Sexless anniversary

Some friends of ours -Fiona & Michael -who are just embarking on a cuckolding relationship after finding out about us, asked about this matter recently over dinner.

Fiona followed up by asking whether I was impotent, and I explained that I had always had difficulty sustaining an erection when I tried to penetrate Stacey, but that when she is with Jamie and I can hear them from the spare bedroom my cock remains rock solid all night long...I suspect this is common in cucks...though would be interested to hear from others

I still give oral and receive hand relief, but I no longer have any desire for penetrative sex, let alone being given the opportunity

I wish I kept track of our last time. Probably in the last year we have had penetrative sex 3 times and nothing in the last 6 months I would say.

Now sex consists of me eating her out every time to orgasm. We both love it. Afterwards she would usually jerk me off, which I loved, but recently she has gotten bored of that. So now after me eating her out she has me finish myself off. I find it very humiliating. Sometimes she pays attention and will play with my nipples or talk dirty to me, but other times she'll just drift off to relax in the afterglow.

Sex used to be the rare, awesome treat, but now a handjob has become a rare elusive treat. Blowjobs are out of the question too.

I love the denial though. I love that I only get my hand and she gets whatever she wants. That is how it should be.

I am impressed with you guys who have gone 1, 2 or even 3 years without. My wife has refused me for 3 months now and I don't know if I can last much longer. I still relieve myself in private, but I ache for the wet, warm cavity I used to use.

My wife had a boyfriend for just over a year. In that time I was not denied though the topic came up. Her boyfriend was married and not always available so our sex life existed when they were not able to be together. Unfortunately after many ups and downs in our marriage we stopped seeing her boyfriend last August. Last Saturday night was the first time I had sex with my wife since her break up. 8 mos or so. Not sure what that means just wanted to share as is seems on topic.
Its me Tony. So if you think you are the man from Shannons past. I miss what we had! I hope your still seeing her and not missing a thing!

It feels right, doesn't it? I know most guys wouldn't understand it, but I feel happy and fulfilled doing myself while she's out. Like you, I would be happy to give her head whenever she wanted it, but she's not interested in doing that with me.

Denial of intercourse is not a problem as long as your mouth is having contact with her pussy on a regular basis. I lick my wife's cunt almost everyday and often after it's been fucked by someone else. I don't really need to penetrate her. This got started when the boyfriend before her current one demanded that I not fuck her anymore. (He was kind of the jealous type.) But my wife agreed with the guy and soon I was just the clean up guy (the janitor of my wife's pussy), but the boyfriend was the real owner.

After their breakup, the denial continued as if normal and so now I'm still just the clean up guy with the new guy fucking her all the time. It's as if I'm married to only about 95 percent of her, and 5 percent (her reproductive organs) are the property of (or married to) someone else. It's weird, but it works. No one goes without what they need. My wife needs regular love-making to big cock, I need cum-filled pussy to lick, and her boyfriend needs soft tight pussy.

What's not to like?

I was beginning to think the end of lovemaking for me had already happened, but about a week ago, my wife let me inside her after she came home from her lover. He had deposited three huge loads inside her and she was incredibly loose, but I was in heaven. It had been six months for me. I knew she was getting it regularly because she would have me clean her out when she got home.

She used to have several lovers, one of whom is huge! He is nearly 12 inches and is able to cum in massive loads, which she loves. However, she has stopped seeing all of them except for just the big guy. So far, he has not said anything about having her all to himself and I am relieved. She had considered moving one of her lovers in with us and he would have been the only one she would have sex with, but she broke it off with him. Her current lover is more open to me being there on occasion.

I have not had sex with my wife for nearly six years now
peter

I am not denied and I have yet to be cuckolded, but I understand the feelings of some of the people who have posted on this thread.

I lick my wife to orgasm every time we have sex. Her pleasure really is more important to me than my own and I would gladly roll over and go without knowing that she was satisfied. Even though I have told her this she always insists that I duck her afterwards. She thinks Im crazy.

Maybe if I ever get her to take a lover I can experience the erotic frustration of being denied.

Or, perhaps, you are still doing something right hahaha. Does she give signals otherwise, i.e. that the second part of your play is just for you?

One of the games my wife played with me was to lay on her back and let me have her. She'd just lay there and not respond to anything I did. At times, that frustrated me incredibly but I totally loved it too.

I am increasingly convinced that her subtle rejections gradually undermined my confidence and ability to fuck her.

on yahoo IM - would love to talk with other cuckolds or ex cucks

manny_exp

WOw! What a great thread, happy I found it!

I have a similar situation, although with us I am denied onyl penetrative sex, not all contact.

