. When he finally got back a few days later, she was obviously itching to go over there, and went as soon as he called her. She hasn't given me any details about that night yet, but I'm sure they had a hell of a time. It was a really interesting look at how much she needs it now, since just a week made her so crazy for his cock.