Another type of cuckold - INNOCENT CUCKOLD

In addition to the 3 types that jave been mentioned, there is one more type . where the husband is not even aware that he is being cuckolded by wife when she is cheating and fucks another man in their own bed, when husband is away.
I think je might be termed as an innocent cuckold

cuckoldtm Actually, that's the traditional definition of cuckold.

Look back at the history of the term, and it originated as a derivative of the word "cuckoo", as in the cuckoo bird which had a habit of changing mates or laying its eggs in the nest of other birds without their knowing. So the original term "cuckold" was intended to be a derogatory term for a naive, unknowing husband who had been, or was being, cheated on by an unfaithful wife.

By the way, what are the other three types of cuckolds...?
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

In my humble view SheDatesHeWaits is completely correct and erudite and makes a great point!

In its non-fetish sense, being a cuckold implies not knowing - or at least not consenting - which seems to be the definition of your "Innocent Cuckold" category. In terms of fetish, that seems to me that knowledge is the line between cheating and kink. If you don't know, then you aren't getting a thrill from it, so it isn't a fetish activity for you. Of course fantasy is different because anything can happen. If you get off on the fantasy of being cuckolded without your knowledge, that is totally kinky! (Which is meant as a compliment.)

Thanks for sharing this interesting thought.

P.S. I am also interested to hear what the other three categories of cuckold are to you.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Ironically, that's the theme for my latest evolutionary step. Like many cuck couples, our personal definition of 'cheating' is that it is not really cheating since we're both aware of it, and I actually encourage her encounters. However, I also find a perverse thrill in the possibility that she may actually see (or has seen... or IS seeing) someone to whom I'm completely oblivious!

She knows I wouldn't be upset if she actually did. I've even suggested it would be hot for that to happen. She could let me know days or weeks later, as a surprise. Or, if she chooses... not tell me at all. For me, the thrill stems from the possibility that my wife might actually be more promiscuous and slutty than I'm even aware of.

We're odd critters... aren't we? LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Odd critters is so true, SheDatesHeWaits. I don't even recognize the old me who looked to marry a virgin and wished that she would always remain true to me. In those days encouraging my wife to take on lovers would have been inconceivable to my very naïve mind. Fast forward to a time when I not only accepted my cuckold status, but encouraged it and even used trickery and manipulation to make it happen (such as intentionally leaving my wife alone with a horny male friend for long periods of time...giving her plenty of opportunities to make it happen...buying her many sexy, revealing things to wear to her work where I knew there were several guys longing to get into her panties...etc.) From one extreme to the other...the evolution of one lucky hubby! I sure am very fortunate to have made the transformation and would not trade my present role for any other type of sex life. Those who have not personally experienced the thrill of watching that first stranger's cock sliding into and disappearing inside your wife's pussy have no idea the unreal mind blowing utopia that it is!

I've deliberately left my wife unsatisfied sexually... or subtly avoided sex for extended periods of time to make her more motivated to find someone, etc. But I've never deliberately left her with a horny male friend. I like that idea. I'm going to put some thought into ways to arrange that...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Its all down to the base human nature of never being satisfied and seeking the next greater high. In essence we humans are never satisfied with where we are, and what we have, so we seek the next thrill and high and that drives us deeper into the hunt for that, and deeper into the darker side of whatever we are into, it is exactly like a strong addictive narcotic, that if we are not very careful, we will one day look behind us and ask, how the heck did we get to this point? There comes a point in all things where we have crossed the line. Knowing where that line is and stopping just before we cross it is alas a skill few of us possess!

