Sexless anniversary

We are approaching our one-year anniversary since I have had sex with my wife. She has a steady boyfriend, and no need for sex with me. We had played with denial games for a while before this, and when she started going out with her current boyfriend, we agreed to keep it going as long as she was with him. I haven't had any sexual contact with her now since April 15th of last year. My entire sex life is jacking off when she's at his house. So far, it's been working for us. She says she doesn't miss sex with me, and I just love the fact that she's getting all her needs met with someone else.

Anyone else doing this? Anyone even thinking about this? Feeling lonely over here...

rdvrk
it is very lonely i havent had sex with my wife for over 6 months now, it is driving me crazy she allows me to jack off once a week if i have been a good boi.
diana goes out all prim n proper most nights now to her b/f's place but comes home all messed up. i have to wash her clothes by hand.

Its been about 9 months for me. She has four others pretty steady, she's been screwing three of them since before we were married nearly 5 years ago. I am allowed to lick her pussy and jack off, thats it. She doesn't miss sex with me and I love the denial.

Hey guys. Thanks for the responses!

If y'all don't mind me asking, how did you get to this point? Was giving up sex a part of your plan from the beginning, or did it juest develop this way, or what?

In our case, for instaance, we hadn't planned on giving up sex between us. As she got more involved with her boyfriend, though, we started having sex less regularly, and eventually, it got to the point where sex between us was a pretty unusual event. Last year, we decided to make it official, and now she's been entirely monogamous with him since then.

I originally sought other men for my wife because of my size. For some reamister her vagina had gotten tighter (near her clit, especially) and it was painful to have sex (I am 7"). We tried exercises from her gyno, but she was pretty lazy about doing them, and I'd developed excitement about possibly watching her have sex with other guys based on her flirting at bars, parties, etc. I thought the perfect solution would be to have other guys "break her in."

We found a guy up at our ski cabin to whom she was really attracted (and vice versa), and after their first night together my wife confirmed that he was a "better fit," and it kind of escalated from there. She's a skinny athletic type that teaches kickboxing and runs a lot so she has no problem getting in front of new guys who love to fuck her.

Nowadays, I am so turned on by watching her fuck other guys in our bed, getting phone calls from hotels (which I purchase) letting me listen when she's in the mood to really treat someone, buying her clothes for and helping her prepare for dates, and hearing her stories from long weekends at the ski cabin that I'd much rather be her cuckold. Would I fit in her easliy now? Probably, but I may never know.

One of my favorite things to do is attend her kickboxing class and be introduced as her husband a few minutes after the class starts - because several of the guys there have slept with her many times and it's great to be humiliated in front of them - she moves her body around and makes me horny for an hour, then one or two of the others get to go fuck her in her office or our (her) car before she comes home to me.

well, my wife has been fucking my two friends mike and jamister plus a few others since we started dating. I was fine with that since she was the hottest girl i've been with. sex with them was usually always first, since i'm not all that great with it, I have a 5 incher and i'll cum withen two minutes most of the time mainly cause i wouldn get it that often. sex started just being pitty fucks for the most part, then i made it obvious that i really get off on licking her pussy and jacking off and she teased about deneying me sex wich always got me hard as a rock and now she's cut me off for amost a year now.

Hi Jack.

Almost a year! Awesome. We're over a year now, and it's still going well. She's very happy with the situation, and our relationship is strong as ever.

She's spending two or three nights a week at his house, and the rest of the time at home. Being in bed with her is especially challenging for me, since we both know she's off-limits to me.

well, just a couple more weeks for us and we'll hit the year mark. I have no intentions of asking her for sex either. I'll be perfectly happy if we have a sexless anaversery. I do miss the sex, but this denial is so fucking hot to me and her both!! To be able to say i've been denied over a year will make me cum in my pants for sure!

i find the whole topic of denial very erotic, you are very lucky cucks imo

Glad to hear that the hotwives are getting what they deserve....

Mine has just been about 2 weeks, but at the time she said I would never get to fuck her ever again. I am so turned on by the thought, but also scared to death, never to feel thats warmth ever again is going to be difficult I think.

So hot! Never to have sex again, what a beautiful thought. I wish you the very best of luck, and hope you get your dream/nightmare! I think maybe it's going to happen to me, too, so I know how you feel. It's scary, isn't it?

Not scary cuck, it's what you've been wishing for....

rdvrk, so are you not even allowed to clean up their mess?

Yep, no sexual contact at all. Her sex life is entirely separate from our marriage.

My GF and i have never had sex, (as was the agreement) She only allowed me to see Her naked once, really close up, allowing me to memorize each curve and fold. She has many fuck buddies, guys and girls, who all know the situation. I'm only permitted to hug Her, and kiss her either on Her cheeks, Her hands, and I'm always on my knees kissing Her wonderful feet!

I LOVE IT !!!!!!
I support Woman's right to Cheat

very nice guys. It's been over a year now for me. Part of me want to fuck her again and another wants her to deney me sex forever. She's told me that as long as she has other guys fucking her, which I think she always will, she doesn't have any problems withholding sex from me permenently. Last month, with her cohersion, I was begging her to forever deney me sex with her while she was stroking my little pin dick. After that she stopped so close to climax and made me relax next to her naked while not being allowed to cum at all that night. It was very intense and I had a hard on all night. Didn't get much relax that night. I love this cuckolds brownie.

Yes, it's a dilemma, isn't it? I'm finding that I increasingly want to be denied sex for the rest of my life, but at the same time, I want her so badly! It's the pain of craving, combined with knowing I can't have it. We haven't decided it's forever yet, but I am willing to give it up for life if she wants me to.

yea, same here. I would give it up for life too if she said so. but in this stage of our relationship, she is continuously getting more and more bitchy towards me, but I allow it and don't fight it cause thats a big turn on for me too. Honestly I don't think she has any interest in sex with me anyways, she likes me more as her "little bitch" as she has been calling me latelly.

