Sexless anniversary

OMFG!!! that is all i have to say to ALL of you!!!

Hey - thought I'd offer the woman's viewpoint here...

You guys don't seem to realize that there's an emotional thing going on here too. I've been with my boyfriend about 2 years now, and pretty early on it started feeling weird having sex with him and with hubby. Maybe I'm unusual, but I need to be faithful to whoever the central sex object in my life is - and that's what usually leads to the "denial" stuff you guys talk about. Not so sure my hubby really understands, but like many of you folks, he's probably found a way to get off on the denial and offense, so it works out for both of us.

Further update: after a few months of staying away from men after her bad breakup, the wife has been dating again.

We still haven't had sex, and it looks like we'll stay this way as she looks for a new boyfriend. She has said plainly that she isn't interested in restarting our sexual relationship at this point, although she's very satisfied with our emotional connection and our life together. I am, of course, happy to continue as we have been. It suits me to be married to her, and know that she isn't interested in me sexually.

It's great to see her back in the game, and I'm enjoying hearing about her dates. I've really missed that part of our relationship! She's gone out on a few dates, and had one overnighter with a guy she hopes to see more of. I will keep y'all updated if anything happens.

Wish us luck!

im getting a pattern in this thread..most of these marriages crashed!

How do you mean, Mike?

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Cucks...need...denial

Keeps em all perky and focused....really focused on what is happening.

I have never had sex on my anniversary and I didn't have sex on my wedding night.

My wife just doesn't want me.

We have been married for 14 years now. Howeveer, these past few have been "different" from the first. We used to have sex every night or every other night at least, but it has digressed to once in a great while.

I am not totally cut off from sex (yet) but can see the writing on the wall, so to speak. My wife has several lovers she sees regurally, one of whom is huge! She allowed me to have sex with her just after him one night and it was amazing how loose she was.

Now, however, I only have sex once every few months. It has gone as many as three, but I can see a day when it just doesn't happen anymore. One of the reamisters is that she is talking to one of her lovers about a possible live-in situation. He has asked her to stop seeing her other lovers if he does move in with us. So far, he has not mentioned me, but we will see.

We haven't slept in the same bed for many months now and I can only imagine who will get the guest room if/when he moves in. I don't mind as she still allowes me to lick her clean afterwards and she loves it when she is licked during sex. And, she doesn't mind when or how often I masturbate since she is getting it elsewhere.

I can see the day when I too am looking back on sex and knowing I will never experience it again. I don't know if I am excited or frightened.

pirateinthemountains


I'd say longing.....

I can't beleive it's been over a year now. And honestly a second sexless anaversery doesn't seem all that far fetched. I worship her more than ever now. And she's treating me more and more as a loser too. Even my friends and her other lovers don't give me any respect anymore

jack smith

she let you masterbate?

yes, I get to masterbate as much as I want to, which is quite often. i couldn't imangine being denied that! I get to watch her with other guys most of the time and once in a while participate too, just not any penetration on my part.

the self pleasuring will go away at some point when she gets the urge....

So do you cucks agree or disagree w/ me?

Must be at least 2 years that I have been without sex...the fact she has 'emasculated' me is a strong turn on for her

and for me!

Its a delicous agony

Thinking about it may be longer than 2 years...honestly cannot remember when we did have sex last

OMG, I read this post and thought it has been a while, but wasn't sure how long, then I found my post dated March 26th saying its been 2 weeks, so that means it has been over 6 months for me already.

On teh one hand I love it, but its also very scary to think its been 6 months and that it very likely that i will never get to be inside a woman ever again

Hi SB.

I feel exactly the same way. I am happy that she is happy, and I am okay with being left out, but it's weird to think that that part of my life is probably over.

I have just been placed recently in chastity (CB2000) Wife bought it for herself on my birthday SEPTEMBER,28. I have been locked since every night. I have had sex with her 3 timrs since then and only while wearing a condom and not allowed to cum in her pussy. I have to finish and cum while she ignores me watching tv and saying how lousey I am. She has been away from home 5 nights a week for 3 weeks and has 2 more weks away after this week I dont know who is seeing her while she is away and she isn't saying I just know the past two weekends she hasnt wanted me at all and I have remained locked in my CB. She has allowed me to masturbate a few times but this week I was cranky with her and was told that I will remain locked till tuesday morning and will then before work have the chance to cum if I can in the ammount of time it takes her to smoke 1/2 of a cigarette. If I cant then locked for another week with out cumming. I dont mind masturbation I rather like it it relives me of the pressure of performing to the standard she expects of good cock and a good man which I know I willl never again be after she has sissified me and taken my manhood and controlls it as her property. I love my wife more then ever now and understand her much more now also. We have evolved into what some would call best girlfriends. Jess
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

jack smith


you may...you may. so think about the inevitabilty.......

