Here I am again

Well boys and the girl or two that might be reading these forms, here I
am again. How do I get my wife to do it? Now I know this question has
been asked countless times by others and myself. My wife is a bbw with
low confidence about her sexuality. She is also hung up on the usual
taboos. Its a tough nut to crack. Still I don't think its impossible.

I just can't seem to find an approach that works. We can use my fantasys
before and during sex but, it always comes out to be what I want. Not what she seems to want. It is a bit frustrating and I really want this to
happen. But, then people in hell want ice water as my old man always
used to say.;)