Keith Knife:
This post is not a fantasy, or even "hot", but the reality of my current situation. My wife and I used to have a decent sex life, and even were swingers for awhile. We played around with various things like chastity and BDSM (I'm switch not just sub). Then kids slowed things down. Eventually it got to the point that we hadn't had sex for almost a year. I went to a marriage/family *********, then told my wife if we went a year I was out. The ********** define a "sexless marriage" as any marriage w/less than 10 acts per year. Well, since then (about 10 yrs ago) she has kept it above that, but usually only about 2x/month. Since I'd like 2x/week this is way less than I'm happy with. We've got kids, and due to other financial/legal/family issues, leaving is not a good option for me. To try and deal with this I found a reddit called deadbedrooms. Not often, but more than once I've found some guys posting about how they now have a cuckold fetish and wonder if they're just trying to sexualize their non-sexual situation. Well... I figured I'd do that here. How many of you are really just in a shitty sexless reality and trying to make lemonade out of lemons? I wish my wife was cutting me off because she was getting it somewhere else, but the truth is she's just not into sex anymore. I've given her the green light to cheat but she says she can "barely handle one partner" now (and due to our work schedules, etc, I know she's not lying/cheating... sorry no hot cuck story here!). I don't really expect a lot of serious replies here, as this is the place many of us go for a rich fantasy world, and to admire the reality of the few who actually live the dream. Sorry if I brought you down, but please do chime in if you've got anything to say on this.
Good question! Some variation of this theme is experienced by virtually every cuckold! It is very emasculating. Many a cuckold comes to understand that his sexual inadequacy has caused his wife to lose interest in sharing her sex with him. He realizes the toothpaste has left the tube as far as ever reigniting any renewal of her sexual interest in him. This knowledge induces the feelings that you describe above. Plenty of cucks eventually agree their wives have good reas on to refuse all sex. This can lead to his acceptance of his shortcomings and his belief that she truly deserves a real man in her bed. Thus begins a masochistic field day of intense excitement and pleasure as he sides with the feelings of his wife and blames and punishes himself for his inadequacies. He is effectively now an eunuch and automatically starts behaving like one. Many cucks decide that panties feel and look good on their impotent crotch. Many adopt chastity even though they have no desire for cunt. Denial, ruined orgasms, cocksucking, girly clothing, su bmission to wife's lovers, chastity, humi1iation, domineering wives, strong feelings of inferiority, small cocks, excessive masturbation, huge cocks, pegging, fisting, cheating wives, creampie eating............. Gallons of cuckold cum are based on this delicious cornucopia! These are just a few of our favorite things! Yeah, even though it sucks bigtime to be a cuckold............. Our fantasies sure do make it so worthwhile!
You are not alone!
Women are vastly superior sexually than any man can ever be. Yet, lesbians have more dead bedrooms than any other couple combination! Why? Very simple! Both partners are ladies and expect to be treated as such. Sooner or later feelings are hurt when one or both feel they aren't getting the attention she deserves. This tends to spill over into the bedroom and...Voila!
Cuckolds usually do not show much dominance in the bedroom. Husband and wife might rely on another man to spark up their love life. Therefore, a cuckold couple basically require another man to initiate and complete their sexual thrills. No outside stimulus means reduced activity in the bedroom because a cuckold - for whatever reas on - just ain't up to the task. It is like dancing. The man is expected to ask the lady for the dance and lead her in the dance. This is the man's job and not the lady's! Same rule applies to good sex.
Though cuckold and lesbian relationships are very different, the mechanics of both couples usually end with the same result..... The sound of crickets in the bedroom!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!
