New York Magazine writer admits to being Cuckolded by his wife

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It's always good to see that our lifestyle is becoming more recognized by mainstream news organizations. Like tgis article by Michael Sonmore who readily admits he enjoys hearing hos wife tell him about the men she is fucking after she gets off work as he stays home doing the Mr Mom thing. I am posting but a excerpt with a link, because I am unsure of the rules on posting articles.
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By Michael Sonmore (NewYork Magazine)

As I write this, my ******** are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It's her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she'll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I won't explode with anger or seethe with resentment. I'll tell her it's a hot story and I'm glad she had fun. It's hot because she's excited, and I'm glad because I'm a feminist.

Before my wife started **fucking** other men, I certainly considered myself a feminist, but I really only understood it in the abstract. When I quit working to stay at home with the kids, I began to understand it on a whole new level. I am an economically dependent househusband coping with the withering drudgery of **********. Now that I understand the reality of that situation, I don't blame women for demanding more for themselves than the life of the housewife. (The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!)
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As a cuckold I must admit that I don't consider myself a feminist, but there is nothing sweeter than waiting for my wife to come home with her hair messed up and her dress disheveled. Her panties are usually moist to wet and she still has remnants of her lovers sperm dripping down her thighs for me to clean up as she tells me all about her day.

Any thoughts from anyone on this?

Another man's sperm on myn wife's thighs

My wife never looks so beautiful as she does when another man is fucking a piece of her pussy I could only dream of reaching.

You have joined the ranks of many of us willing or at least accepting, resigned cuckolds. Even besides those of us who are already willing cuckolds for our wives, I am coming to the conclusion that there are a great many married men out there who nevertheless envy our position. We get to keep the woman on an emotional level while she keeps us sexually excited with her escapades with the other men. We look forward to her coming home sexually satisfied and eager to tell us the details and are always hopeful that we will get an invitation to watch and/or participate in her future sexual hook ups. I see it as a win, win, win situation. For the wife, the husband and finally for the bull who gets to fuck our wife without having to ever be confronted by a jealous husband. Actually the jealous husband role has been replaced by the enthusiastic, encouraging husband, willing to consider his wife's sexual needs above everything else. And maybe we may even become the ultimate cuckold actually helping our wife secure well hung studs and getting them ready for her flings by whatever methods are at our disposal. Those may even include us practicing bi-sexual activities with her studs in order to please our woman. Whatever it takes, it's all about HER pleasure, which in turn filters down to us and our pleasure.

It's another small step toward cuckolding becoming better known and hopefully more widely accepted. We were just kicking that subject around on this thread: https://www.cuckoldplace.com/1_89126_1.html
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

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Thanks for the link SheDatesHeWaits
My wife never looks so beautiful as she does when another man is fucking a piece of her pussy I could only dream of reaching.

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You are so right. Every man should allow his wife to be with any man she desires. When you thgink about it, women were made to have multiple partners. Men can last, but just so long. Women can have multiple orgasms and still be horny. They can take more than one lover on at the same time. As much as a man wants to think he is a stud, he can only fuck one woman at a time. Oh he can suck on another woman's pussy, but women can take a cock up her ass, two in her pussy and still suck on a cock or more. My wife is never so beautiful as she is when I see other men fucking her.

In my case I was truly bred to be a cuckold. Something that began when I was a toddler.

My ****** ******** my older sisters when I was but a toddler. My Mom worked so my older sisters raised me. I was present many of the times he was diddling with them. This went on till I was almost 8 years old when he was arrested and went away. By then my brain had already associated the women I love with big cocks. Now my ****** wasn't all that big, but compared to me he was huge. To this day I connect women I love with big cocks, and mine is not big. Hell, my cock is barely 4 ½ when hard on a good day. Most of my wife's lovers are easily 8 inches which is almost twice as big. They have been fucking pussy I can only dream of touching.

When I began dating as a teen I started fantasizing about guys with bigger cocks fucking my girlfriends. I even set things up a few times for my buddies that had bigger cocks to do threesomes with me and my girlfriends just so I could watch them fuck. It wasn't difficult to find friends with bigger cocks since my little dick was one of the smallest. I used to get teased by my friends in the gym showers about how small I was.

It was all in fun, but helped reinforce my understanding that I was inadequate. An understanding I carried with me to this day. Mix that with the fact that since I was a young boy I associated the women I love with other guys with big cocks together. As I said, I was bred to be a cuckold. So when I got married it was only natural that I would desire my woman to be fucked by real men who could truly satisfy her.

