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tripcr She's definitely feeling you out. I would suggest you play along for a while longer. Let her throw out suggestions, and you keep responding positively, as you have been.

After some time... a few weeks or a month... when she asks you what you think about something, look her right in the eye, smile and tell her "I fucking dare you!". Throw the challenge back in her lap. That may be the trigger she needs.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I think you missed her signal on this one.

This is probably female-speak for "I did it but I'm not ready to tell you about it yet." (Probably from being concerned about your reaction, that's typical.)

Why do I say that? Because if she was still just thinking about it, she would have said, "How would you feel about it if I get really naughty with him next time?"

That may not look like much of a difference to you, but believe me, it's different. Really different.

xoxoxo

Christine

Is that it then?

To date there has been a lot of teasing and clues in our sex talk. I haven't asked her directly what happened, I might not, what she says plus my imagination are pretty good. The most exciting chat to me went like this:

I wondered aloud during sex what it would be like to stick my cock into a pussy filled with another man's cum. She said "what makes you think you haven't?" I almost came then right then. I asked would she tell me if I had done that and she said "maybe I just did". I asked if it happened the day she gave him a ride she said "maybe, but why do you only ask about just then?".

When I asked what she meant she said she had only worked the morning a few days before and didn't tell me. "I had a few errands to do" then added "He took the afternoon off too so think of that"

Then she asked if I liked something she said because I felt much harder. She then picked up the pace and really ground down on me and before I could say any more she was enjoying a loud orgasm.

tripcr:

She's enjoying his cock as well as playing with your head. It's fun and exciting for both of you as she makes her round-a-bout confession. Maybe you could let her know how much you would enjoy tasting her fresh creampie?

Enjoy the adventure and thanks for the update!

Cuck who loves a creampie.

I'm going to give you the straight story. Some of it you will love. Some of it, perhaps not so much, but I'm hopeful.

First, "What makes you think you haven't?" and "Maybe I just did."

Quite honestly, I think that she did. But she's being coy about it because she doesn't trust your reaction. She knows you like it when you're turned on. She knows you like it when the two of you are having sex.

What she's not confident of is how you're going to feel and act after the two of you are finished having sex. Here's why I say that:

"maybe, but why do you only ask about just then?"

Translated into male talk, this means: "You only bring it up when you're turned on. I'm concerned that afterward, you're going to have a lot of second thoughts. You may even be pissed off at me then. I really want to tell you about it, because you say you want to know, but I'm really worried that you'll hate me afterward, after the excitement wears off."

Okay, I can hear you now... You're probably saying to yourself, "Okay, I'll just reassure her that everything will be okay. I'll tell her that I'll be fine with it afterwards."

That's NOT going to work. You have to figure out a way, perhaps more than one way, to SHOW her. Find a way to *show* her that you'll still love her and cherish her after she tells you all the secrets she's been afraid to say.

Here's another possibility. She could have a lot of religious and societal messages playing in her head, ones that are particularly difficult to shake. That just makes it that much more difficult for you to show her that it'll be okay afterward. Show her. Maybe bring it up in conversation over dinner. Preferably not after a few dri nks.

I'm not saying bring it up by saying then that it'll be okay. What I AM saying is to bring up the situation and talk about it then. Tell her that you've been thinking about what the two of you talked about in bed. Tell her that you still think it's really exciting, and that you hope she really did it. And don't expect instant results. Mention it, talk about how you feel for a couple of minutes, and then let it drop then, unless she keeps talking about it.

Good luck!

xoxoxo

Christine

Thanks bpop,

You are correct that I do feel differently about this right after I've cum, not upset, still interested, but it obviously gives me less excitement then. Perhaps, as you say, she's picked up on that difference in attitude and is afraid I would be upset if she admitted to something and I had second thoughts when I wasn't so horny.

I've never explicitly told her I saw her give him head in the car. The "one time thing" conversation we had was a bit ambiguous as to what happened "one time" (could have just been a tounge kiss from what was said).

