Prefer masturbating to having sex?

I prefer anking as my pee pee is too small to use on a woman. iget semi hard usually but on those occaisions that i can get stiff enough to penetrate the pussy I will go on for ever without cuming. I find it really hard to cum without wanking and my wife gets bored.

I don't get inside my wife's panties often so I have to masturbate myself.

When we make love, we usually cuddle and kiss for some time and then she'll eventually reach down and give me a handjob until I ejaculate on her fingers. Next, she'll finger herself to orgasm, which is sweet to watch.

When she lets me in, it's usually just for a short while. Either because I'm on the edge as soon as I enter her, or she'll ask me to get out. Once I pull out, she'll stroke me a few times and watch my cum drip on her pussy, instead of in her.

If I have been inside her for more than 10 minutes in the past year, it'd be much... Weird, but it's just a nice tease...

No surprise, most cucks do.

I perfer masturbating to having sex with her. Sex now feels odd. I know i'm not enough for her, and the whole act seems just odd, and not sexual at all to me.

Same here. She'd rather save herself for her boyfriend, so it just doesn't feel right for us to have sex together. I'm sure she'd do it with me if I asked, but I wouldn't want a "sympathy fuck" knowing she's not into it.

I love a "sympathy fuck though.

If and when I get this special treat (usually after repeated postponing) I never know what's going to happen. She may change her mind just before she lets me in or, she may tell me after a little while that it's not doing anything for her and hint I get out. If she notices I could be coming in her, she expects me to withdraw and if I stay in too long, she'll in insist and wriggle her hips to make me slip out.

I do follow the 'it doesn't feel right' argument. If I go too far, it will make me feel guilty afterwards. For example, my wife doesn't aways finish the handjob she starts. Sometimes she's just too bored or tired. She did that once and turned over to relax. I was still sooo hot and just started to ride myself up against her ass. She let me, though she lay still while I frantically rubbed myself against her. I felt pretty ridiculous, but it felt so good. I came and caused a mess on her ass and thighs... I apologized. She said it was okay because I didn't come in her but afterwards, it made me feel guilty... Quite an experience all this!

Nedcuck

You're enjoying some of the more subtle parts of cuckhood. Many here would wish to be in your spot.

i have not been allowed inside of my wife since June 2002. Black Men only are allowed to share her pleasures. i am allowed to masturbate while watching her have sex, listening to her tell me abut her affairs, or while cleaning her after she has sex. She now referes to jacking me off (into a condom) as "sex".

Nedcuck
Nice one sympathy fuck
what waz i thinking?

Hehe, ya... pity fuck, sympathy fuck... they are sweet concepts...

The paradoxal contrast between love and denial is what makes the game so special. We find that it can be more intimate than having penetrative sex.

T
To be quite honest, I find masturbating to be much more satisfying than attempting sexual intercourse with my wife. With masturbation I can take as long as I want while enjoying my erection as long as I want. With my wife, I have to focus on trying to please her. Because I never succeed in pleasing her our love making sessions always end with her being frustrated and annoyed with me. Also, as she has developed into a mature matronly woman I feel like a naughty little boy looking at his lady. I hope some day that she will find true sexual bliss with a well endowed man. I am just not man enough to please her and I am quite content to masturbate.

Clearly, a common theme in this thread is how many of us feel pressured to perform, pressure of the expectation that we take our girlfriends and wives to cloud9, intense orgasms and sexual bliss. At the same time, women want their men to be open, soft, emotional... Come on girls, so confusing!

My confidence in my own sexual capability was gradually undermined by my (beautiful and loving) wife. I love her dearly but she's very difficult to please in bed. I really didn't know how to do it for her. She says she finds it hard to let go with me, as her partner. With other men, she says, it's easier to let go because she doesn't care about them. I ask you, what kind of bizarre reamistering is that?

When I suggessted that perhaps we should not have penetrative sex for some time, she quite happily said yes. But she also wants to have plain sex now and then. When we try, it either doesn't do it for her at all, not least because it's hard for to last because I know she might ask me to get out any second.

It's all very confusing and sometimes frustrating for both of us. But at least we're talking about these things and it's getting pretty clear that it's not just me who is to 'blame'. It's actually quite fun to explore all this.

I am doing it now you all made me horney. I am going to watch some video of my wife fucking some of our frends and finish what I have started. I vote for masterbation.

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I masterbate lots while the wife is out

At a swingers club I watched a beuatiful large breasted white woman fuck a zulu looking man almost 7 feet tall while her husband and about twenty people watched, she was very pretty about 28-30 years old. The black guy shot his load all over her tits, people jumped out of the way so they wouldnt get splashed. When he finished shooting his load on her chest, she she kinda yelled at her husband 'he me, do something' then the husband walked over and used his bare hands and scooped the seaman off her tits and started stroking himself with it. Half the people cleared out of the room with that, the then said there is enough for any body else that would like some, then the whole room cleared out except for a scwermy looking inferior man, but he stayed in the corner.