I think it is important for the relationship that the two peopel stay emotinally and physically close, that doesn't have to mean a dick is in a pussy. In our case, I liked the cuckold idea from the start. WHen she learned about it, she liked it too. Finally she could be open with me that my dick is just too small for her, she told me she was disappointed by it from the very first time! NOw, it turns me on to hear this.

Also, i was never able to give her an orgasm with my dick, and she always had to masturbate. I am totally unable ot fuck hard, which is how she likes it, and my dick doesn't even get hard enough to go in her ass, so we have never had anal intercourse. Basically, sex with me was boring, and she has since told me so. She almsot never gave me blowjobs, because she only enjoys them when the cock is big and makes her gag and her eyes water. She likes it rough, basically.

I confessed to her that I would not mind if she cut me off form intercourse, and for her this also meant blowjobs. So, no penetration for my dick. We DO, however, still cuddle and kiss liek mad, more than ever, in fact. And we are closer than ever before. I lick her pussy ot orgasm, I lick her asshole, and I use a dildo on her, which she has assured me feels better than my cock ever did.

We both really like our "new sex life". For me it is great, I just feel so good about it, becaus ether is no more pressure ot perform. I know I can't please her, so now I don't have to try to get a solid erection, try to fuck her hard (I can't), try to hold off on my orgasm (I almost always came too fast, too!), and try to do all the things which I never could. Instead, we have just accepted that my dick was never meant to be in a pussy, and, as she tells me, it has been retired.

She has had other lovers on ocassion, and will have others, but even when she does not, my dick remains retired. We are now committed to me having a sexless life, and we are happy about it. Really. I do jack off, but she likes to ruin my orgasm as often as possible, and also we keep track of how many she has had and it should always be much more than me. That's fine with me. She writes it in a little book she bought just for this, and so far the average is about 5 times for her to one for me, including the ocassional ruined orgasm for me.

As I say, we are still very much emotionally and even sexually involved, just that now sex does not include my useless dick!

Well, welcome to the club, for better or for worse! Sounds like a big relief to you to not have to perform anymore.

Performance pressure remains also a big thing for me, even after three years. Deep inside I still don't believe that I'm relieved of the need to fulifill my manly role. I need contious confirmation but my wife is not consistent. At times she says she wants me so bad but then retracts that when we're able to do it. Or the other way round.

We still try it every now and then. Even when it's just for a few seconds, it can be very good, also for her. But the basics are still in place.

I rarely get sex on my aniversary. I take her to dinner, get her a gift, and pamper her, but she is usually too tired at night to have sex. This December will be our 18th aniversary. It falls on a Monday and I am pretty sure we wont be having sex.

We are strting to play around with tease and denial. Maybe we will do something along those lines this year. I will post if anything interesting develops.

With mine, years back, pre-divorce, she was bisexual and eventually went lesbian. She used to complainmy wee-wee could never make her cum, it had worked for other women, never her. She had said, it were only 3 or 4 inches longer, it might make her cum.
She understood why I needed / belonged in panties and insisted I sit to pee. She would go out of her way to humiliate me in public, calling me one of the girls, which I now realize, I more or less was.

My wife has denied me now for approx 6 months. I am not allowed blow jobs or entrance to her body anymore. she has a boyfriend that she sees approx twice a month who is big and satisfies her very well. At the moment our time is set for 1 year.
We have talked about denying me forever and I hope that she will instigate this before the year is up, and that it is not my suggestion, as I will suffer and it will feel so much more if it is her decision, or better still if she makes me beg and ask for it to be that way.
Our only problem is that at times she can be weak too, and so we have to work hard on sticking to the "rules" ;)
It would be much better if she had a few different boyfriends to see each month, then she wouldnt want me for that at all ever again.

HI,

me again. It is now 5 months since I last reported. THere are a few funny things to report: I have been only eating her since then, mainly we cuddle and I eat her asshole, then lick her pusy till she cums. Sometimes I use a thick dildo on her.

She has also had sex with another guy since then.. a BLACK guy! But that'S another story. She realyl liked it, in any case, and when she got back home, she took my little semi-hard-on in her hand, and shookher head and smiled. She was almost giggling. SHe said, truthfully I coudl tell by her tone, "It just seems even more tiny now that I felt his!" And she chuckled a bit and shook her head.

She HAS put my dicklet very near her pussy and slid it around her very wet lips after logn cuddlnig sessions. She admits that she really wants to get cum inside her. This prompted me to ask if she realyl was satisfied with our decision, or if she wanted to go back to sex with me. I asked if she didnT# really miss it. And here's the kicker: She laughed!!!!! She literally laughed and said "That's so cute that you think I would miss sex with you. OF course I don'T miss it. I never felt anythign with your usless little prick." She went on to tell me how boring sex with me was.

