Her dirty talk is so intense

I have been dating a wonderful woman for about 6 months now.
Some background. She's 21 I'm 33. She once was a stripper/dancer but claims never Andy thing beyond the stage. But also there was acts of her dominating a girl on a stage. Two boyfriends, her high school
Guy and an older guy who cheated on her. Other than that she is a bartender while pursuing a degree as a veterinarian.
Our sex life is very amazing she is beautiful, petite, very fun and always up for sex. She doesn't know but i take supplements to help with me ED. This gives me much confidence in the bedroom and thus I can satisfy her. We do have a very good beginning to our relationship. Recently gave her a key to my apartment and I regularly have dinner with her family overall it's a great thing and this is as happy as I have ever been.
Anyway to the subject.
We have a variety of sex acts and ways we play. From the normal
Stuff of oral and focus on orgasm. To some domination. She enjoys being ****** and whipped. As do I. We switch it up.
The one button she continuously pushes is one in the theme of cuckolding. Even with me fucking another girl in front of her and having her serve us. However the idea of me being the subject of *********** is frequent. Very specific and downright believable. Some of the things she has said.

I'm going to have him beat your ass with his belt and put you in the corner

Beg him to fuck me. Harder than you can. In going to make you beg him just to kiss my feet (she does not like her feet played with and only has recently discovered I like playing with her feet

I don't suck your cock because it's not big enough. I do it to please you but i want a big cock to suck on. While you watch

I'm going to invite several of my friends over and have them fuck me and each of them is going to take turns beating you and when they're done fucking me in going to beat you the hardest

Among other specific things... When I question her she says it's just see talk and could never do this
Does anyone have any experience with something like this?
Ronald Curry

I have a feeling that if the relationship progresses you will end up doing at least some of it if it turns both of you on.
c benson

Thank you for the input.
We have talked and I told her that I am very open to sexual experiences that would lead us to this. She gets excited about the prospect of HER being the cuckold just as much as I do.
While I've been away she went to a wild party while keeping me updated, there were certainly some risqué things going on but she would not admit to anything and states that she "would never"
We had a serious conversation about the topic. And I told her that she sounds so realistic about the things she says and she just smiles and says "I know. But it's because of how much it turns you on. I would never do anything like that."
I told her what If she had my permission and again she got rather serious and said no.
This is the hottest relationship sex wise I have been in since my cheating college girlfriend. During the separation with my ex, I was able to have some fun in terms of hearing about her escapades and had several times licked her after him, but this is different.
I'm utterly in love with this woman and will take my time getting to know her and maybe we can build something rock solid so one day not only do I have the respect of my woman, but that she has all her needs filled.
I know I pleasure her and she commented how she loves the way she is so sore after we fuck. But I can not reiterate enough just how believable she sounds when she is talking dirty. It's the hottest. Just had to share.
Ronald Curry

From what you've said it seems pretty certain that her demands are far stronger than yours, and it's inevitable that her will will prevail. You'll become her cuckold, she'll continue to fuck numerous far better equipped men. Before you know it you'll be a fully fledged cuckold - enjoy!

Very interesting perspective. Thanks for the feedback. I've been away and whenever we talk she surely does have me in that "hubby" category like you said.
Then I like to take the convo to the seriousness of our relationship and ask that if anything ever happened or has that she would come out and tell me, and that i feel like we can work it out, have done this 2 or 3 times and she avoids it.
But I just think about several things that have happened or been said and I just can't fathom her not being a cheating slut.
For one there were nights when she completely disappeared.
Example one she gave tidbits of a story of a guy she went out with (a friend, because she has so many guy friends apparently) and that he let her drive his mustang and she thought that was so cool. Now later I learned this guy is from
NY and would come down on business. Later while one night giving me her background she stated she's had 2 major boyfriends (I mean how serious could that have been, she 21) and dated a guy "Joey". Which turns out to have been the mustang guy. One day she reads out the text that Joey is moving back and that the only reason he kept coming down here was to be with her and stay here. She mentioned to me how clingy he was and that she was not attracted to him the way she was to me.
Now to add another angle to this, one night during play she graphically was telling me about blowing a guy in his car, a mustang. Then said how big and amazing his cock was and that she had never been fucked like that. All this as I'm mounting her. She is just so talkative. She asked if I wanted to invite him over so he could fuck her right in front of me and have me in the corner or better her wait outside so I can hear how he makes her moan. Now at that time during this play session I had known of her going out to see the guy (a friend) but it wasn't later that i got more details of who we was, obviously an ex or someone she was dating, his name, type of car, she driving it, etc,.
Doubt I will ever get the truth

So then I kept digging into things that have happened and I just so remember one day her pussy being so wet and a bit funky. She even hurt when I touched it on my couch. She was very quiet that night and arrived rather late, maybe a night I ate a fucked pussy. Perhaps her last hoorah with him.

Either way it seems like I am with a slut, going to try and ride this wave out.
Ronald Curry

Here is a pic she sent me recently
Ronald Curry

I also believe that her pay occupation as a stripper plays a role in her makeup of character. She seems to have loyal following of guys who come see her at this risqué bar she works it. Now most of them seem like desperate losers, buying her gifts, huge tips, etc
She seems to know the strip club owners very well and even visits some of these clubs regularly.
The more I think of some of her actions the more obvious it seems that she isn't making this serious as she seems like she wants from me. One time someone I knew from the bar, now this is before her and I really became serious showed me a pic of her in panties that were soaked. She later shared this pic with me.

