wife spending the weekend with her regular lover

My wife went with her lover from friday morning till next monday to spend the hole weekend by the beach.

She has sent me only three short messages. Two on friday: one saying they had arrived and fucked, the second saying she was going to fuck and then relax. The third today, at 16:45, saying where they have had lunch.

I feel strange, because the messages are too short and she tells nothing about what she's feeling and, moreover, she hasn't rung me up in more than thirty hours.

What do you think about it?

I need some advice, because I don't know how to react (I feel a little bit angry) when she finally calls me.
cornido

Trust me - you will get all the details at the conclusion, but it still won't be enough. That is why you will send her off again!

Thank you for your comentary, but I'm not talking about that: of course we will talk about details and of course she will go on fucking other men.

I wonder why on earth only three poor messages and no telephone call in two days. I'm not into offense nor denial and those things.

If you go for a weekend with your friends and she stays at home, you call her to say hello. Why can't she do this when she and her lover are spending so much time out of home? Can you help me understand this?
cornido

Hi.

It's monday today and probably you have already talked to your wife. May you share with us what she talked you? You wrote that your not into offense, but maybe she is or maybe she was to busy to talk. Seriously, I would be angry too. When my gf had a date first time with a stranger and didn't call I was really pissed. I was affriad that something happend.

Its your own fault guys. If you didn't like being left out of things you should have asked to be there and a part of it. Otherwise you shouldn't complain. That's unfair to your wife and your relationship. She didn't contact you because she was having a blast getting fucked and spending quality time with her boyfriend, and that's what you wanted, so now your job is to be supportive, Period. If you don't like that, change it for next time, but don't make her feel guilty for doing what you were ok with this time, thats unfair!

As for my relationship, I will always be with my wife and a part of everything, everytime. My wive's boyfriends are for flirting leading up to sex, then sex and basically nothing else. The only time that was different caused issues in our relationship that neither of us want to ever repeat.

Good Luck.

Thank you guys for your interest. All I can say is that it was a terrible experience of that common emotion called jealousy, which we all cucks don't understand as common people do. I will tell you how it all ended:

That saturday night (well, it was sunday 01:30 am) she send me a fourth poor message saying "Good night. Everything allright?". I really didn't understand what all that was meaning, so I call her back (Of course, I've never done it before in the lots of dates she has had during the day or relaxing one night away). I told her off for not being able in those two days to comunicate me at least how she felt. She answered she thought I would have enough with the messages like usually.

To make the story short and to explain my reamisters to mred4682 in concret:
I put the blame on her for that awful attack of jealousy I admited I was suffering. When she tried to say something, it was clear that she hadn't called me exactly for the reamisters that mred4682 pointed out: she was spending a blast of quality time with her lover. During the quarrel, she understood that only one call of her or a more descriptive or permisteral message would have spared me that terrible experience of jealousy. But I was really mad and couldn't stop arguing till I made her sob, and the only thing I was able to do was to put down the telephone.
Only ten minutes later I felt that the attack of jealousy wasn't there anymore, and I rush the phone, apologized for all, and told her I still love her so much I was able to feel jealousy. We then had a very intimate talking and I encouraged her to continue her blast of good time with her lover (and she did it so, as she has told me when she came back home today).

Now we both are very happy: I'm proud of having experienced jealousy for the second time in my life and having showed her that emotion, because I'm sure every woman appreciates it when it is so unusual as it is among wifesharers and cuckmen.

By the other hand, things couldn't have gone better, because today she has told me she and her lover will start going regurarly to swingerclubs in order to fuck other men in front of him.
cornido

I hope you can continue to stay close with your wife through all of this.

Hey, if your fights and her crying then you appoligizing is part of everything going the way you wanted and you feel your women "appreciates" your expressing your jealousy that way then who am I to say your doing anything wrong. I'm glad things couldn't have gone better for you and I'm sorry I passed judgement.

For those people that want to avoid the fights I still say, you need to talk things through before hand then be supportive aftwards and not make the women feel guilty. For most relationships, fights like what you had don't help things they make them worse.

But once again I'm sorry if you felt I was being judgemental. I do that a lot. Keep enjoying yourself and good luck to you and your wife.

Hy, Angel_Love. Of course I knew about your interesting way of life thanks to your diary, which I have been following and apreciating. That's the reamister I give special importance to your misterious comment.