I was 20 when I got married to my first wife. She was 25, so she was 5 years older. When I did get married I hid my feelings and desires from her since it wasn't something that was very acceptable in the 1970's. I figured it would always stay in my past. Then one day after we were married for 6 years my when I came home from work and my wife was crying in the living room. As we talked she told me she was sad because of something she did before we met that has bugged her and she wanted to come clean.

Turns out that when she was 18 she got hooked up with a druggie who got her addicted to cocaine. Eventually he had her turning tricks to get the money they needed for *****. Obviously I told her it was OK, but her confession flipped the switch in my head and all I could think of was all those cocks fucking her and all those orgasms she had. I asked her if she knew how many men she fucked and she told me it wasn't that many. Maybe 7 guys and one guy a couple of times because he was fairly wealthy. She turned tricks for only a few weeks before she came to her senses and joined a rehab. Left him and hadn't been with anyone again until she met me.

I was already thinking though that I wanted to watch her get fucked. I then told her about my fantasy's to make her feel better, and asked if she would be willing to let me watch her with another guy. She was obviously cautious about my real intentions. She was sure that it was just a ploy to fuck other women. I eventually convinced her and was able to watch a couple different guys we met at bars to fuck her. Unfortunately, I was very naive about the matters of the heart and after a couple of Months she decided that a guy she met at work that I told her to fuck was better in more ways than just the bed and we ended up divorced. 29 years later they are still married.

Then I tried it with my second wife, but while she was fascinated and agreeable about the whole arrangement, we never got to doing anything because we tragically lost ***. The loss was too much for her to bear and our marriage never recovered so we went out separate ways.

My third wife is 13 years younger than me and she has embraced the lifestyle with joy and understanding. Not at first, but in time she did. I'll share with you how I convinced her another time. It's something that took over 3 years, but when she finally agreed to let me watch another guy fuck her there was no turning back. Trust me, I made sure that the first time was with a guy whom I knew would satisfy her need more than I could. By the time he was finished fucking her, she knew she could not go back to only getting fucked by her 2 pump chump 4 inch peckered hubby again.
My wife never looks so beautiful as she does when another man is fucking a piece of her pussy I could only dream of reaching.

Excellent, well written argument in the praise of cuckolding as a mainstream activity. You've proved you have the right mental attitude to be a fully fledged cuck. Tell us the story of those three years of careful, patient training of your wife for her to become the hotwife she deserves to be.

Most success stories take a long time (including ours). Congratulations on having the patience to do it right. The rewards are SO worth the time and effort.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I guess we all went through those growing pains and the realization that we would make very good cuckolds. One of my turning points was when my wife and I double dated a male friend of mine and his girlfriend. We took her home first at the end of the night, then him and he asked us in for a d r I n k. A ***** turned into several and he asked us to spend the night so I would not be DWI. There was only a sofa bed (an efficiency type of one bedroom apartment where living room doubles as the bedroom) and we all 3 slept on it with my wife in the middle. Some time later I saw my wife going down on him...he thought I was a s l e e p and told her to stop as he was afraid that I might wake up...she just assured him that I would s l e e p like a log and continued to suck his cock until he finally cum stiffening his body as he did. I guess he thought I was none the wiser about his getting that blow job, but little did he know that I totally enjoyed the experience. Having my wife pleasure another man while I watched was just so awesome I have craved it ever since.

Yes, I read the article and I don't think it says what you thiink it does. The author is in an open marriage, he gives no real indication he is a cuck. Need I point out it is not the same thing? There is no reason he might not be, but consider that what you are basing it on is one passing reference to how he will be supportive of his wife by telling her what a hot story it is when she recounts her evening adventure.

All kinds of swingers and polys do that without being cucks.

He also says he has his own date nights out fucking other women and enjoys it a lot. That doesn't necessarily preclude him being a little bit of a cuck, but it doesn't sound like a cuckold marriage or lifestyle to me. Also, when he describes the experience of coming to terms with his wife's interest in other men, and the reality of her screwing around, he never once says he was/is aroused, excited, etc. He says he was threatened, depressed, and had too much red wine for several months, but he faced his fears and realized that they were bullshit and based on a false paradigm of sexual control and ownership. That sounds very liberated, but not very cuck-ish since most cucks get a thrill from being controlled sexually and/or not being in control of their wife.

I get that many of us cucks (and other male subs) would envy him his wife and the elements of his marriage that reverse conventional roles (she earns more, he works from home and takes the load on kid care, etc.), but none of that makes HIM a cuckold fetishist.

Indeed, far from this "mainstream news organization" "recognizing" "our lifestyle," I don't think the article (which is really pretty terrible) ever makes any reference to fetish cuckoldng, or indeed anything more kinky then having an open marriage.
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