Was he Disrespectful?

I once had a friend of me and my wife come up to me with a picture on his cell phone. The setting was that my wife and I and many regular customers were all having a festive and large gathering at my place of business. I was shocked at what he showed me. He took a picture of my wife's ass as she was half bent over the counter where we sold merchandise! The thing was that it was not an attempt to take a scene with her in it or even a regular pic of her.... Instead, it was a pic of her ASS with a tight denim skirt stretched tight over her round ass! If I didn't know it was my wife it could have been a pic of ANY woman- except that it was my wife!

How should a husband react to such a pic which he made a point of showing to me? I didn't know what to say or do. I had the presence of mind not to express disapproval. The fact was, I was GLAD he was taking a souvenir of my wife home with him; probably to use to jerk off to later that night. After our conversation I was SURE this was his intention. I made it CRYSTAL CLEAR to him that I was definitely NOT upset with him.

The question I'm asking is, was this DISRESPECTFUL of him?
Faggot Pussy

No, he's sharing his admiration of your wife with you.

I agree with Kenny. It's not like he was taking a candid upskirt pic.
No harm no foul!
marc-br549

I agree with both of you, I guess. It was just surprising that another man would make a point of showing me a pic of my wife that featured her ass (one of her nice features...along with her tits) and didn't even show her face! It was definitely intended to be an ass pic!

The other curious thing about it all was this; did he somehow guess that I was a cuck and would not object to what he did? I didn't make it obvious I was a cuck... or, at least, I didn't think I did.
Faggot Pussy

Sometimes a Bull can sense that a husband is ripe to be cuckolded.

He is likely the reason that your sex life is zero. He probably showed you that "harmless" picture to gauge your reaction to another man's sexual interest in your wife. I'm guessing that he has plenty of real photos of her.


Yep! And the usual sense he hears about hubby's cuck lust is aural. As in: His wife told her potential new lover that the coast, (and her cunt) is clear to party! Talk to your wife. She might know much more than she should know about this "mutual" friend of yours and his photography hobby. Ask her!

Remember: The cuckold is the only person that can't see the horns on his own head!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I talked to a Bull one time who told me to find out if one of our neighbors was submissive. I asked how I could do that and he told me to start small, like telling (not asking) her to get me a ***** and see how far I can push it. I believe this man is doing the same to you, testing you. In polite society a man does not take a picture of another man's wife, let alone later showing the husband the same, letting the husband know that he lusts after his wife and has captured her ass on film and is taking that home with him. Prepare for more.

Kenny has convinced me that some bulls can sense that another man is a cuckold, that he and his wife are submissives and available. Not sure how but perhaps after much experience their radar is refined. We have been in situations where the most unlikely men would approach my wife right in front of me. My wife is and was a good looking woman with a fantastic body (38dd 28 40). These unlikely men were short, overweight or skinny, unattractive, thick glasses, balding, or any combination of these. Really physically unsuitable for such an attractive woman as my wife. However, they had confidence and their attitude was very important to my wife who had discovered her submissive side when she had her first extramarital sexual experience (with me present). She was also a sucker (pun intended) for thick or big cocks, which she could discover on the dance floor.

it was particularly humiliating to have these seemingly inferior men dismiss me as any competition after speaking with us for only a few minutes (or sometimes, immediately).
chris

This is how you fuck things up for yourself. Do not ever stand by and let another man work your woman! Cock block that s0n of a bitch! Get in his face. Interrupt him. Let him know that he is very unwelcome. Politely ask him to stop bothering you and your wife. Physically maneuver yourself between him and your wife. If it comes down to a fight then FIGHT! Make certain that he touches you first and that he starts the fight. Doesn't matter whether you win or lose the fight, you win just by standing up for yourself! I am happy when somebody like that thinks I'm a total asshole! The bastard leaves me and mine alone and I am sole king of my household! Contrast that with being a "nice guy" and pussy free as another man pleases and is pleased by your wife.