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Well put popeye1. As I think back on boundary lines that I have crossed I reflect on the stress I felt each time, as well as the uncertainty and the anxiety of not knowing if I would regret my actions the next day, or even at a later date. I still so vividly remember laying next to her that first night she had taken on a lover and wondering if I would feel the same for her or if she would feel the same for me. Happiness came when I realized we had actually grown closer to each other. It could very easily have gone the other way, but thankfully it did not! Instead I felt very fortunate as did she to have found each other and to be so understanding of each others' sexual needs. Her actions had put me in voyeuristic heaven and her secret craving for multiple male sex partners had been finally met with my blessings. We felt something like Bonny & Clyde must have felt when they were robbing banks together. Like kids with a new toy we could only have dreamed about before that night.
SheDatesHeWaits, what I would do is ascertain from the guy we were entertaining (having been invited for dinner) if my wife turned him on. Then I would instruct the guy that he should come on to her while I was out. I then made excuses to leave them alone. I would always be running out of something (cigarettes, *******, mixers, etc.) I would intentionally have to go out and get those things and purposely stay gone at least a couple of hours. He knew I would not be back any time soon and I would leave her with a few d r I n k s on her already so she would be relaxed. On a couple of occasions it worked its magic and I returned to a well fucked wife! I later confessed to her and she made a few confessions of her own about how she had (unknown to me) sort of manipulated me into becoming her cuckold hubby, but that is another story.

I'm envious. Although I have enjoyed great success in converting my wife into a Hotwife, it's all been my doing. I would give anything for HER to take the lead and begin deliberately trying to mold my behavior toward a cuck that she finds ideal. However, it probably will never happen. Taking the lead has never really been part of her personality.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits: Yes it was well played and very subtle on her part. I never knew she had such cunning in her and did not suspect anything. She actually was successful in making me think it was all my idea, whenever in the background she was scheming for it to happen all along. I remember one of the first things that happened was her going to a sex toy party with several other wives and having ordered a very realistic dildo about 9" long (raised veins and all and very life-like) which she gift wrapped and presented me with. She said it was all for a joke. Yeah, right! That should have been my first hint. Then we started using the dildo during our love making. She nicknamed it 'Pedro' after a former boyfriend and told me it reminded her of him because he was about the same size. Then she would come home and tell me about a couple of guys at work making advances on to her even though she did not hide the fact that she was happily married. All the time she had been trying to see my reaction to those things and secretly wishing I would take the bait. I had told her how beautiful she looked when I got her to use 'Pedro' on herself while I watched. When I started to push her in the direction of having sex with a stranger I had honestly thought it was my idea, but all along she had been feeling me out. Of course when she finally agreed to 'maybe' give it a try it was all going to be done just to please me and nothing more. She was not sure if she could go through with it, but if it was what I wanted she would try. The first thing she did was ask me if she should go to lunch with one of the guys at work, and if that might make me excited. Of course my mind was exploding with ideas and I eagerly agreed that she should, and then tell me all about it. It slowly took off from there, and all along I was thinking it was all my idea. Of course she was ONLY doing it to please me because she loved me so much. It wasn't until confession time that she admitted about her being turned on by the guy at work and wanting to have sex with him before I even brought up the subject of her fucking other men. On that lunch date she had discovered he was very well hung and then she wanted to go out with him on a Friday night to dinner and a lounge...she later ended up in his apartment. We are naïve little boys whenever a sexy intelligent woman gets a hold of us and leads us by the shaft between our legs! They can then do whatever they want with us and we will be just fine with it and love them all the more! And when it was all said and done I was grateful to her for bringing out in me.

I would love to find out what it's like to be subtly manipulated like that by an assertive woman. However, my wife doesn't have that sort of mind. She's a sweet, kind, submissive type and much more of a follower than a leader. She's not the take charge sort of girl, except in a few situations where I've laid out every step for her, and she simply played the role that was spelled out. Oh well. I'm not gonna worry about it. She fucks other guys regularly to keep me happy. I should count my blessings...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Yes, in a way that's what we originally looked for in a girl to marry. You were lucky to have been able to mold her to your ideas. Mine played the role of being coy and somewhat shy initially but as I much later learned she had a game for me plan all along. She played the part of not being sure if she could go through with it (cuckolding me) but she would 'try' just because I said the idea excited me. As I look back I maybe was very naïve but did not see her manipulative ways until I was totally caught in her web and loving it too much to want to get out. Until that first guy I told her to go out on a date with, I honestly thought it had all been my idea. It first started with her fucking another guy and later telling me the details which made me want to eat her alive when she got home. I stayed home with a rock hard on and played with myself while she was out with the guy. Later she added special treats for me by letting me watch them fucking and I got to somewhat participate in a limited way. The whole ride has blown my mind and I worship her for it. I guess all is well that ends well.