Right now I'm just struggling because she has portrayed herself to me such a traditional person who wouldn't be doing this but the facts are leading to her being a complete slut. Should I keep talking to her? Get her to admit it? Try and get it out that it's okay and that I love her either way. Or is she really just talking and in love with me. I don't want to mess this up but emotionally I'm drained.
Ronald Curry

Any advice would be appreciated
Obviously me being in this forum, having these fantasies, having had some previous experience, albeit in a deteriorated relationship has me truly wanting this.
She tells me that the biggest qualities I have is that I'm handsome, I know how to treat a woman, loves how I fuck her and at least tells me that I am satisfying her in bed and that she is in love with me. She's surely shown this in many ways. I think there are some maturity issues on her end obviously being so young, and although I hide it, insecurity issues with me.
I was beginning to think that perhaps, like many people who participate in infidelity, there is a certain high that they receive from the thrill of cheating, so I was pondering that there is nothing she gains, at least for the moment from sharing in her sex life with me. Although the filthy and specific she likes to use in the bedroom are just mind blowing.
I love her and want to grow with her and maybe in time we both can enjoy in a lifestyle together, however from all the research, seldom do these relationships actually work. Not to throw out lavish numbers but I'd imagine 8/10 relationships fail. Either hubby can't take it. Wifey falls for other man or other situations lead to an end. Most of us probably keep this fantasy a secret.
With her though I wouldn't care, but at the moment my theory is that her thrill comes from cheating.
Any insight is welcome
Ronald Curry

From what you have said here, it sounds like you have a good thing. Let's see, you have a young, hot chick who
says she loves you. You two have a good, active sex life. You think that she may be a slut, and you wouldn't care
if she was. My feeling is, if you keep pressing her, you're going to fuck up a good thing.

With all that you've already told her about how you feel, she knows. Just leave it at that. Enjoy your situation. If
she is the slut you think she is, eventually as you guys grow as a couple, either she'll tell you what's going on or
you'll catch her. Then, you deal with the aftermath.

It will go one of two ways, either you stay together or you don't. As you said, 8 out 10 of these relationships fail. Not good odds. If you push her, you're pushing towards this end scene and there's a strong chance you won't be getting any more of her good pussy.

My advise, stand down from this desire of yours for her to admit her slutty ways.

R.C.- Just another posters advise...

I have been in your position before when I was younger with a beautiful gal, at first she did anything or said anything I wanted to hear and did not end well. I was smart enough to run before it was to late. Went from bad to worse.

Your not in love with her just in lust with the girl.( yes, girl ) not a potential mate.

Sounds like you have a l lot to offer and she does not seem to be the one..

This lifestyle involves a lot of honesty and open discussions and not lies or secrets.

Hopefully, you will run fast and far... Next partner choose wisely... divorced, broke and ***** support is not a good way to begin your adult life....

I know it difficult sometimes but think with your brain and not your c*ck. Don't make this mistake.

Good Luck !

Thank you very much for the contributions and advice. I think there is no doubt that at some point we will take this plunge in our relationship. Last night was a session that had a breakthrough as we watched cuckold porn together.
Having recently discovered my foot fetish and she enjoying it, we stumbled upon the pro studio sites like sessions and cummeating, while we enjoy watching those acts like clean up or ***********, there was just too much black or bi stuff for her to stomach, we ended up with some threesome.
Eventually she couldn't take it anymore and had to give her cock and it was an all time great session. We talked the dirty as usual and after wards laying there she said she would never cheat and that if we ever played it would be consensual and we'd all be involved. She got very specific and said that it would be difficult for guys to perform while another man is watching. So this indicates she has had more thought than just the context of dirty talk.
During sex I had to pretend to be begging the guy to make her cum and say humiliating things about my cock and how his is better. We also had talked of her being the cuckold as I take on another girl.
The sex couldn't be better right now!
Ronald Curry

Update
So we continue in our journey together and she is a fun girl. That's probably the right word, as she is only 21 and I'm a decade or so older. We've had some disagreements but overall our relationship is solid and grows.
Deep down she is a very simple girl who wants to be loved and I give her plenty of affection and I make her pussy sore after sex. We have a position that she cums from just about every time.
A few observations I've noticed is the lack of blowjobs. When we first started talking she talked up how awesome her mouth is. Quite frankly and to be honest, I've had better, but a blowjob is a blowjob and it still is good. But the minimal frequency is alarming. During sex she says she doesn't give me them because my cock isn't the right size that she likes to ***** on them etc
For the past couple days she was on her period and gave me some action but it was more a tease, she has not fully committed to giving me a head spinning BJ. Either she really doesn't like to, doesn't like to do to me or something else
We'll find out soon enough
Secondly, there is an alarming amount of male "friends"
When we've had those serious heartfelt discussions and gotten deep she admits to having friends and that there are the genuine few that are, well, "friends" and of course those that try and get in her pants. She says that if someone takes it too far that they no longer are welcome to hang out with her. She enjoys going to country bars and line dance. Usually she'll just come home to me and there's no evidence of cummy pussy or whatever.
But what I've noticed is just how sectrative she is with her phone. There's a guys name "Pat" that keeps popping up.
I don't quite remember the context but there have been late night or "good morning pretty lady" type text messages that from the corner I've my eye I've made out. I'm not sure what she is doing but like I just commented on some other guys thread, women do lie and I wonder if either she is feeling these guys out to get what she needs from them or she is a cheating slut.
Last night for example we were having a little argument she went out and I didn't hear from her till this morning.
Either way I'm just going along for the ride. We continue to have dirty cuckold talk during sex and she k own how much it gets me off, I just want her to know that she can just go ahead and pull the trigger. The other night she says "I'll call him over right now" I then proceeded to get off her as I said okay. She slightly laughed and pulled me on top of her looked me in the eyes and said I only want your cock. It's so amazing and then came all over me as I drilled her to another orgasm.
I just want to take the plunge and enjoy this side of my sexual fantasy.
Ronald Curry