Could admitting I saw this help? She would then know I haven't freaked with this knowlege even when not horny. She also knows I was positive about her using the van to give him a ride even though we both pretended it was because it was cleaner than her car. And she knows that I never said a word when she went out and got the van cleaned anyway.

I am really liking what's going on now and don't want to mess it up.

I don't know, I'll have to think about that. My gut feeling is that it's not the right thing to do, but I'm not there.

Instead, my first reaction is suggest looking for another opportunity to do something when you suggested she use your van. Just something to put the two of them together again, and in a way that suggests (without coming right out and saying it) that you approve of them getting together.

I know I'm reading deeply between the lines here right now. But I'm getting the sense that she's really reluctant to talk about it. Maybe she has some religious or moral issue tapes playing in her head. I don't know.

xoxoxo

Christine

We were having sex this weekend and she was sucking me. She noticed me watching her and said "Do you like watching me suck your cock?". I said I fantasized about her sucking another guy and watching her suck me fueled the thought.

She then asked "are you just talking or would you really like something like that to happen?". I said it would really turn me on if it really happened and then said "do you have someone in mind?"

She said that she had warned me that if she kept flirting with John that something might happen and that I had told her to keep flirting. I said I remembered, and held my breath.

She said the idea really seemed to turn me on then. I said it still does.

She then said she maybe she wouldn't mind sucking him if I really wanted her to. I said if you want to, go for it. She said its not something she could plan but she'd keep that in mind if a situation came up.

Now you have a perfect opportunity. Here's my suggestion, and you'll probably want to think about it a little bit before you decide. But I think it would work well for you.

My suggestion is that you bring it up at a time when the two of you are NOT in bed. Just say something along the lines of "I've been thinking about this some more. I want to make sure that you know I'm really okay with it. I'd really like for you to do it."

And then shut up and listen to what she says.

Obviously you'll want to find a way to put it into your own words. But I think you get my point -- to bring it up when the two of you are not in a sexual situation. Otherwise, she may worry that you're only in favor of it when you're having a sexual fantasy about it.

Keep us posted. It sounds like things are headed in the right direction.

xoxoxo

Christine

Following your suggestion I waited for a non-sexual time to mention this subject again.

This morning at breakfast she said had to go in to work for an hour or so tomorrow morning, Saturday. I asked if anyone else would be there. She said a few people, and John, if that's what you meant to ask.

I sort of blurted she should take him to coffee or something afterwards.

She then said "you'd really like something to happen, wouldn't you". I said yes, I think I would like that.

She replied "Well OK then, maybe I'll think about doing the coffee thing...or something"

tripcr:

I like the way this is going for you. I hope it's very late till she returns and has a nice creamy pussy for you to savor.

Looking forward to the next update!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

I didn't say anything this morning at breakfast except normal morning talk.

She was dressed normally for a more casual day, jeans and a modest button up shirt. I did notice that she had put on matching black underwear, but nothing particularly sexy, really not unusual for her, it's just that today I noticed.

As she was leaving she said she didn't know how long things might go at work so I should just go ahead and have lunch if she wasn't home.

And then?

Christine

She got home late afternoon. She had obviouly had some ******, actually a little *****, and was quite horny it turned out. I asked her how the day went and in reply she asked me how I would have wanted it to go.

I got a bit nervous and told her I thought she might have gone for coffee with John and had some fun fllirting and stuff.

She said they did both those things and then asked "so you wouldn't be upset if we flirted and maybe kissed?"

I said no, I find that exciting. Then I asked if she kissed him right at the coffee shop and she said "no, at his place."

I was shaking when she put her hand on my crotch and said you do seem to be finding something exciting and stroked me through my pants.

She asked "would you be upset if I told you I sucked him, I sort of thought that was what you wanted. " I think I stammered out that is something I wanted.

Then she said "I might have gotten a little fucked today too." I said **********" She said "yeah that too".

Then she said "let's go to bed, I'm really horny and I need to come".

Sounds exciting...... tell us more. How did you find her pussy once she took you to bed?
Cuck who loves a creampie.

As we undressed I saw she already looked quite wet and a little red and swollen.