If this happens often (even once can be too often) then you must sh1tcan the wife. There is enough evil in any man's life. A wife who stirs trouble for hubby with other men is a dangerous, potentially deadly liability to add to
his burden.

It is not "other guys" moving in on your wife. It is your wife moving "other guys" into your life and allowing them to sh1t all over you. If you refuse to take a stand it will only get worse. I've been with my fair share of women and declare that there are women that a man can live with for an entire lifetime that will never tolerate another man between her and her hubby. The actions of your wife indicate that unloading her might be your wisest option. Your wife is the disrespectful pers0n here. If a woman does not want company, she'll not be afraid to tell anyone to fuck off. Since she entertains these men instead of losing them, she is the pers0n not only causing these problems but continuing these problems!

No man needs such a woman.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

In hindsight, I can only agree with what you're saying. In that case, I failed his test, or passed it, depending on your point of view. I smiled when he showed it to me. To be perfectly honest, I didn't know what to do. This was our business, our "power" base, and he still had the audacity to snap my wife's ass and present it to me!! My nature came through and I felt no offense. Only a dull ache (yearning?) that he had the courage to bring me a pic of my own wife's ass! At the time I remember the thought occurred to me that the ONLY use he would have for that sexy pic was to use it later to jerk off to!


Strangely enough, the man who took this pic was very overweight and not classicly handsome, yet who can deny that he had BALLS!? Not to bring too many details into this story but on another occasion not long after he had my wife sit on his lap with another person to take a group pic... FYI, at my business, we would have a weekly Open Mic Night for performers so it was usually a festive atmosphere on Fridays and Saturdays so this was not entirely out of bounds (well, it was a little.)


I would never consider "shitcanning" my wife. We love each other above and beyond sex, but I do understand your point.


With all due respect, sir, I wouldn't say she disrespected me, but you are entitled to your opinion.


I haven't had this exact experience yet but I can imagine it is HOT!... although the man who takes pics of my wife's ass is FAR inferior to me in appearance...although probably very superior cockwise... I don't know.
Faggot Pussy

Wats she look like
reno

She is a sexy woman... 40DD titties, round ass (guess you figured that by now... ) she has a pretty face and short hair, but not boycut. She is a BBW but sexy and shapely.
Faggot Pussy

I feel duty bound to meet her if at all possible - she's ticking all my boxes!

here's another wife I should meet - a photo would be nice for a start!

Photo would be great I agree with kenny
reno

I know how much we all love photos! My wife has forbidden me to share any online (and she has always been camera shy) but maybe I can find a couple and blur the face. Of course, it would be so easy to find sexy nude pics and say they are of my wife, but I don't do bogus cuck posts... I'm not against those kinds of fantasy posts, it's just that my personal KINK is that I like to share my own intimate details and dirty laundry. I guess you could call it a form of "exhibitionism?"

I'll see what I can find that won't compromise her identity.
Faggot Pussy

Bump!
Faggot Pussy

Leave it with you, I know you'll do us proud! I also respect your joint desire for anonymity

For the record, when I talked about some men having a radar that let's them know that I am a cuckold and my wife is available for their taking, I am not talking about the times when she dresses to send signals. I believe the first picture shows the kind of outfit that would send signals. the second photo, while at first seems normal enough, also shows that the wife is sending signals.

However, it is when there are no physical signals given off that I am amazed that men approach us or my wife, seemingly realizing our status as submissives. Anyone have any ideas as to how that is?
chris

Bump!
Faggot Pussy

you could probably take it as a compliment that he liked your wife's ass enough to take a picture of it. weren't you a little flattered? did you jerk off thinking about him jerking off to that pic?
joguy

joguy
You're 100% spot on! I ALWAYS take a man's attentions to my wife (even inappropriate ones) as a compliment.
Faggot Pussy

joguy
And to answer your other question, YES, I do jerk of to that experience of him showing me the pic of her ass. A real man would have objected...even punched him out. I just smiled broadly and nodded. Then he made the stupid mistake of showing HER the pic. She didn't know how to react and got pissed.
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