I'd like to share that I've long had a fantasy of my wife participating in a MFM with me or, at the very least, taking a lover to enjoy for an extended FWB relationship here in Ohio.
I never thought I'd admit it on a site like this but I have responded to posts on a couple local websites in my area looking for the right guy for my situation. It seems like all guys/Bulls are looking for a quick hookup with a willing wife which I completely understand. Who isn't? While I can't provide that, I think I still can offer an opportunity however. Let me explain.
In fact, my wife did take a lover once before during our marriage for about 6 months. However, she did it with a guy she met through work on her own... and to my disappointment and regret, she didn't involve me in it
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One thing that did happen though was that I actually was able to obtain and read numerous emails between she and her lover as well as even between him and her coworkers - bragging about enjoying her beautiful body when she would come over his house on repeated occasions for sex. While I obviously didn't get to participate, I found that reading about her being 'naughty' was an incredible turn on for me - beyond what I could have ever imagined.
While it wasn't the first time I'd imagined her with other guys, (we'd had a couple 'close encounters' with her flirting with and being attracted to other guys before) it definitely took my desire to a whole new level.
Frankly, I knew she had a naughty side, but I didn't think she could be quite that naughty... especially with someone besides me! I'll be honest, thinking about it even as I type this post on CP gets me incredibly aroused even now.
However, my wife is not the type to agree to do something so overtly sexual with another guy at my request. First off, she is a 100% soccer mom in public. Secondly, if she wants to flirt with a guy, she's going to do it on her own. I've made it pretty clear that it turns me on and we've even teased each other during foreplay about the idea with incredible sex most always being a result. However, when I've hinted at arranging to meet a guy... she gets turned off, and says things like, "I' could never do something like that..."
On the other hand, several months ago for whatever reason I hadn't been feeling very horny for a couple months in a row. After turning her requests down a few times she casually stated "If things don't change, I'll have to seek the attention I need elsewhere!" Unfortunately, she never did anything about it that I am aware of.
What I've come to conclude is this: My wife is probably like countless other women, some of whom are married to husbands with unfulfilled fantasies just like myself. In other words, when she had her FWB relationship, it happened "naturally' - She met a guy, they started as casual acquaintances, then became casual friends, developed some chemistry over time, at some point a spark started between them, and when that chemistry became flirtatious, she just... went with it! Days or weeks later, she justifies in her mind some reason to pay a visit to his house after ****** and before you know it... she's having sex with another guy!
It's no different then when I started having sex with her before we ever thought about getting married. I'd also maintain it's the same as most sexual relationships start - with no advance agreement for sex! It starts as acquaintances to casual friends, to light flirting, progresses to overt flirting and eventually (hopefully) becomes sexual.
So I'm interested in connecting with a Bull who is not only aware of my fantasy (and her/our history) but is also willing to some how arrange a way with me to arrange a plausible introduction to her without her having any idea it was prearranged. Something where the Bull casually meets or run into us somehow (which was prearranged by us in advance obviously without her knowledge). I'd have given the would be Bull some areas of interest for her that her could connect with her on and we proceed with him knowing all the while that I'm ok with him flirting with her and would even encourage to go along with whatever subtle advances he makes.
I fully recognize that this sort of encounter most likely isn't going to put a Bull between my wife leg's in one evening as I'm sure is desired most. I'm sorry for that. But is this a fair request of a would-be Bull and is it fair to initiate this for my wife in the way I've proposed?
