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She's hearing you which is a good thing but she is having a hard time believing it. She is probably projecting a bit of her fear onto you. Fear that it could mess up the relationship. Anxiety that it won't turn out the way you both thought. My advice is to talk about it in bed during sex to let her know how much it turns you on....then talk about it in the living room so she knows it wasn't just pillow talk or fantasy, dirty bedroom talk....then talk with her about it when you're in the car together. Talk, talk, talk. Communication is of the utmost here. Make some rules or guidelines to follow and agree to try it once...if it doesn't work out, you both agree it's done. My hubby and I agreed that if any one of the three of us in the room were uncomfortable for whatever reamister, all three of us had to stop immediately. And we could back out at any time, even in the middle of things. And we had signals worked out to show that I was enjoying it or he was ok with it. If one of our bad signals was flashed, the partner would put a stop to things immediately. And no discussing it in the room with the three of you the first time you all get together. Give everybody a chance to go home and digest what took place and analyze it a bit and then form opinions. It keeps it cleaner and more polite. Nobody wants to hurt anybodys feelings here so keep it upbeat and just agree to try it once and go slow. I always tell my men that I require very vanilla on the first date to get to know him and how he works and what makes his body twitch and what gives him goose bumps. It's a slow learning process but the learning curve is huge. Have fun with it but keep it all out in the open, discuss everything and listen to each other. Good Luck!
Karen

Karen,

Thanks for the advice. We have discussed this outside the bedroom quite frequently. While my lady has never engage in a cuckold relationship, she is familiar with the "lingo" that accompanies this lifestyle. She has painted scenarios such as when she returns home from a date, I'm to meet her at the door, thank her for cucking me, and procede with my cleanup duties. She talks about "having her cake and eating it to". We(we'll she) talks about us going out, finding a suitable man, and me driving them around in the mini van while the two of them are in the back seat. I guess my point is the follwoing... She knows how to talk the talk - which shows she's not completly against the idea. We do value our relationship and love eachother very much, and thats why I think she may be hesitant to actually follow through with this. I guess I need to follow some of your advice and just play this out very slowly. Your "first time" advice will be takin to heart. Thanks again!!!