Perhaps it will help you to know that I have a huge cock, long and very thick, that I fuck my wife hard and very fast, that I've never come before she orders me so "come" as she moans, and that finally I use to come playing with myself in front of her while she still is having pleasure with her vib.

What do you think about? I hope I can continue this comunication with such an interesting wife like you.
cornido

Cornido. I felt puzzled through most of your posts, which is why I left such a mysterious message. My thoughts are almost compleatly opposite from yours and just because you asked I will tell you my feelings of what happened, but please do not take anything I say as negative.

I have been in this life style for well over 3 years. Things have been good and things have been bad. I have always enjoyed it even when things have slightly gone wrong. I know that this story may not be exactly like how yours was but this was one of my experiences of my husbands jealousy acts.

I went clubbing with some girl friends of mine once and it was the first time I had ever gone without my husband, he knew I was going to dance and flirt and get close to a lot of men at the clubs and he grew jealous that he was not there. I was having a blast and enjoying myself, i wasnt doing anything wrong and I was flirting with lots of guys just like my husband told me I could. about half way through the night my husband texted me saying that he was jealous and wanted me to come home, he was mad that I hadnt been telling him about the night and that I hadnt texted him about any of it. instantly I felt a sting of guilt like I had done something wrong. but I knew I hadnt and I told him it was not fair for him to get mad at me for something he said was ok. he backed off and I enjoyed the rest of my night. That night we argued a lot about us not communicating and everything. I was pissed that he had the nerve to be mad at me for something he led me to believe was ok. we now communicate about everything and things go smoother.

From experiences in things from my dates to just normal life stuff, you seem to get cought in the moment and when you are having fun, getting fucked or even enjoying a night out with friends you dont stop to think every few hours to text and call and explain every detail about your night to your husband. I find it unfair that if my husband were to say it was ok to go off on a weekend with a guy that he would expect me to stop whatever I was doing to explain everything in full detail. Yes I can understand your point of wondering nonstop what they were doing, trust me I would too, but how do you thing she would feel when she had a man she loves and felt trusted her, to go off on her while she was with someone else for doing something you led her to believe was ok in the first place...

I have been in position where my husband and I had miscommunicated about things and things went down hill.. For the longest time when my husband and I faught I would back down and take blame for almost anything because I hated to argue and fight. I would cry and ask for forgiveness almost anytime he would get mad at me. but the thing is I wasnt always wrong and when i learned to stand up for what I knew I was ok in, its a good thing my husband and I learned communication cause if he hadnt learned to back down when he knew he was wrong it would have in time ruined and possibably end our relationship.

I strongly suggest you sit down and ask your wife how she honestly felt about your jealous actions.... But if she admits that it hurt her and she felt you were wrong, listen to her, communicate with her, cause other wise in time it could really hurt you guys.

I hope none of what I have said here upset you, I only ment right by it. I hope things go better for you guys and your future encounters with other men.

Oh and also thank you very much for following my diary and all the nice comments you gave me. I do hope you will continue following and that I havent changed your thoughts about me.
I look forward to reading your response

Thank you Angel_Love for sharing your valuable experiences with me. Believe or not, I will accept completely what you say, because there is nothing I could say against. Your feelings are the same as those of my wife, and of course you both are right: it can be an unfair and rather impolite husband that who disturbs his cuckoldress when she is having fun with her lovers.

Before reading your last post I already have found out my behaviour was silly, because one I’ve accepted my fantastic role as cuckold, I will do everything my wife tells me to do, and if she decides not to text me during her dates, I will wait quietly untill she comes back home to me.

I’m sure in the future I will read your words once again and they will help me if my wife is out having a great blast of good time with other men , caught in the moment, and not just in the mood to communicate with the husband.

In fact, from now on I won’t ask my cuckoldress to communicate with me during her dates anymore. I even will not ask her anything about her dates, and I myself will have a blast of deep pleasure everytime she decides to tell me some details about her encounters.

By the other hand, I have to say you look great in your "Shy but wild" picture.
cornido

ii happened to me all the time
I spend days without evemn a msg
when I asked her to asy something she told me to be patient and a goog cuck

THANK YOU! Everything you said put a smile on my face. It is awesome to hear how much people apprieciate my words. Let me know ANY time you wanna talk and I am there.

Oh and yes that is by far my fav pic of me. Thank you