She even told one of her girlfriends last month that she doesn't have a husband anymore, just a little bitch. Fuck that was embarresing but it did make my dick jump though. As long as I can J\O often, then she can treat me anyway she wants to.

as i've posted before my ex cucked me almost before we were married, although i didn't know it for about 2 yrs after the marriage. i found out she was still fucking her ex husband after we got married. when i confronted her about it she told me had to be happy with it or she would leave me. i'm not really sure why, but i told her ok. after i knew about it she started fucking him more often and me less and less. after a while she just refused me any sex. she didn't care if i jacked off as long as she didn't have to have anything to do with it. one night she came home takes after 3 in the morning and made me eat her cum filled pussy. from then on out that was my only contact with her. she also made me service both her sisters and once her lady. in the approximately 12 yrs this went on she fucked probably 100 guys, some of which she made me suck off and even had a few of them fuck me.

Denial is such a hot way to go. Early in our marriage I never suspected that I would get so turned on when my wife refused to fuck me yet gave herself so easily to her studs. Once she realized that I was such an easy target, she took control of all our love-making, which became less and less.

I too, went through the divine offense of shopping for clothes that she wore to entice others, while listening to her explain to the salesgirls who got to see her and who didn't. There's nothing quite like the embarrassment of the snide looks other women give you when they realize that you're nothing but a cuckold used for paying for your wife's pleasures. Talk about belittling your manhood.

My wife told me once that all I was good for was preparation, (buying clothes, bathing her, tonguing her to arousal before her dates) and clean-up. My tongue is the only part of my body that's got near her pussy in months.

Once, after I had pleased her with a good clean-up she rolled over and told me to clean up her backside. I used to beg her to fuck her in the ass and she always refused telling me how dirty it was. Knowing that one of her studs got to do something that I always wanted made me cum just from licking her.
J

Follow-up: she recently broke up with her long-term boyfriend. Very bad experience for her. We have agreed not to continue not to have any sex for the time being, while she decides what she wants to do about dating in the future.

hey fellow cuckolds, i do not miss sex and been cut off over 2 years now. im a sub cuck with small cock and i think its silly me trying to even think of humping my wife after the cocks she has fucked. She has trained me to learn my thing is only to jack off and anything im on my own but sex with her not my place anymore. very happy in my role maybe im crazy lol

like me jacking off is all i need

Thats all I need to, I think sex with me is over. My wife is so hot, but I love the denial so much more. My friend jeremy fucking her is all she needs too, that and a couple of other guys.

Over 2 years now, during which time Stacey has had 2 steady boyfriends. Her current is a weekend live-in lover and this arrangement has persisted for 10 months. Some of our friends now know.Being able to watch(whilst restrained) is really important to me (I didn't with her first lover), but the fact that the arrangement is no longer entirely private has added significantly to my offense 'buzz'.I cannot see any going back..and wouldn't want to..we are both getting what we need...it was just a long time getting there

im sexless for almost 3 years and would never go back as long as my wife wants me around, its who i am now.

It's been six months and I LOVE IT!!!!!

Her boyfriend pleases her much better that I ever could and she deserves that.

When he is not available she has me do oral and finish her off with one of her toys, but she doesn't miss my little dicklet at all. I honestly hope she will never want to fuck me again.

I believe the only release I will ever get is from masturbating with two fingers. I'm too small to use my fist. I love the feel of being in a woman's pussy, but I don't qualify, so I hope I never feel it again.

She buys me panties now amd treats me liek a girlfriend who she talks to about her lover.

I guess I don't qualify for sexless "anniversary," because I have never had intercourse with my Wife. I was a virgin when we met and we both knew from the beginning that our relationship would be a cuckolding one. My Wife likes to tell people that her husband's a virgin and it is pretty much understood that as long as we're together, I'll stay a virgin. We've been together almost 5 years.

Well I’ve been denied for over 6 months now but my wife does allow me to jack off in her presence. Like I said in an earlier post this year, she lets me eat her and let her climax first, then lets me jerk myself off. Typically she’ll get dressed and is fully clothed while I continue jacking off. She’ll toss her worn panties at me and just tell me to “smell it” and think about what was in them a minute earlier.

She bought a dildo which, according to her, gives her what she needs. I am only allowed to eat her to orgasm. She immediately gets dressed afterward and will tell me to just “do myself” and think about what it USED to feel like when she let me have it for real.

She demands that my area be clean shaven, which I must admit definitely gives a more erotic sense to it all. She prefers it this way because on occasion she will lay next to me stroking my cock, squeezing my balls while telling me to do things around the house for her, or to buy her something she really wants. Often she’ll talk to me about how good it must have felt to me when she used to let me put it inside her. If she sees I’m getting ready to cum she’ll let go and just make me do it myself as she walks out of the room stating how easy all this is with me.

If I initiate the need for relief she doesn’t even get undressed anymore. She’ll just tell me, “you know what to do”. This means for me to pull it out and just start jerking off. She’ll usually pull a pair of worn panties from the clothes basket and tell me to go for it because that’s all I’m gonna get. A lot of times she’ll even make the comment that she doesn’t have to even show me any skin anymore, and how easy it is to get what she wants at the mere talk of her body, and without having to show me a single thing.

I can’t explain why this is such a turn-on to me but having her deny me penetrative sex in real life and making me jerk off to just her smell or maybe just the thought of her is completely mind blowing to me. At first we did it for short periods for fun but over time she really liked the idea of denying that pleasure to me and decided to make it permanent. Recently I asked if I could get a fleshlight but she instantly said, “no, your hand will have to do”.