So, it looks liek my fate is sealed! No more sex for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Funny, though. I LOVE that I will never get pussy again. But she WANTS me to want it. She likes the idea that I really WANT to fuck her, but am not allowed to. I like this too, but the truth is that I am so happy being denied. Kind of a paradox....

Last night my wife informed me that we were going to have sex. Not only was this very unusual, but it would have been the first time in a very long time that I had sex with her that she didn't first have sex with her boyfriend. Actually, I don't remember the last time I was able to penetrate a freshly clean pussy. Normally, if I am allowed sex at all (which is rare), it is only after he has been with her and she has his cum dripping from her. And lately, I am even denied my normal clean up duties.

Last night, however, she took a long leisurely bath and came to bed naked. Normally, she wears something, even if it is an old t-shirt, and I am not allowed to relax in her bed with her. But she called me into her room and there she was clean and naked and asking for sex.

I approached her only to have her tell me I waited too long and now she was tired. She then rolled over and went to relax.

Denied yet again!

I love this thread! To update, over the last 2 years I've been "inside" my gfs pussy twice. Once, on my birthday, was actual sex, only a minute or so and I didn't get to come inside her, she jerked me off to finish... the other time with a penis extender that makes it so I don't feel a thing.

Since my bday in april I've had 2 hjs and that is about it. Normal sex is me worshipping her pussy and then jerking off after she is satisfied. If I'm good, she'll rest her foot on my face which I always enjoy.

About a week ago she gave me the chance to increase the action I get. We have a hitachi magic wand with an attachment that is like a pussy sleeve. She said if I could last 3 minutes with the wand on and my penis in the pussy sleeve she would go back to giving me hjs and maybe more. If I failed though, she wouldn't get my cock off in any way until xmas.

Needless to say, as she used it on me, touched my nipples and whispered how nice it would be to have her hands around my cock every few days I came all over the place. In only about 1.5 minutes.

So, it looks like I'm going to be relegated to the hand pussy for a lot of time to come and my gf avoids having to play with my little guy...which honestly bores her. She has fallen arelax jerking me in the past after she has been satisfied, which is so humiliating.

i love this thread, really love it. i've never made my wife orgasim with my cock, but im a good oralist (?). I love to make he rcum then snuggle up to her back and feel myself shrink knowing im not going to cum.
I even get to clean her up on the occasions i do cum inside her. Sheer heaven.

Hello again all

well, it has finally arrived-- our 2 year sexless anniversary!!!!! It's official, a full TWO YEARS without sex for me!

I can hardly believe it has really been two full years now. You can get details about it in earlier posts from me, I guess. But here is an overview:

She officially announced it on New Year's day of 2009, saying it was her New Year's resolution to stop having sex with me , at least until she had sex with someone else. Later we realised that she had de-facto stopped letting me fuck her in November of 08, so that is now our anniversary.

That first year, she kept to her promise, and never let me in. She did meet someone and have sex. She took a trip abroad and had sex with a guy over 2 days in a hotel. Afterwards, I was wondering if she would finally let me, but we both continued to like the idea of me not getting any. She decided to make it a full year. We do cuddle, kiss, hug, and I suck her pussy and lick her asshole, which I love. She never liked giving me BJs. and now she doesn't give them at all. Ocassionally she gives me handjobs, but that is the limit. She says suckign my small cock is just boring, as was sex with me. Need less to say, anal sex is out of the question. I NEVER had her ass! She has given it to all 3 of her affairs, though.

After a while I asked her if she didn't want to go back, if she was only doing it for me, and maybe missing having sex (she only rarely has a lover). To my surprise, she literalyl laughed out loud! She said that it was "cute" that I thought she woudl miss having sex with me, but no, she said "I don't miss it AT ALL"! She says sex with me was boring and after we started sharing cuckold fantasies, I never lasted long anyway-- I went from a respectable 20-30 min to literally a few seconds before I would shoot my load. And before that, when I could last a bit, my thin dick was never enough to please her, so she masturbated while I slowly fucked her large pussy. I was never able to give her rough, which is what she likes. She has told me that having to masturbate while I boringly slid in and out of her was so unsatisfying that she prefers only oral sex from me. So basically I took my self out of the running with my terrible performance. She now has NO DESIRE, she assures me, to have sex with me.