Our one year+ anniversary was last week and it was sexless because I am travelling 3 weeks in a row. We both travel a lot and couldn't even have a lot of sex even if we wanted to. We did, however, chat and talked about it all over the phone. My wife was very sweet but had some concerns. We played a kind of truth or dare game which made it quite clear that she sought confirmation from me that I still loved her and still find her attractive.

To reconfirm my love for her, and that I find her incredibly beautiful and pretty is the easy part, but I admitted that I wasn't sure I would be able to do it for her in bed. She said she knew and that this was fine with her. She referred to the last time we had sex which was very simple but sweet and nice. She fingered herself and asked me to lick and nibble on her nipple. Just that. She openly fantasized about a young guy in the hairdresser's who she'd given a lush view in her blouse when he was washing her hair. She came intensely and let me feel her afterwards. She was deliciously wet but told me I could not have her because it wasn't me who got herso moist. Instead, she rubbed my dick in my underpants and made me come soon after. We both enjoyed this a lot so she said she liked to further explore such alternatives for penetration.

She also took up a couple of hints and decided that if she allows me in, she'll ask me to use a condom. I both dread that, and want it. Will keep you all posted on this one.

Nedcuck


Well, your still getting release, enjoy it while you can...

Upon return home, she let me take her upstairs and gave me a handjob while she repeated she was happy now with the arrangement. "Now that I know that you love me and still want me but feel guilty about not doing it for me, then let's not have penetrative sex for another while. That's fine. I have my ways to satisfy myself and we don't have to pretend. I may let you have a 'dip' every now and perhaps a bit longer if you use a condom..."

Oeff...

Nedcuck
lucky you....

My last post in this thread was on September 5, 2007, when it had been 6 months since I had been in my sweet wife’s pussy. It has now been a year since I have had intercourse. I can kiss her on the lips, but no Frenching, no touching her beautiful breasts, and so oral sex. The only exception is the rare times when her boyfriend calls me in the room to eat her cream pie after he fucks her.

I orginally encouraged my wife to take lovers because I could not maintain an erection long enough to please her. Now, she is in love with her boyfriend.

What ValGal wrote on September 23 applies to my wife. She is a one-man-woman. When she had sex with him and with me (separately), it caused her emotional confusion. She is much happier being his woman romantically and sexually. She still loves me, but I am more of a room mate.

She and he are planning something special for me to celebrate a year of my being totally cucked, and a year that she has been exclusively his woman. She won’t tell me what the plan is. I hope it is humiliating.

I am very happy with the way things are, and we are doing great. We just wish her boyfriend would get a job here and move in with us. I have slept in the guest room for about 7 months. He lives an hour away and sees her about every-other weekend.

At this point, i don't expect to ever experience my wife's pussy again. In fact, i'll likely not ever fuck a woman again. Her boyfriend has had me and they are encouraging me to service men. I like to bring pleasure, so I will probably go that way, but if my equipment worked, I'd still do women too.

I am excited to celebrate a year anniversary and look forwad to whatever is next.

Hi Randy.

Congratulations on your upcoming anniversary! I think the life you have with her is beautiful, and I admire you for taking it and running with it.

We're about to hit our second anniversary without sex (4/15). We don't have anything special planned, but it's another milestone in celibacy for me. We're still going strong, I still love my wife more than anything, and I am delighted that she has a deep, fulfilling sexual and romantic life without me.

It’s been a while since I’ve posted here (quite a while actually), but it’s officially been a full year since I’ve been allowed to even enter my wife. As I wrote last year, she still lets me see her pussy at times and even lets me smell her but she constantly “reminds” of how she’s continually holding out on me and that my memory of what it felt like to be in her will have to do in place of the real thing.

Just last night she started things off with a short-lived handjob, which resulted in the usual, which is a sudden stop to everything with her directing me to eat her out. As before, after she cums only then can I begin jerking myself as she pushes her panties around my face.

We started this a long time ago as a turn-on but now that it’s been a full year since I’ve been inside her she say’s she likes it this way and prefers me to just handle things on my own, only when she say’s it’s okay. I knew I would be denied a while but I never knew I wouldn’t get to enter her anymore, but when she lets me see it or smell it I’ll do anything she say’s just to even get that much.

Our anniversary isn’t for another 6 months and she told me last night that would be the next opportunity I could get to put it in. But she said it depends on a few things, which include how I treat her and if she feels like it that night.

I feel lucky to get anything at all at this point but at least I still get to see it a lot.

It'll be 3 years for me in a fortnight's time...I'm trying to come up with a good way of marking the annniversary!

I really love to hear from other guys who are pursuing this life and making it work!

Update on us is that she has decided to break up with her current BF and look for someone more interesting. She reports that he's fine in bed, but that there's not enough emotional connection between them to keep her interest. Will keep y'all posted as things develop.

Meanwhile, of course, I'm still "flying solo".

sept 26 2004 was the last for me. wife tells me what a loser perv i am for my excessive masterbation, but what the heck..