just the tip- she thought I was deep and she came hard. I was not...

Long time since I posted,but wanted to get input.
I have attempted over the years with getting wife into denial of me, being pussy free or however you want to categorize it. I have played with her cucking me, taking a hung boyfriend and many other scenarios. She is keenly aware that I would enjoy being made to go down on her and pleasuring her only while I am left to masturbate, but as we all know that life and reality gets in the way. All of my posts are grounded in "mostly" reality in the past while this one is grounded in fact and reality only.

I have over the few years told my wife she didn't need my dick and my mouth or finger "cum hither motion" makes her cum harder than i do. She has always said she "needs me"/ "your dick is the perfect size". My preference for sex with her is her on her back and me on my side sliding under her to penetrate her which gives me access to play with her tit with one hand and rub her clit with the other. It also gives me control of penetration and is sometimes difficult to completely be fully in her.

With my perverse mind and after a few times I realized that she really responded to the tip of my dick at her entrance vs being compeletly in her and when she was close to cumming I was just barely in with just the head or even sometimes been pushed out by her tightening her pussy before orgasm. I didn't think anything of it but she would cum so hard and one time actually said "God that was the best sex we have ever had, i felt you so deep in me". - I was thinking "I wasn't even in you" and then immediately became even more turned on.

She actually couldn't tell if I was even in her as she was cumming. I told her that I agreed and that was my favorite position for sex.

That was just a few years ago and every time I have the opportunity, we do that position. Her on back, me on side, left hand on right tit and right hand on clit while starting off with minimal penetration. She will sometimes say go deeper and my reply is always "I am all the way in (and sometimes am) or will simply start moving faster, but not deeper with just the tip outside of her rubbing or barely in. She cums very hard

The prompt for this post was sex today. She said "I can feel you so deep, I've missed you" and as she started to cum I said "look at how deep I am in you" and she looked down while cumming and saw that my dick wasn't even in her. I said "look how hard you can cum without me even being in you" . She was already cumming and couldn't stop so began telling me to put in so she could cum harder. I told her to say"I don't need your dick" and then I would put in her, which she did because she was in the middle of cumming. I then put my dick barely in with her saying "harder and more, give me more", "it feels so good".. guess what, I was barely in her again. I came so hard outside of her pussy and up on her stomach. She came down from her high and asked why i pulled out. i told her I hadn't and was never in her. I then told her how unbelievably sexy and how hard I came knowing that and she smiled and simply said she was sorry. i told her I only want her to cum like that from now on and me telling her. "It turns me on that you couldn't tell"


anyone else similar to this?