We continued with me eating her ass, pussy, and using fingers and dildos on her to satisfy her as best I could. THen in January of 2010 she had another date. She met him in some online dating site, and they arranged to meet at a hotel just a stone's throw from where we live. This was the first item I got to see her get ready for a date. She definitely never made so much effort for me-- we were always so relaxed. She shaved her pussy, legs, put on make-up and a short skirt, nylon stockings and high heals. It was incredibly erotic to see her get ready, knowing it was for another man. As she left, she said "There's a picture on the computer for you." and i saw that it was one he had sent of himself, holding his thick, huge cock. She had titled it "Way better than yours", and of course, i could only realise how true this way. His cock was so much bigger and thicker than mine, and soon it would be inside her. She sent a text after an hour or so, saying "He's really nice. We're going back to the room now to have sex." WOW!

She finally came home, and I saw her big stretched out slit. He had fucked her for hours, but on creampie for me, as they had used condoms, of course. She said the sex was incredible. Even if she had asked me to, I would not have fucked her then. It was just so clear that he was sexually superior to me in every way, I would have felt simply ridiculous even TRYING to have sex with her. I told her this the next day, and she could only laugh. "Yes, you really would have seemed silly" she agreed. I was far too intimidated to even WANT to have sex with her again after that, at least for the next few months, until the whole episode had faded into the distance.

And as I say, it is now two full years, and I still have not been in her pussy. We often talk about this, and she says it just seems natural to her now, and she has no intention of ever going back. I sometimes ask how long this will go on, and she laughs or smiles, and says " a long time". Other times she says plainly "You're never going to have sex again. You are sexually retired. Your sex life is over." In a way this is sort of disturbing, but in another it is great. I feel so relieved that I don'T have to try to please her anymore when I know I can't. Also, I really enjoy it as it is now. It is so fulfilling sucking her pussy and asshole until she has an orgasm, and knowing that other men can satisfy her so much more with their cocks, so that is not for me to bother with.

Both of us now dream that she will find a long-term lover, someone she likes not only in bed but out of it as well, someone who can fuck her better than I ever could and give her the true satisfaction that she deserves. She sometimes says she really misses a big, hard cock, and I would be LOVE to see her sexually satisfied is a way that I can't deliver. I would also love to serve the two of them as a submissive third, below both of them in the sexual hierarchy.

We have been doing things to celebrate our sexless anniversary all week. If anyone is interested, I'd be happy to provide details about that.

Congratulations to tinycock (and all the others) who have put their wives happiness first and their own needs last,just as it should be.

Hi Tim,

thanks for your support. I would also love to hear from others who are in this situation. On the one hand, yes I do try to put her happiness ahead of mine, but on the other, THAT is what makes me happy! Giving her orgasms with my mouth turns me on greatly. It also turns me on when she then turns over and goes to relax, smiling, knowing that she doesn't have to do anything in return. She says she thinks this is the way it should be between us, and I agree. Don't get the impression, though, that she is a selfish, egotistical permister. She isn't at all. It is just in this area, of her sex lief with her husband, that she has this attitude, and then only because she knows he likes it that way. It's symbiosis, I guess.

She keeps a tiny book of records on how many orgasms each of us has had, and she had better have a LOT more than me!

As I said earlier, the one thing that I really, really, deeply crave is for her to have a REAL man, one who can dominate her like she likes, fuck her rough, like she likes, and generally make her feel like a real, sexy woman. I know I can't fill this role, and would love to see her so happy and thrilled again with someone like that. I don't think we will split up over it. I can imagine that we will just have a certain change in position between us; that he takes up more and more of the dominant role and primary sex partner, and I fade into the background in this area, and become her secondary lover (only for oral, of course!). I like the idea that they share a room together and I am allowed to relax with her when he is away, otherwise HE is the main lover, I am the fallback and the support man.

I would really love to hear from more couples who live this way!

Tell her next time to pack your snack and bring the condoms home with her. I am sure she could find a creative way of feeding them to you that would have you cumming all over yourself! She could drip the on her ass crack as you lick it clean for her.
ShortSupply

HI,

thanks for that tip! I do think I could eat his cum if it were fresh, but cold... I don't know if I could get it down. Sounds horrible. THen again, as you describe it, running down her ass might make it more palatable....

I hope to hear from others who are on their sexless anniversaries, especially if it is more than 2 years. Is there anyone who hasn't had sex in 10? Considering that my wife has this planned for me, it'd be interesting to hear about.

Hi tiny
I'm sexless from four years three month and eight days...
Its an amazing and terrible sensation
To help me my sensual wife offer me this cage two years ago
I hope you will stay sexless for your mutual hapiness
le sexe sans tabous

Prince Albert,

Thanks for the pics of your incredible wife! You are a hero to us all!

many thanks... too much...
i show these pictures beacuase i am sexless from our wedding day
le sexe sans tabous