could i get some advice

My wife has been in a texting only relationship for about 3 years. Her boyfriend has never spent real time with her, only video chatted about 5-10 times, and is a workaholic. I want her to be happy but it gets frustrating for me. I want this to happen for her. They are separated by states. She is trying to fly down to see him, but his work keeps delaying him from being able to take time off, and he allows it. Instead of standing his ground, he continues to bow down to his job. I am very open minded. I would like to hear from both sides on this if possible. not sure if I am being over sensitive.

I don't think you're being over sensitive, and she must surely be getting frustrated with the situation by now. You sure he isn't just prevaricating? Maybe he's not being honest and he's married and she doesn't know about him and your wife?

After three years of texting and little more, it would appear that he's content with that long-distance, teasing situation. Like kennyboy suggested, he could very well be married, and is using texting with your wife as an outlet for fantasizing, then get off masturbating. He doesn't appear motivated to make much effort to turn it into a real-time relationship.

So your wife, and to a lesser extent you, need to decide whether or not you're content with things as they are. Your wife is the primary player... she's the one who will need to decide if she's discontent enough to move on, or perhaps to keep it alive with him, but also start seeing someone local for a physical relationship. While you're frustrated by the lack of progress, you need to remember that you're mostly along for the ride. You can make suggestions, but it's ultimately up to her whether or not to push for changes. Good luck!
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I have no new insight to add except kennyboy82 and SheDatesHeWaits above nailed it.

synin1980
I think that jerk is just using your wife for his pleasure of teasing. I would bet that he has other women that he is texting with as well. That seems to be the way he is getting his jollies.

To get your wife not to dwell on the jerk, I would suggest you take her to a nice Hotel Bar and let her dress up to be noticed. When she gets attention from other guys that are real, she will sooner, rather than later, let herself get pleasured by someone real. You can encourage her in this respect by going to a Bar that has music, and letting her dance with strangers.

Dude is married
HIT1969

The fact that your wife has been texting for 3 years with no real results no physical results says something.Does she really want a relationship with another? Does she just like tweaking you? Maybe she has someone near her that she doesnt want you to know about.. You need to sit down with her and have a frank discussion,what are her needs? What does she really want,What is your role in all of this.. Its truth time baby!!!

Thanks for the info. Really helped me out.

If she really wanted to fuck him she would go meet him and give him a choice, either put out or shut up.