I masturbate twice a day. I haven't had sex with her for a month. When we do have sex she ends up pushing me off her so she can finish herself off.

This is my first post as I have just joined this wonderful forum, but I much prefer masturbating over sex. I am a single guy in my mid/late 20s and can't get laid to save my life, so have no choice. I have only had one brief relationship aged 25 and we only had 'sex' a few times. This usually lasted a few minutes and I either came too quick or couldn't get hard enough to penetrate. I'm so small that I easily fall out too.

I think I will leave sex to the well hung men and doubt I will have sex again. Not much point really.
sub male

I foresee it as becoming common place for white males turning to masturbation only for release as the Black Males continue adding the white females to their "to do" list of servicing the traditional and natural way. Another way that will become more popular in time will be the stud commanding the white wife to refrain from having sex with her white husband turning her into a BOWW while building up the studs egotistical power and at the same time lowering the WMs confidence, self-esteem, and sexual activity, all in one package. This leaves masturbation as a reward he can look forward to, even made to earn the privilege.

I like the white male presentation to blacks....and having your wife fucked by one is part of it!

More than once my Lovely Wife has had me confess (frequently in front of others) that I'd rather masturbate while sniffing a pair(s) of her or other women's soiled panties than actually have sex with her. Of course the latter isn't really an option since it's been a while, make that a LONG while since I've had anything but a hand job from her. But I still love her!

XO
LB

I am not sure "prefer" is the right word, but I do it a LOT cause:

1) I have submissive fantacies that my wife is not yet on board with
2) I have a little penis and my wife is not interested in sex wiht it, so I would not power her to be subjected to my futile atempts to please her with it.

MOre than either masturbation or intercourse, i prefer to give my wife oral sex... to feel her body tense as she cums, to feel her legs squeeze my head deeper into her... as... OK, now I have to go masturbate again. b

I agree with most of the guys above. My wife won't let me fuck her anymore. I am still allowed to masturbate her using my fingers. It think however she prefer to do it herself. She has told me she would be interested in sex but only with a MAN. She told me just a few weeks ago that she really would like to have a REAL MAN in her bed. I am a sissy and I have adviced her many times to take a lover. I would love to watch and cleanup afterwords. It has not happened yet unfortunately.

still dreamin

My favorite time to masturbate is while I'm cleaning up the creampie and the lover is present. My wife has had another orgasm because she says she loves the way I eat her like a hungry dog. My favorite way to cum, serving her and her lover.
mandescrete

20something
You sound like me, I would like to hookup and get to know you..
mandescrete

I can report that nearly 100% of the cuck's I've been with do. No doubt about it.

I prefer sex and my gf also prefers sex but only with men with larger cocks than I have, so I'm always left with masterbating.

I am a sissy cuckold wannabe. a few months ago My wife was masterbating me and i shared a few fantasies with her and she was playing along....i had her acknowledging that i was wearing panties in the scenario (good start), but then i asked what color bra did she think i was wearing....that put her over the edge and completly turned her off....she got upset and said that is not the kind of man she married.....since then, no sex.....so lots of masterbating and fantasy play on my part.

oldtiger


No sex? sound like she does understand what's up...

Lucky man!

I find masturbating and watching or fantasizing about my wife with another man to be more exciting than fucking her.

When I do find fucking her exciting it's under this scenario: She is fantasizing she is with another man and she cums for him (sometimes she'll have 2-3 orgasms doing this which increases the excitement). And, I will fantasize that I'm watching her with this other guy. I think about what the man feels being inside my wife's pussy and how he feels so dominant over me - getting pleasure from her pussy. And, I think about his cum shooting in her pussy and her craving it (which she really does - she loves for a man to cum inside her it really turns her on).

And, that makes me explode in orgasm.

I must admit that this comes from two areas: 1) a craving to be dominated. Have always been turned on by dominatrixes. And our cuckold world was shaped by and flowed out of various domination fantasies my wife and I would act out.

2) My wife has put on weight in the last few years (she is pretty but she weighs around 160-170 or so and is 5'5). And, as a result, I don't get turned on by her body - in fact, I get turned off. So, to "get off" I have to fantasize about another man fucking her or the two of us servicing another man or couple.

Agree, that is totally hot! My former gf would sometimes ask me if she could close her eyes and think about a friend of mine. I could tell she did it for real, as she would get wetter soon after she drifted away in her thoughts.
Quite humiliating, yet so hot!