Tammy and her office GF's go out twice a week just to unwind and have some fun. Till now , Tammy has gone out, flirted a little but nothing more. Her friends Sheri, Susan, and Cindy are all on their second marriages, and Sheri and Cindy have married black guys the second time around. I am trying to find a way to let my bride know that I would love her to go beyond her very benign flirting and to let herself be picked up by some guy. The safety problem is real, and I have chatted with her girlfriends, without Tammy knowing and all three have told me that they know a lot of "safe" guys who would really love to get to know Tammy.
Some times Tammy is the only one who comes home after a night out, while the others spend the "night" with their dates. I would love her to call me at home and say, "Dan, I hope you don't mind but I am not going to be home tonight , so relax well." I would be hard all night knowing that my Tammy is in some other guys bed that night. This coming Tuesday, the girls are going out again, so I would like some advice, on how I can let her know that it would be alright for her to be picked up by a guy that her friends know and trust. Infact, all three of her friends, met their current husbands doing that, being introduced by people who knew they were good and safe dating prospects. I have to be honest and tell eveyone that I am turned on by the possibility that Tammy could take a second look at her friends an say " they are doinging pretty well, maybe I should try this lifestyle".
FYI: Tammy is 24 and I am 26. We both work in marketing/advertising but with different companies. We have been married 3 years and no youngren, by choice, but would not be upset if a pregnancy occurs.
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