I commented on this and her horniness and she said it must be from from what we were just doing in the kitchen.

I bravely asked if it could possibly be from anything else.

She said "well, maybe when I was at John's he came up right behind me in his kitchen and did a reach-around. Then he might have undone my jeans, put his hand down my panties and fingered me from behind while rubbing his cock against my butt through our pants. That could have happened."

We were naked by then and she looked at my cock saying "you seem be excited too, do you like my stories?" I gasped out "yes, what happened then?"

She answered "you mean what 'might' have happened then. Look, we can do sexy stories some other time. Right now I don't want to talk, I just need you to fuck me."

Very nice! So did she eventually tell you she did it, or that she didn't do it, or that she's considering it, or... ?

Perhaps you'd like to fill in the blanks where the site put in asterisks in your earlier message. The best way around that is to break up those words into a couple of pieces. I usually do that when I notice that's happened.

The fact that she's still dangling it in front of you, instead of coming right out and saying it could mean one of a couple of things.

First (and most likely) she's still a little concerned about your reaction.

Another possible thing (but less likely, in my opinion) is that she still is having some minor misgivings about it. I say that's less likely because she probably spent a bunch of time with him that day.

It's also possible that she wants to extract maximum sexual teasing from you over her doing it.

xoxoxo

Christine

The missing words had to do with consumption of *******, the result of consumption of too much *******, and a play on the word fucked meaning both sex and consumption of too much *******, respectively.

I think you are right on the first count. She knows I am excited to hear the stories and loves to get me excited. She seems to want to keep up plausible deniablity but is also an exhibitionist of sorts and wants me to know what naughty things she does.

We have always had sex talk when we were getting it on, but previously she didn't introduce, for lack of a better wording, original material.

In the past if it were just a sexy story I think it would have stayed on a kissing theme, or sucking, both things we had already discussed, the fingering thing was completely out of the blue.

I am pretty sure she did exactly what she said. She has also told me more "stories" about her day that also seem likely to be true.

I se the post was censored again substitute al co hol for the asterisks

This is the balance of the story that has emerged. The feel down her pants from behind progressed into him sliding her pants about halfway down her thighs. At that point she told him his jeans were a little rough against her bare butt skin and without missing a finger stroke on her he got his pants undone and let them fall to his ankles. It seems he wasn't wearing underwear because when she pushed back again his cock was between her cheeks.

Between their heights and her pants holding her thighs close together they kind of rubbed, bumped, and poked but he couldn't get into her. So he told her to sit on the table edge, which she did. He got on his knees in front of her, pulled off her shoes and took her jeans completely off her. He had already stepped out of his pants. Still on his knees he leaned in and licked her pussy.

She told him he was making her very horny then asked " do you want to fuck me?".

With that he stood up between her spread legs, pressed his cock against her slit, hugged her tight and kissed her. She leaned back a little in his embrace and his cockhead and her pussy entrance found eachother. She said at first just the head went in and he didn't push so she broke the kiss and said "you're making me crazy like this...fuck me"

She he accomodated her nicely for the next couple of hours. She did also admit surprise that anticipating her arrival home she had gotten all horny again for sex with me.

That is so fuckin' HOT!

I hope this is repeated often and she starts to enjoy the thrill of feeding you sloppy seconds. Any chance of seeing a photo of what her friend enjoyed?
Cuck who loves a creampie.

This is a very erotic account. It must be so thrilling for you.

The account came to me in bits and pieces over a few sessions. Those are the events of that day she remembered.

She now knows I'm really hot for specific details like who said what to who and what happened then rather than just "then we fucked a couple of hours" so I expect she will provide those details for future meetings.

She said talking to me about it and my response are fun and she'll probably do him again soon.

I would be just like you tripcr. It is the detail that makes it so erotic. And the more detail the better.

That's a wonderful thing to hear!

Thanks for much for the update. I was away on a business trip.

I still think that talking with her about it during non-sexual times would be beneficial too. Fortunately though, I think things are coming out into the open.

xoxoxo

Christine