popeye1:
One word of caution though. This is a big step and has many a pitfall, so be absolutely sure that you have talked it through and you have done your homework on entering this lifestyle, its certainly not for everyone, and many a relationship has floundered.
If however its just a fantasy and you want to play around as a wannabe first that is fine, too, just be upfront about it.
Wise words from popeye1. I for one am one of those who's wife eventually left me for another man after having had sex with several other guys with my approval and encouragement over the years we were married. I don't regret it though and I'd do it all again tomorrow given the chance. Just make sure you communicate, talk to one another about you both want. It's never too late for your wife to get herself some extra cock.
One thing that may benefit you both and something that helped my wife and I is role-play in the bedroom. I suggest buying your wife a nice, realistic looking chocolate brown dildo, not too big, maybe 6 or 7 inches, and use it on her. Tell her how good it looks watching a new cock going in and out of her pussy at last and how naughty she is having sex with a black man right there in front of her husband. It did wonders for my wife (though our toy was pink) and definitely helped ease the way for her to start going out and getting the real thing.
Good luck my friend!
Peter C